>be alcoholic drug addict neet for 6 months >get job >clean

>>38319645
You stay clean by not doing drugs.
There's really no way around it.
I cleaned up really well because I got to a point in my life where I no longer had the option to keep using.
Some people can clean up on their own, some people need to use NA/AA programs to stay sober.
Consider attending a meeting (it's free and there is coffee) to see if it's for you I guess.

Rotate drugs so you don't get addicted to a single one. It's ok to be addicted to drugs in general.

>>38319778
I need a gf or animal or plant or a business or some long term thing to look forward to. Maybe I should try church or meditation again. I tried meditation before with a pro and it made me feel pretty good after which was really surprising

>>38319843
Church can be cool. AA and NA meetings usually take place at churches for the record. It's also a good way to make friends who can put you into social situations where you may meet women.
Or get some good gardening equipment and grow some awesome plants or get a puppy with the money you haven't spent on drugs.
Try to learn a new language or tie your ass hairs in a knot with your butt cheeks idk