How do I reject a guy friend without having him leave me? I

>>38107866

If he is a 'guy friend' then he's still a friend.

If you feel as though your relationship is becoming too close for comfort, just tell him. If he is truly your friend he will understand and make some effort to amend this.

If all else fails, then there are plenty more chances to make new friends.

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>>38107866
There's nothing you can do, anon. They'll make that decision on their own regardless of how softly or harshly you reject them. My best friend confessed his feelings for me in 2009 and is still by my side. Others broke up with me the very same day that I said no to them.

>memes.com
Be honest. Not fake honest. Tell him why you're not interested in him. Yeah it'll crush his heart but he'll realize his flaws which will help him in the long run if he chooses to better himself. You are the necessary evil in his life.

>>38107866
let him not be friends with you you selfish asshole

>>38107866
He will be hurt. Nothing you can do. Maybe even avoid you if he is that kind of bitch. But it will make him steonger and help him cope with rejections later in life. Believe me, i would know.

>>38107866
Reminder the being friendzoned as a man is the equivalent of being pumped and dumped as a female.

>>38108197
no it's not dumbass.
Quit acting like women don't like sex.
I have friends who brag about getting laid that are women.

>>38108228
What the fuck is there to brag about? Getting laid as a woman is literally 0 effort.

>>38108260
men put 0 effort into sex, so i guess you're right there is nothing to brag about

>>38108228
>>38108314
>men put 0 effort into sex
Just get the fuck out you roastie bitch

>>38108314
Men generally put effort into actually getting laid.

>>38108228
>I have friends who brag about getting laid that are women.

that's like bragging about winning the special olympics

>>38107866
some people want different stuff out of relationships
80% of guys that are friends with girls are also attracted to that girl that's just how guy brains work

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>>38107866
How long he has been your friend, did he hit on you?

>>38107866
what you're doing is selfish.
just be frank. whether or not he decides to continue the friendship is entirely his decision.

>>38107866
Honestly you're fucking retarded, there's plenty of guys who would legitimately be your friend without the feels. What you did was find a guy who was interested in you, you ignored that fact wanted attention and then after he made it impossible for you to ignore decide you gotta cut him loose.

>>38108419
what if she's not hot?

>>38108228
why do many girls brag about rejecting guys? I don't think is impresses anyone

>>38108228
You're genuinely stupid of you couldnt catch the meaning of what he said.

>>38108197
Uh how is that the same? Being friendzoned means you can build a long lasting relationship and bloom into a blossoming romance (based on whether you become alpha man).

Pumping and dumping means no contact. And you're not worth it as a human being.

If you're friendzoned, you need to become a man. At least there's hope, if you realize your flaws. You have to prove yourself from the friendzone that you are a man worthy of being her lifelong lover.

Pump and dumping? Girls can pump and dump you because they make dick appointments. They're not even related, the fuck

>>38107866
Why do they get all pissy when you reject them? It's like they expect you to lower your standards or something, lmao.

So embarrassing. They need to man the fuck up. There's a reason why they were rejected. Let them leave.

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>>38107866
Meet him in a room with a panoramic window.
Face the window and pull down your pants and panties.
Show him your Butthote hihi ;-)
( )0( ) <----butthote
Let him lick it clean :-P
Then call your mom and get him to lick her meaty, hairy butthote too :-O

>>38107866
All they want is sex. They don't care about you as a person. I hope all men fucking kill themselves.

>>38107866
kek, not going to happen. He will resent you the entire time you two are "just friends". Just tear off the bandaid and don't contact him again.

>>38110809
>>38110903
Holy shit you roastie cunts are really retarded

>>38110903
I think you mixed things up. You belong in our female counterpart, tumblr.

>>38110783
Men and women fundamentally have different needs in relationships. Men want deep intimacy (sex, making out, etc...) while women want emotional support (a shoulder to cry on, etc..).

When a man pumps and dumps a woman, he gets what he wants in a relationship while the woman doesn't get what she wants.

When a woman friendzones a man, she is typically banking on getting what she wants from a relationship (emotional support, etc...) while the man doesn't get what he wants.

Of course the reverse may happen on occasion but it's relatively rare for women to pump and dump men and for men to friendzone women.

>>38110960
Low blow. I hate those whiny tumblr bitches more than I hate thirsty men.

Men and Women aren't able to be just friends without sexual tension.

I don't know how it works for gays.

>>38111067
you are an incredibly hateful person. maybe you do belong here

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>>38110903
I don't want sex. I want buttsex :-)

>>38107866
See I could be friends with a girl that I have feelings for if she just didn't have feelings for me back. But the situations I have been it is that
>she does have feelings for me
>but she wants to sleep around and keep me for a back up plan as "friends"
So I cut them off

>>38111115
Is it sad that this comment actually made me happy?

>>38107866
Tell him you just wanna be friends, then give him a blowjob to soften the blow.

>>38111107

Not all gay guys are into the same scene. You have tops, bottoms, masc, fem, twinks, daddies, bears, etc. Some guys might have very strict preferences, and thus share no attraction / tension with other guys they know.

But in the event you are attracted to your gay pals, why would friends-with-benefits be out of the question? Just fuck and get it over with.

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>>38111408
Everyone yearns the feeling of belonging to somewhere or something.