I shared so much with this girl for 3 1/2 years. Anyone know how to get over this? I'm fucking drained right now.
>>38461475
Arson is always a good pick-me-up.
>>38461475
Time
It's tired and true anon you'll just have to grieve it out. It'll get better as time passes
>>38461492
I've got a big bottle of Jager helping me so far.
>>38461475
Just remember, there is some slag guy in India who is 60 years old, still a virgin and eating dead cats out of garbage cans with shit in them.
At least you had something for a minute.
>>38461475
Did you keep any of her undergarments?
>>38461475
>have this atm
>want to break it up
>>38461475
leaf nao and never come back
>>38461781
Anon I'm curious now. What do you have, and why do you want to break it up?
What the fuck.
Am I even on r9k? Why are you normies even fucking here?
>>38461475
Get outta here normie filth.
>>38461902
>>38461922
Head on over to wizchan or hikkichan. They're waiting for you.
>>38461879
Been in an online relationship for years. We're compatible in many ways, and others really not. These other ways will probably never leave, and they will get worse as it goes on. I tried to give it a shot, but in reality it simply cannot work. At this point they're into me more than I am them. But I don't want to hurt them. So I don't say anything... Because I'm a coward. Maybe it will get worse, and their best years will be behind them. At that point they will hate me.
If you're OP, then you should be happy that they did. It might hurt, but you will get over it probably, and they did you a favour, instead of subjecting you to torture. They likely think you can do better--you probably can.
>Anyone know how to get over this?
I advise you take it to /adv/
>>38461936
Shut it newfag, you're out of your depth
>>38461944
fuck dude. That's almost exactly how I was. I wanted to give them love but I couldn't. I never knew what it was like to be wanted my whole life. She clearly wanted me, and I had no idea how to give it back.
I fucking blew it.
>>38461967
>newfag
>r9k
Looking forward to high school starting again soon?
>>38462015
I hate talking to non-native english speakers
>>38461986
I am not the person to waste their time on. They can do better, even if they don't want to. I am having serious identity issues, and they don't know. I can't tell them, because it will hurt them. I am not sure what to do.
Any of you who are comfortable with your sexuality should IMMEDIATELY feel gracious for that certainty. I cannot even form the basis of what I ought to do for a relationship, IF I can even get one properly.
>>38462046
Not sure whether to feel grateful or angry
What I mean by this is that I have serious trust issues with people, even my own family. I don't know why I can't trust someone who's been nothing but nice to me and shows me that they loved me to the moon and back.
>>38462140
I understand this too. I am distrustful, and I retreat from responsibility. Commitment is suffering for me. I am not comforted by stability.
>>38462174
Is there a medical diagnosis for this?
why did you break up OP?
also yeah, check /adv/ , this is r9k dude
don't ruin the board even more, it's already filled with normies;feminists and lgbt fags
>>38462221
antisocial personality disorder perhaps
psychopath/sociopath in the extremes
Same for me about five months ago, it just takes time. Cut off contact with her. Now. It makes it SO much easier man, just prevent the opportunities for remembering what you had until the wound has healed.
>>38462537
she already blocked me, so not like I can do anything right now.
>>38461944
>Been in an online relationship
online relationships are not real relationships just role playing ya dumb faggo
I got ghosted by my gf last year OP. She tried to get back together like nothing ever happened a few months ago. Kinda wish I just got her pregnant so she'd always have to be in my life desu
>>38461492
Haha incitement to commit a criminal act is hilarious!!
>>38462915
Because it totally was a legit suggestion, right? Like how instead of telling someone to rape or kill, you say sexually assault or murder just to make sure you get that terminology in there so they don't mess up the crime.
>>38461475
>Just got dumped
>3 1/2 years
FUCK OFF NORMIE SCUM.
>>38461475
Surry OP. This is a sad thing to read.
How old are you OP? I need to know this in order to give you opinion or advice.
>>38463107
>Calling others normies
>Using pepe
>>38461475
Dont to what I did and become weed/booze addicted. Wont help shit. And btw. GET THE FUCK OUT TURBONORMIE -,- REEEE!!!
Man, that's quite an achievement. She wasn't for you and that's ok, you'll find someone, there's time :)
>>38461475
A cold one with the boys
>>38462860
>she tried to get back together
What did you back then anon?