>tfw now ex bf pretty much made me into his de facto housewife despite my protests
Damn conservatives. I either get a manwhore who wants polyamory, if I want someone who actually treats me as an equal partner or I get a traditional authoritarian asshole.
>>38120686
You want a partner who doesn't fulfill the man's role in a relationship so you can skimp out on performing the woman's role? You sound like a shitty partner. The only people who are going to want you are manwhores who just want your holes.
If you don't have a job then you have no choice but to be a housewife.
>>38120732
I think everyone should share the roles. If I go out and earn 50% of the money, I shouldn't have to do 100% of the housework too.
>>38120732
Go back to >>>/pol/ and op, go to >>>/adv/
>>38120765
>>38120732
I have a job, and it is/was better paying than my ex's. He just wouldn't lift a finger around the house because it was "my place" to do everything.
>tfw insecure piece of shit
H-help...
>>38120765
Nope. Op can get something like section 8 housing and neetbux, help in general, social security, ect. The amount of thirsty sexual predators pulling a varg on disabled women is gross af.
>>38120788
I'll be your houseboy and do all the cleaning/cooking/etc if you'll be my mommy gf who supports my NEET lifestyle.
>>38120686
>>tfw now ex bf pretty much made me into his de facto housewife despite my protests
>tfw you read this and your boner flips your laptop over
>>38120686
How many guys have you dated? Seems like you've just gotten unlucky so far, or maybe haven't developed a good intuition about guys yet.
>>38120686
My boyfriend is a right authoritarian and I'm mixed on the subject.
I get frustrated when he says I can't do something because it's a guy thing since I have no female friends and I don't do "girl" things. I've spent most my life pretending to be a man on the internet and suddenly being a little bitch is oddly emasculating.
Yet I also don't like feeling butch all the time like I always have since I'm such a gruff demeanor woman so at the same time I'm kind of aroused by being "his woman."
He constantly pisses me off with it but I also want to shove him down in anger and rage fuck him for it, but he's also very dominant.
Alas I am truly emotionally complicated enough to be a real woman :^)
>>38120774
>not wanting to do the housework so he'll never leave you
This is entry-level desperation. At least you're less pathetic. I don't deserve to be equal.
>>38120913
Sounds awful. But whatever floats your boat.
>>38120686
>ex bf
Get the fuck out of here
>>38120951
Eh. He's not abusive or anything. He just be like "You can't play with us right now. No girls allowed."
He doesn't want me to not be intelligent or stay in the kitchen or something. I'm just not used to being "the girl" and I've developed machismo over time.
I think I like us both being dominant except I'm on the losing side of the battle I guess.
Plus guys doing the "no girls" thing is cute next to being annoying. Are they a 12 year old boy are a 40s soldier. Who knows but I'm on it.
>>38120788
Let's get together and be a bf/gf that both have well paid jobs.
>>38120686
On some level you can't ever be equal partners, there is always a "leader" in a relationship otherwise nothing gets done. The manifestation of leadership depends on the case, but typically it ultimately comes down to the man in a normal relationship. For the woman it's all about how much she is willing to tolerate disagreement.
Line your head up with the barrel please roastie
>>38121054
>there is always a "leader" in a relationship otherwise nothing gets done
That's true, though you can trade off being the leader depending upon the circumstances and how each of you is feeling, and you can also stop and hash it out when it comes to important things. For that reason it would be good to have a partner with different strengths.