>tfw scare away every guy that shows interest in me because

>tfw no clingy insecure fembutt gf

>>38227021
How clingy are we talking? Got any stories?
sorry if I sound insensitive, I just feel like there's a story coming on

>>38227021
just post your contact already

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>>38227076
This. I was gonna say "Hah, try me" but I figure that's what this thread was for anyway.

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>>38227021

pls cling to me and i'll cling right back

>>38227021
Well as a guy with the exact opposite problem, I feel your pain.

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>tfw I'm extremely clingy male

people are fine if you're a girl and like that but no one wants to be around a lonely desperate-for-attention guy

>>38227122
I bet you'd get sick of a clingy girlfriend if you had one.

>tfw no controlling and possessive bf

>>38227137

well id take that bet because id sure like to have someone interested in me
and man am i interesting.

>>38227132
Same here, fembots have life on easymode

>>38227132
where are you from? clingy is cool with me

>tfw your bpd is too bad to maintain friendships
>tfw you switch between worshiping people and devaluing them to worthlessness
I wish I could stop.

>>38227132
>>38227160
Please stop making my thread about yourselves, thanks

>>38227122
>>38227101
>>38227076
>>38227048
I still like my crush

>>38227068
He went to sleep without saying goodnight and I got scared so I drove to his house and knocked on his window. He got mad and told me not to contact him anymore

>tfw literally not a single IRL or even interwebs grill shrows even a shred of interest in talking for more than two seconds

I'm not sure I've ever felt this empty and lonely before and it crushes me

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>>38227021
These aren't feelings anyone wants, I'm sorry that you have to go through this.
It's because you're letting them get too much physically and too fast

I believe in you, anon. You CAN have self respect in 2017!

>>38227207

>i still like my crush

Then any further consumption of your life and words is valueless to me.
Bye.

>>38227021
fyi, clingy is just another word for boring.

no one cares if they get bothered with a "clingy" girl that says interesting shit.
it's the boring mundane horseshit that clingey girls spew that makes people hate them.

>>38227021
The girls like this, if you meet them on the internet, ghost you after you mess up one thing, the guys don't leave the girls do, unless the girl expects you to track them down.

>>38227207
Why did you get scared? Thought he was cheating, got sick, etc.?

>>38227215
We had only kissed after going on a few dates

>>38227225
>it's the boring mundane horseshit that clingey girls spew that makes people hate them.

such as? i hope you know life isn't going to be all spectacles and enlightening sensations. love is being there during mundane too

>>38227234
I thought something might be wrong and was too anxious to go to bed without knowing if he was ok

>>38227212
The only one that did in my life ended up cheating on me with four guys and made me pay for an apartment meant for us alone after dumping me and letting me know about that shit a day before we moved. This was a couple of years ago.

I would much rather not have met anyone than keep living through this shit.

>>38227212
Why does no one show interest in you anon?

>>38227132
I prefer extremely clingy male companions.
this is because I'm a manipulative, clingy, insecure piece of shit, but it is my genuine preference

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>>38227132

I know these feels.

>tfw so clingy last LDR gf had to dump me for my own good.

I just want to cling to a possessive qt, is it so much to ask. As a tall lanklet, my dream is a femlet tsundere

>>38227278
Give me your contact info please

>>38227247
the shit like what your cat is doing.
the avocado you ate a few hours ago.
the cookie you saw at the store but you didn't get.
the way stacy did her hair.
the thing where someone look at you in class and you felt creeped out.

>such as? i hope you know life isn't going to be all spectacles and enlightening sensations. love is being there during mundane too
yeah sure, but you don't have to talk to us every second about it. sometimes we have lives we like to do shit in where we don't have to read your messages all day.
And when we don't, you get mad at us lol

I'm not trying to be a dick i'm just trying to tell you some perspective from the other side.

>>38227261
I want to buy you a drink holy shit

>>38227254
Ok I can see where you're coming from then, I get those kind of anxious feelings all the time. You've just got to put faith in yourself that not everything will go wrong, it seems like both of you guys overreacted a bit so I hope you can find a way to make up

>>38227298
I can't, Anon. I'm trying to be good and loyal to someone already.

