Went to a house party last night. Started socialising with a Estonian girl who is here for 2 years to learn English and works as a cleaner.
I'm not good looking but very strong and fit, white and have my own house, car and above average job.
During the night she seemed pretty interested was flirty to me. As a group of friends we all got very drunk and even more so at the bar .
At the bar I kept buying her drinks and we would taste each other's drinks, she would let me share her cigarettes.
Basically I ask for her number and she gives it to me but says we can only be friends because she has a friend with benefit (some black Brazilian guy who is also a cleaner). She seemed pretty serious about wanting me to text her the next day (which I did and surprise she didn't even read my message)
We are both 30. I thought it was only young women who liked being used as side chicks to handsome guys.
Unless you are really handsome you won't get one night stands, fwbs or a girlfriend. This only happens to desperate women over 35