What's the protocol for getting phone numbers on tinder?

honestly you either do it and risk them ignoring you or dont do it and they'll never take initiative, im giving up on tinder.

>>38247141
dude you should ask her on a date after like 2 messages

>>38247141
>"you should text me", and give my number.
Women don't take initiative for things like that and being asked to do so makes a lot of them uncomfortable. The faux-alpha "you're going to me at x at y o clock" is really lame and doesn't actually work, but leading is much better than making her make the decisions and the contact etc.

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>>38247185

Most girls worth dating want an idea of who you are before they agree to go on a date with you, unless they are total whores. I don't even talk to them that long before asking them out, i want to know a bit about them too before I decide anyway. I'm not that desperate.

And voila, her number.

>>38247141
>>38247215

You're both retarded, you NEVER tell them to text you, you ask for their number after a few minutes and continue the conversation there.

that conversation looks boring as fuck. you two have no chemistry.

give up op

>>38247263
I was telling him to ask for her number retard

>>38247215

I just always figured that since they get to be the choosey ones, i'd throw out an offer and let them decide of they want it, but i guess i was wrong. The change-up to my method has been a VAST improvement, and even though it worked sometimes before, this way seems to make them want to talk to me more.

>>38247244
>Sleep well!

Criiinge she is going to forget about you tomorrow OP

>>38247244
>Most girls worth dating want an idea of who you are before they agree to go on a date with you
Not on tinder. If you match with a girl, you better be talking about banging her within a couple of messages

>>38247279
"Chemistry" in tinder is usually just exchange of quips between two people that gets boring quite fast until someone either ghosts the other or brings up serious questions. They seem to be on the serious note, which is perfectly fine for a serious relationship. Girls on tinder are fickle as fuck and get "quirky" messages all the time.

>>38247279

It's good to have boring text conversations you retarded fuck. I hate girls who write me a fucking novel at every text. You cover just about everything with them and there's nothing to say when you meet. You save all the ACTUAL talk for a date. Texting is for setting shit up and maybe some small talk here and there to show they have your attention.

>>38247357

You got it twisted. I go into 'alpha fux' mode messages sometimes, some girls are into it, some are disgusted. Not everyone uses tinder to fuck, some are looking for a relationship. And not everyone uses okc for a serious relationship, some use it just to fuck.

>>38247334

Idc, i have a date with a different one next week anyway