>>38227301
I don't get mad, because I know it annoys people. I just cry alone

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>>38227192
I'm from texas. How about you?
>>38227207
Sorry I didn't mean to make it about me....I'm feeling so alone I thought it'd make me feel better to talk with all you anons
>>38227278
Wait really? there's actually women that like clingy men? hm.
I'm not even talking about relationships tho I can even be really clingy just with friends. (since I have so few and I'm really afraid of people leaving me)

>>38227315

no one should even bother being a pseudo orbiter for you. you got nothing to give these poor robots.
just fuck off and fix your life with your lover boy.

>>38227261

Goddamn, anon, that sucks. Loneliness or not, at least I'm not down some quadra-betrayal and god knows how much cash.

>>38227263

Asperger's is one hell of a drug.

Do you know why you're like that? Because I used to be, and it was because my family treated me like shit and I got no love from them. I only got better after therapy etc.
Conversely, I also know what a clingy girlfriend is like (I'm a lesbian) and I can see the guys' perspective. It's scary at worst, annoying at best.

>>38227207
>Please stop making my thread about yourselves, thanks

>makes a thread to spawn conversation
>gets irritated when it's not about her
"Look I have a vagina, I have problems! Pay attention to me!"
I hope you stay alone forever you dumb cunt

>>38227333
Im from connecticut, do you have somewhere I can reach you?

>>38227313
I wish I could just skip to the sleeping over phase of a relationship without the expectation for sex

>>38227355
email? discord? something like that?

>>38227207
>He went to sleep without saying goodnight and I got scared so I drove to his house and knocked on his window.

Damn it, I just wished the female I talked to for a month was like this. At least you fucking care.

>>38227321
meh "fixing" yourself is one of the hardest things to do.
maybe you'll recognize why you like the guys you like; because they do interesting things and have a life. you have to let them live it too though. the coolest guys i know hate, especially, when they feel controlled (such as by a clingy girl), it sucks the life out of them. no one wants that.
good luck on your journeys.

>>38227207
>He went to sleep without saying goodnight and I got scared so I drove to his house and knocked on his window. He got mad and told me not to contact him anymore

HOLY shit i just spit out my milk laughing

>>38227355
Yeah, email me here [email protected]

>>38227344
I dont see why aspergers would repel people. I would be interested in conversing with you!

>>38227374
Why are you laughing anon? I'm crying over this

>>38227367
I wish that's how he felt

>>38227365
email is good, post a throwaway

>>38227389
are you that used tampon collecting poster?

>>38227308
>>38227344
It's alright m8s, it's just another obstacle to move past. I'm gonna get something to drink.

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>>38227333
Yes. It's because I have to know someone is 100% entirely dedicated to me. Otherwise, I panic and spiral, and I become the clingy, obsessive one and I don't like being so vulnerable. I guess it's a power thing. Someone once described my behavior as trying to form my own male harem. They're probably right. I hoard people because I'm scared every last of of them will eventually leave me.

>>38227342
I am trying, Anon. I don't want to lead people on anymore. It's wrong.

>>38227391
>>38227376
wait which one is the right person

Clingy male anon's email:
[email protected]

>>38227391
I did here
>>38227376
oregano

>>38227421
you are psycho and belong on Maury

>>38227361
It all depends on the person. I mean you could always just try to explain why you feel how you do to them. And if all else fails, as painful as it can be, try to move onto someone more understanding of clinginess

>>38227405
No? I'm fairly normal aside from how I act in a relationship and liking anime/video games I guess

>>38227421
Are you from Europe? origi

>>38227433
uriteurite

>>38227438
No. US.

>>38227021
>>tfw scare away every guy that shows interest in me because I'm too clingy

If that scared them away they were probably going to pump and dump you.

