Do you have a good relationship with your father?

>>38443595
My father's dead, so yeah I have the best relationship with him ever.

No. I didn't get the chance to meet him or talk to him before I was born, he died on a car crash.

He left me 8 years ago and used to beat my mom and sometimes me. So.. Not really.

>>38443595
Now I do. Growing up, no.

>>38443595
He died when I was a child, so no.

>ultra liberal boomer father with low test (teacher) who barely knows me
>favors my brother (the same brother who has been violent and told him to "fuck off")
>was never a true father figure so I had to figure so much shit out on my own
It sucks man. I can't hate him, but I can't really love him either. On the surface we might seem similar because he is my fucking dad, but we're too different to really function together. He hasn't given me any helpful, or any actually, advice for years. He's also passive aggressive to the moon.
So no, I do not. If I did I probably wouldn't be here, for better or for worse.

>>38443595
I'm pretty neutral with my father. We don't have much in common, other than that we're both quiet types, so we don't have that much interaction.

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We're okay, I still live with my parents. He treats me like a kid a lot of times though which is incredibly patronizing, even though I enjoy it sometimes. Used to be a little more rough with disciplining me when I was young but it's changed the past year, he's become more caring and supportive. Kind of a helicopter parent though, like my mom. At least he still shouts at me when I'm an idiot.
I'm glad I came out of him, and I'm sorry for everyone who had to grow up with terrible parents. That shit sucks.

>>38443595
yes despite the fact he raised me to be the loser i am today.

>>38443595
he's a good guy an expects alot from me
i know in his eyes im a complete failure and fuck up, we have almost nothing in common, i think he suspects there is something very wrong with me but has no idea how to handle it

>>38443595
He died, one of the people I respected the most in my life, he was kind of a chad and im the opposite to him, yet we got along extremely well.

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He really didn't give a shit I existed until I was 18, but now we're cool.

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>>38443595
I do but he doesn't like to express himself. He keeps himself to himself.

>tfw no kyoudai

>>38443896
Please don't post images that cute, I don't like it.

>>38443595
We're similar mentally I think. I got most of m shit from him. He's more failed normie; Married twice, had kid (me) at 18, but has been to psych ward several times. I'm robot; LV20 KVH, semi-suicidal, not medicated, no job, no motivation. He takes pills which keep up his act. If he didn't, he'd probably have offed himself by now. I will soon

He beat me when I was younger. Fucked up my childhood in a few other ways. I've kinda forgiven him but I don't think I could ever have a truly good relationship with him. He was constantly drunk and can't even remember most of that shit. That or he pretends it didn't happen so he can feel better about himself. I don't really care about all that anymore though. It's so far behind me. I can't really deal with his personality though. He's a bit of a controlling asshole. I have my own plans and I want to do shit my own way. I always have. I just end up pissing him off. But I'm an adult and I have been for a whole decade now, I don't really care what he thinks about what I do.

Nope. Mom was a homeschooled rich kid sperg who only got forced into a party by her Stacy sister, met Dad, got knocked up by Dad since he was the only male to ever show interest in her at that point, hung around until I was 5 and then ghosted. Mom remained a forever alone spergette and barely leaves the house (probably why I'm the same), found out Dad became a pastor several states away for a while until he ghosted that too and is now, I shit you not, a gay prostitute in New Orleans.

>>38444284
you should find him and make fun of him.

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>>38443595
I don't really know. He lives with me but he's never been close and is emotionally distant. He tends to just rant to me about all his problems, but when I do the same he just goes on about how his childhood was worse. I don't really feel much towards him other than contempt that he lets his siblings walk all over him. I found a father figure in someone else though, and I used to feel really bad about it but I don't have anyone else to confide to and ask for direction in my meaningless life.

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>>38444147
What's wrong with it anon?

Cute is nice

>>38444371
>not find him and fuck him

Come on it was right there

>>38443595
Pretty decent but it's like a split personality kind of thing. When I was a little kid I was always scared of my father but before middle school I realized that he was actually a nice guy. He had some pretty fun hobbies, some anime, some gunpla, guns, and hand built RC cars. He was also pretty ripped and wouldn't take shit from anyone outside the family. As the second son I'm pretty much the replacement "son" when the eldest son my parents are proud of is home. He's pretty aloof and looks down on everyone while I'm pretty much the opposite so they take me as the son with the desirable traits a parent would want in a son when he's not around. I don't really care that much really, my brother happens to be the extremely successful one so I don't blame them. I guess you could call it a strained relationship but if I pretend everything is fine and I don't notice anything then the relationship with my parents is fine.

>>38443595
I have two fathers, one from each of my mother's marriages, and I love them both to death. They're both super proud of me and we have great relationships. I've been known to call one or the other of them just to shoot the shit or share a special accomplishment.

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>>38444381
It reminds me I'm lonely.
>ywn have a qt relationship with a qt3.14 who looks like 2B. or any qt3.14 for that matter.
Should have hanged myself on the umbilical cord at birth, desu.

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>>38443786
what the fuck
you're me
except I don't have a brother

>>38444610
Well then hey at least you got that going for you.

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>>38444529
I think delving into fantasy is a good substitute. Don't dwell on what you can't have, enjoy what you can.
Maybe find a hobby to help you forget the loneliness.

>>38444690
I would have preferred having a sibling desu senpai
at least then there would have been someone to talk to

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>left when I was 5
>lived with us for 6 months when I was 11, then left again
>died homeless a few years later when I was 13

there's feels here somewhere

>>38443896
You're only 18, you're going to be treated like a kid for at least a few more years.

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Physically and mentally abuse "self employed" alcoholic who would blow up and beat me at random when I was a kid. Not really much else to say really, he's just garbage.

>>38444724
If it makes you feel any better I haven't talked with my brother for about 4 years now.

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>>38444807
Yeah you're probably right, and considering how my parents treat me now those are going to be a long few years. But part of me thinks they'll always just see me as their broken daughter.
I'll miss getting carried around though.

>>38444708
I guess, but it's still sad.

>>38445143
>18 year old female thinks her life is rough

Get out.

>>38443595
It was pretty good until he up and left my mom after my grandfather/his dad died, then he fell back into heavy drugs and got arrested for dealing drugs and sentenced to (?) years.
Haven't had any contact with him in years

He was pretty emotionally distant since he never really had a father figure of his own. Did the best he could given the circumstances.

>>38443595
i hate the fucker and ive always wanted to beat him to a pulp after leaving my mom in tears at the age of 4 , you know what is worst? that i have the same face and the same personality and my family for some stupid reason say "you look and act exactly like him" ...
i see the man i hate the most everyday in the mirror

Well it's good but not healthy I suppose. Something we keep a secret.

Supposedly he used to be a Chad in high school. Played baseball in high school/college and broke records, but around the time I was born he started taking pain pills and subsequently became a life-long addict. He clearly wanted me to do well at sports like him, but I was a total sperg. I mean, what parent doesn't want their kid to be a sports star, but I was awful and this made him hate me. He also had this bizarre need to shave me, trim my finger and toe nails, trim my pubes, pop pimples on my face and back, would insist on smelling my penis after I got out of the shower to make sure it smelled nice and that it was clean of smegma, even though I was circumcised, would smell my armpits to make sure they smelled nice, and would sometimes walk around the house naked and take showers with me. This went on until I was about 16. If he could see me today, I'm all but certain he would hate me even more than before and I do carry a certain amount of guilt since it seems like my being born is what made him an addict.

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>>38443595
non-existant.
He did provide for us the best he could, but he is the stoic, cold type who would rarely say anything be it good or bad.