The problem might not be you, but the mass guerrilla marketing by Tinder on sites like Reddit and 4chan leading you to believe that hookups happen on Tinder far more often than they do.
>>38288994
No idea why people didn't recognize the obvious marketers. You have 90+% of guys complaining about how difficult it is to find a match. Then, you have the lone male who spouts "WELL I HOOK UP WITH HOT CHICKS ALL THE TIME BRAH. IT'S SO EASY JUST DOWNLOAD THIS APP"
>>38288994
How do you know that they're both iOS?
>>38289089
Same icon set being used. It COULD be heavily modified android to look like iOS, but even if that is the case, it is being passed off as iOS, and the app wouldn't have differences in it