>>38227421
>I hoard people because I'm scared every last of of them will eventually leave me.
dat BPD

>>38227450
He was fine with no sex. I told him I didn't want to have sex for a few months

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>>38227021

>no femlets will ever want a clingy very tall lanklet robot

I just want to hug and carry you

>>38227466
>He was fine with no sex.

lmao you seriously cannot believe that

7/10 failed normie here. There is nothing wrong with being clingy. Dated a few clingy girls, it's not so bad as long as you don't let it get out of control. Just set some boundaries for yourself.

Another clingy guy from Texas here

[email protected]

All I want is a clingy internet gf but the only femanons that ever add me on this site speak to me for a day then ghost me

>>38227472
I only like chubby guys anon, sorry

>>38227466
Why would he lie to me? :c

as long as your pussy clings to my dick it's all good

>>38227472
That is exactly what I want, you dummy.

>>38227483
meant to reply to >>38227475
original post plz

>>38227484
I won't have sex with a guy until at least a few months of dating and commitment

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>>38227482
ay I'm the original clingy guy from texas back off

just kidding. haha where are you from in texas?
Austinfag here

>>38227483
to mess with you. perhaps he thought he could get your panties off sooner

>>38227483
>Why would he lie to me? :c
In hopes that you'll change your mind earlier

>>38227514
or maybe he's just not a chubby chaser and doesn't wanna admit it

>>38227500

H town my dude

Btw there are zero femanons in Texas this I can guarentee

>>38227528
but I'm 5'2 and 110 lbs

>>38227519
>>38227514
He's a nice boy. He wouldn't do that

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>>38227533
yeah there's not many. h town pretty cool though. Texas is stacy central (except for austin because everyone here is a libtard snowflake turbo sjw)
that's a joke btw, because I've never met any women from here

I used to think that clingy gf would be the shit since no one's really shown me a shred of love for over twenty years, but considering the emotional trainwrecks and manipulative cunts I've encountered over the years, I'm actually kinda scared of engaging in anything that'll end up in getting my house set on fire.

>>38227489

>tfw we don't know each other

how much of femlet are you?

>>38227553

Yeah I like a lot of things about Texas but this is one of the worst states for a robot to live in, surrounded by turbo normies in all directions

And yeah Austin is pretty shit, what's the point of living in Texas if you go to the one place that tries to be California

The question is whether you would tone that shit down after a while.

I can understand why a person might be clingy, and I'd be fine with a girl being like that at the start.
But if you're still doing that after months together, it would start to get annoying, and possibly a little insulting.
Would you ever be able to just accept that I am completely dedicated to you, and I'm not going to leave?
What would that take?

>>38227597
a crowbar ayyyyy

>last girl I talked to said she was extremely clingy to people she liked
>three messages a week was apparently clingy to her

>>38227597
It's not that I'm worried they'll leave me. It's that I'm worried something bad will happen to them

>>38227421

>I hoard people because I'm scared every last of of them will eventually leave me.

and there's the problem

I used to be afraid of being left behind too, until I started leaving people behind. The thing is, people are fucked up in their priorities, they'll chase after what seems harder to get

You're a girl, making yourself seem scarce is what your gender does best. (Hence all these anons who haven't figured out that it's a numbers game and there as many girls as there are guys withing a margin of error of about 3%)

>>38227379

Er, sure. You got discord, anon? Something else?

>>38227651
Okay, that's adorable.
It'd be annoying, but it'd be nice to have somebody care that much.

>>38227367
>care

That's not caring..

>>38227727
Yes, I have discord. Post it please, or a throwaway email.

>>38227742

Karhast#5688

>>38227021
This is a very annoying, attention seeking thread. What the hell is wrong with you people who are actually replying?

>>38227852
>What the hell is wrong with you people who are actually replying?

terrible loneliness

>>38227852
>robot makes thread about personal problems
>hang in there, bud!

>fembot makes thread expressing troubles
>reeeee attention whoreeeeeee!!!!!!1

>>38227913
First of all, I'm female and I usually enjoy the femanon threads. I still think this thread is shit. It's a girl whining for attention in the first post. If you can't see through that then there is no hope left for you. OP is very manipulative.

