I want to be normal.
I never think about sex. It just doesn't cross my mind. The thought even somewhat scares me if I try really hard to imagine it happening.
I want to fall in love with someone and make him happy. I want to get married and have a family. I know these are silly and unambitious dreams, but they're mine.
I'm 22 and still a virgin who's never dated, even though I'm in college. I can tell that objectively I'm pretty attractive, and also based upon circumstantial evidence. I just don't know what is wrong with my brain in this regard. I want to try fixing it.
I think I want to try masturbating for the first time tonight.
I don't know how to touch myself. I feel really uncomfortable with the idea of watching a porn to learn. Does someone here know how to make it feel good when you touch yourself?
It hurts when I touch my clit. I've tried licking my fingers and just rubbing around, and that was better. But I don't know what else to do.
I have butterflies right now and I've gotten flushed in my face and now all the way across my arms.
What is wrong with me?
Just buy a vibrator and relax, you don't have to penetrate
If you get anxious and tense up it won't be fun
>>38445955
>Femanon
>still a virgin
I'll allow it. Proceed.
Take it slow, there's no need to rush. You can be as gentle and cautious as you want while you figure out what works for you and what doesn't.
Don't watch pornography to learn, that's all about what looks good for the camera and not what feels good.
I haven't thought about sex in 2 months. Just go with the hormones.Sorry but I can't (You) you.
>>38445955
I just grab my dick and pull on it.
You're normal for you and that's all that matters stop catastrophizing and just be you. We're all different. Relax.
>I want to fall in love with someone and make him happy. I want to get married and have a family. I know these are silly and unambitious dreams, but they're mine.
admirable. truly.
>>38445955
Why bother with it? If all you want is a family, then masturbation/sexual pleasure is worthless.
If you're not going to enjoy it, then it's worthless, and if you do enjoy it, it'll just be a distraction from more important things.
Anyway, good luck on finding a husband and having a family, it shouldn't be too hard as long as you're careful who you choose.
From the age of 11 I have had sexual thoughts at least once per day after discovering how good it felt to touch myself. Not just the physical feeling but interaction with another person gets me excited.I think of doing it with my friends, family, and strangers. The thought of the pleasure gained from the activity and feeling the other person is what gets me off. I must actively work to suppress these thoughts. Everyone's brain is different.
It's a sensation you either love or hate I suppose, sex isn't for everyone. If you truly want to increase your libido you should sit down and objectively determine what physical aspects you like in others, and explore your own body.
Have you ever considered you might be lesbian?
>>38445955
Have a glass of wine. Turn down the lights, get in the bathtub and let the water spout hit you where it feels good.
Don't expect or even try to cum the first several times. It takes awhile to fix the mind body connection. After many weeks if that doesn't progress upgrade to a vibe, also this is very normal
>>38445955
Being asexual and having a low sex-drive are two different things. If you have these dreams, you aren't asexual. Don't worry so much about it.
t. straight malebot who has both same libido and dreams as you
>>38445955
You have hormonal problems that's preventing you from liking sex. Go see a doctor, it's actually a treatable problem and has nothing to do with sexuality.
>asexual
Don't fall for tumblr memes.
>>38446123
Asexual is quite literally fan fiction made up by some whackos that wanted to be special.
The general rule here is that before you state your business you have to show us your tits and a timestamp. If you cannot so this you have to leave
>>38445955
Where do you live? If you're in the US I can pay you a visit and walk you through it. From masturbation, to sex, and how to please a man, and yourself in bed. I can also spot if there is anything physically wrong with you that you should address with a doctor.
>>38445955
i'm pretty fucking sure op is a larping homo looking for attention.
a couple lines toward the end of his post brought up some of my red-flags.