I GET WHY WOMEN HATE US
I'ts not about being beta. It's about being mature. We fucking search and search someone in our life instead of living it alone as we should. We don't need someone to make our life happy. Sure. It helps being loved by someone. But it is not necesary. They feel disgusted when they get the picture of a sad man. Crying because he can't get their love. Think about it...
You did ? It's like crying for the love of a mother. It's pathetic. I have a girlfriend. And we talked about this shit i did. Got mad at her because she told me that i fucked up about a shopping list. Shit. Even at the moment i thought she was wrong. Then we talked. I used my brain a little bit and realized what i've done... I treated her as a little boy would treat her mother. I fucked up. She told me that i've fucked up. And got mad at her for telling me that i was wrong.
Women don't want big faggot kids as boyfriends. They want a man. Not a chad. Not an alpha male. A man. Someone who can listen. Think. Observe and mostly be mature enough to accept their mistakes and improve by forgiving themselves.
Im not saying that you should leave your hobbies. You like vydia ? Keep playing. You like anime ? Watch some. You like art ? Go do some drawing. Just accept yourself. If you see you have a flaw. Try to better yourself. Shit. I did it and i feel amazing.
You can be happy. You don't need a partner for that. That will come eventually. Just find the things you like. Enjoy yourself and be the best you you can be.
>>38186744
>I treated her as a mother like a little boy would
This is what is wrong with most men today. I have no idea whether it's always been like this 2bh. I think the trick with women is not liking them as much as they like you. You have to maintain your distance, and this will automatically make them like you more. This is alpha on some level, too, so there aren't many demands on you being alpha in other areas.
>>38186744
You get nothing you pretentious retard
>>38186854
I get a laugh from people like you tho.
>>38186828
You can love a woman. You can show her your love. But if that love becomes like the love of a child to a mother. Who pardons all your shit and nourishes you because you are her sunshine. There is where the problems pop. Seriously. Best way to keep a relationship going. Accept that you fucked up. Keep going. And improve. I've been with my gf for 9 months now. I didn't even passed highschool when i met her. I was a fucking leech. Now i have a job. I study what i like and overall i feel happy. And i used to think it was because of her. But actually i did it all by myself. So if i was able to do it. Most people can do it.
>I'ts not about being beta.
Yes it is. You make some good points, but mostly what you're referring too is being a weak ass beta male with a negative needy attitude. Not caring helps but you still need value, either through looks or wealth.
>>38186744
>I GET WHY WOMEN HATE US
>I have a girlfriend
lmao'ing eternally
>>38186744
you're really over reacting to one specific thing and projecting all your problems on other people. women date very immature guys, they just don't see it as immature actions if the person has sufficient status
>>38186854
is right
OP is a stupid pretentious twat trying to make the best out of a shitty situation but he fails miserably.
(not if ur short btw)
>>38186744
This is a good post but it's completely lost on here because people like>>38186854 >>38187116 >>38187097 would rather blame everything and everybody for their problems because it's more comfortable for them to live life that way. Self critisism requires maturity in the first place and they will never grow up because they don't want to leave their comfort zone
>>38186744
hmm, doesn't really work because I'm a massive sub and manlet so fuck off op.
>>38187284
Show feminine penis
originalio
>>38187215
Or then it is simply a shit idea no matter how you try to sell it and call Anon's who do not agree with it names that imply they're less smarter, hoping peer pressure and the need to not appear lesser than others, on a site for Korean animated comics none the less, makes other Anon's support you and your supposed grand enlightened opinion and point of view.
>>38187324
Penis is not feminine, another reason why I'm fugged. I have the build of like the classic anime shut in, but dom women that will pursue me don't really exist so fug :DD
>>38187370
Have you considered finding a dom man? Or maybe a couple to make you their sub? Also I don't give a fuck if you think you penis isn't feminine. Show it whore.
>>38187435
Im not gay and I sure as hell don't want to be cucked / share a gf. Standards are probably way too high but I refuse to settle for a subbie roastie. Stop saying gay things.
>>38187469
then go die alone with your stupid standar and stop complaining there.
>>38187742
No, r9k is where I come to complain because I don't have anywhere else. Fuck off normie, just because I won't settle for normie stacy who secretly thinks of chad while I awkwardly try to take the lead doesn't mean I have stupid standards.
>>38186744
I dont see why anyone wants a woman in this day and age
they are just men with vaginas anyway
>>38187435
How could I proposition a normalish couple (one that's not gonna wanna to do bondage or some other more extreme stuff) without getting beat up or laughed off immediately? I'm kind of desperate for a sexual outlet and I've taken at least half of the hynposissy pill.
>>38187364
Or maybe i agree with the Op for once and i decide to voice my aproval of what he says because i'm tired of the retarded philosophy people hold around here, not that i call anybody retarded off the bat just because i disagree with them. And get a grip of yourself son this whole website is a circlejerk and you know that perfectly well
>>38186744
juuussttt BBBBB uSELF!!!
>>38186744
Good post, OP
Oregon a null
>>38188620
This is poorly constructed bait but I'll take the bait anyway to educate other anons.
>hardworking
You look depressed, like you barely go outside if at all. From the looks of this picture, you can't even clean up your room.
>mature
You aren't mature if you're on a website, much less a board that wallows in self-pity. You have the face of a beta and someone who can easily walk all over.
>goodlooking
You look pretty gross. Painfully average/below average with no distinguishing features and a drab appearance. Lack of hygiene and sloppy fashion sense.
Robots, if you actually believe you are trying hard and look like the guy in the photo: you're wrong. Clean yourself up, dress better, get off 4chan and talk to girls.
>>38187891
>this whole website is a circlejerk
Maybe you don't pay attention very well, but there is a constant flow of contrarian opinions throughout just about every bit of this site. The only thing circlejerky about it is its memes. OP's opinion is not new, it may be originally-written but it is not original in of itself. Your pointing out of those anons? Not original either. Just a stale memetic post.
Yeah, basic empathy and human decency is pretty attractive.
Women want a man who they can talk about problems with and get advice from. Women want a caring and emotional connection with their man, and not feel like shit. No emotional connection with women, no caring vibes women get from you, you're gonna get no women
>>38186744
I didnt read any of that shit.
Fucking shit dude what are you doing?
>>38188925
>a board that wallows in self-pity.
Stop projecting.
That nigger looks fine...Normal even.
>>38187790
can you take your "complaining" elsewhere fed up of people like you, go do something instead of wasting others time.
>>38186744
I'd say I do most if not all of what you say. The biggest problem I think, is I have no friends and live with my mom. I could be a decent "man" if a woman would give me a chance, but in this society, that involves being "independent".
However, my long term goal is to move to the woods and be alone. Would this attract or repel the average woman? I'm guessing repel
>>38188620
Funny looking nu-male taking Stanley's place?
>>38190095
>stop wasting others' time
>but it's okay if you waste my time with this shitty post
Guess you'd better get out then.
>>38186828
>You have to maintain your distance, and this will automatically make them like you more.
>"If you dont express yourself, then she will lose interest and move on to another guy"
I FUCKING give up.
>>38186744
Hey OP this really does help I really see how it does. But let's be real there comes a point in life where you just can't beat it anymore, the loneliness creeps and would just suddenly hit you at the strangest moments Lord knows it did to me. Despite all the moments of self-improvement, self-discovery, and self-appreciation we all just don't want to be alone anymore.
>>38186744
>excuse for being a robot : the post
Pathetic