>>38227742
>>38227792

Not sure if you tried adding me yet, but it might be the whole case-sensitive thing Discord has going on

>>38227940
I'm OP. I guess I did want attention because I feel very sad, but it's no different than robots posting similar threads and asking for kind words to help them feel better

>>38227940
I just realized there's another thread just like this one somewhere, I only posted in the other one because I occasionally post that I'm looking for people to play Ark with, lonely threads seem like a good place to start. Didn't realize OP was an attention seeking roastie.

>>38227989
>Didn't realize OP was an attention seeking roastie
I'm not a roastie :c
Why do you have to be mean?

>>38227995
Tbh famalam I don't care what gender you are, nor am I interested in pursuing you. I'm just using your thread to try and get people to play vidya with.

>>38228008
Make your own thread then? People who derail threads are cancer

im so starved for female attention
kirr me

>>38227734
Call it as you like, it would sure be nice to be so important to her that she pulls somethings like that over such a little matter. Guess I would rather like an obsessive girl over someone who blows you off to watch TV.

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>meet cute shy fembot type
>acts pure
>just wanted a friend since im not interested in women anyways
>invites me to her server and its literally a collection of guys that orbit her
>tells me about how she calls up random dudes to fuck them constantly
>still tries to pretend to people that shes this pure innocent neet
its crazy how much guys will delude themselves for a chance at a warm slit

>>38227021
>Tfw im a clingly bf
>Talk to him on discord almost all day
>If he's away for more than ten mins I will say I miss you etc

If a girl was clingy, I'd assume she was projecting her desire to cheat on to me, and I would beat the shit out of her.

>>38228163
I don't want to cheat I just get anxious for the person I'm dating's safety :c

>>38228039
Get fucked, how about that?

>>38228200
>acting like a tripfag
Have some decency

>>38228255
Thread's already dead, enjoy your night dickmouth.

>>38227132
>tfw if I ever got a gf I'd probably couldn't stand being around her for extended periods of time
I guess being around each other but doing your own things would be okay too.
Being a loner for 27 years does things to you.

>>38228264
Being nice to people gets you farther in life

>>38227021
>Fembots
>had guys interested in her, I bet you are not even virgin.

fuck you you are just normal but stupid girl

>>38228321
Go on and ask me if I care. Not that you'd know what the struggle is, being a roastie and all.

>>38228181
I'd assume this is just a cover for you wanting to cheat on me, and beat the shit out of you.

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>>38227021
>clingy

I'm a virgin that's never had a girl friend. Can someone explain what being clingy means?

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fuck off roastie bitch, you are not fembot

>>38228386
It means she won't let you have any alone time and she will always be fishing for compliments and reassurances. She will basically suck the life out of you and make you wish you had remained alone.

>>38228414

But if I like her why wouldn't I want to be with her and give her compliments?

>>38228181
>I just get anxious for the person I'm dating's safety
Do you live in an especially diverse area or something?

>>38228414
>She will basically suck the life out of you

as long as that's not all she sucks out of me

>>38228429
Not really. It's an irrational fear probably stemming from the fact that my dad died in a car accident

all women are clingy.
you might thing you are special, but you are not, you are just like the other girls, and that is a good thing I suppose.

The reason why you might be scaring them away might because you are:
1. not attractive enough for them
2. underage
3. untrustworthy

>>38228425
Trust me, it will become old very fast. Having someone constantly harass you for attention or question you about where you have been or constantly asking you, "Why don't you love me? You want to play video games for 20 minutes instead of be with me? You don't like me at all! Gimme attention ATTENTION ATTENTION." Nothing you do will ever be enough. Fucking horrible.

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>Men willingly come to you themselves with no effort on your part
>But I have it hard because I chase them all away by acting like a psycho!
>By the way, this thread totally isn't me fishing for attention or compliments!

Drink bleach, you dumb cunt.

>>38228475

But if I felt like that, I would tell her that. I just don't understand relationship problems because to me, it seems like it all stems from people lying and hiding shit from the other person almost as if they don't really give a shit about the other person, they just want to get what they want from them and then do their own thing.

>>38228448
Oh damn, that was going to be my next guess.
I think I'd be a lot more understanding of clinginess caused by that, it's quite a different story to the constant need for attention/lack of trust kind of clinginess.

>>38227021
JUST LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE THEN!

I like you already, so why the fuck do you clingy fucks have such a physical NEED for me to constantly talk to you. I have a life of my own, I want to have time to myself.

My last gf was fucking hell, clingy as shit and she would cry every time I ignored her for a day or so. I need a woman who can go for at least 2 days without contact. Sometimes I just need to be fucking alone and you crying like a bitch every time I do that is making me seriously fucking hate you.

Excuse the vent.

>>38228667
He gets it. I can't believe some people in this thread don't have the fore site to understand that this is the reality of dating a clingy girl.

>>38228667
>>38228708

So why is it a problem to just call your gf for 20 minutes a day when you don't see her just to talk about your day and about whatever?

>>38228725
No, no. A clingy girlfriend won't let you have a day to yourself! She won't even let you have 20 minutes to jack off or take a shit or watch tv. She'll be up in your face and act incredibly offended if you decide that you want a day alone.

>>38228667
So you never want to live with any gf?

You can't ignore her for a couple of days if you're living with her. Are you sure a gf is what you actually want?

>>38228796
You're not forced to spend the day with her even if you live together, retard.

>>38228749

Well, as long as she's up my ass, she won't cuck me.

>>38228129
Where can I find this user of men?

>>38228667
Clingy gf are awesome as long as you enjoy each other company and like sharing everything and doing everything together

>>38228953
This.

If you actually like her then it's great. If you just want her for sex then it's bad. That's why normies hate clingyness so much.

>>38228448
It's not that I'd find your clinginess annoying, it's that I'd feel distressed knowing that you were worried.

>>38227021
This is bullshit. No guy would ditch a girl for being too attached. What you probably mean is too attention hungry which causes you to hit up other guys as soon as he falls asleep or leaves for class/work.

People say they want "clingy" friends, but that's not always true.

I've seen it a bit of it on R9K, and they way they describe it is not how anyone actually clingy acts like.
People suck sometimes.

>>38227021
im also clingy
do you have discord? : )
we can be clingy to each other lol

>>38229254
i am actually clingy and i know i am annoying
i want other clingy person

everyone posting in this thread is a male

>>38227215
fuck off
nothing wrong with it

>>38227261
she should burn
got your back

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>meet cute guy
>infactuated
>he rejects me
>still friends
>he likes another girl
>feeling jealous and depressed
>realise oneitis is an alcoholic due to childhood sexual abuse
>want to try and help him
>not a close friend
>his friends are all nonchalant, say alcoholism is a "life choice", won't intervene
>how do I help this person

>>38227421
FUCK YOU
be LOYAL to one guy, dont make them all cucks because you WILL lose them all like that

>>38227278
>this is because I'm a manipulative, clingy, insecure piece of shit
How are you manipulative?

>>38227207
That's actually really sweet.

>>38229519
You can't. Addicts can only help themselves by realising that they have an problem. Some notice it early, some have to hit rock bottom and others never do

>>38227021
Holy fucking shit, Imagine being the one that needs to makes the fucking effort of approaching. You got nothing to worry about if you have guys approaching you.

>>38227483
Because he FUCKING loves you you damned soul leeching succubi

Women are pieces of shit jesus christ

This right here is why I'm so bitter. You've already got life on easy mode, hell, you've got countless people in this thread begging for your attention and affection. Flip the genders and it's completely different. Fuck off you roastie.

>people think fembots are quiet qt3.14 skinny girls with long hair

>it's always some fat bitch with piercings

dont fall for the clingy fembot meme especially if they mention liking non-skinny people, they're usually a fucking hamplanet

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>>38227421
>hoarding people
i've never heard this expression and it's just perfect. i understand it completely, fellow fembot. it's so painful.
i just want to have an obsessive codependent relationship where i'm not the crazier one by a large extent, is that too much to ask?

dear fembots, weight and height are the only numbers that should be relevant. please produce them