>tfw female >tfw have a huge crush on guy who's a

If he's too anxious to approach you I think you should take the initiative.

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>tfw nice guy
>broke up with my gf after becoming redpilled and realized no girl would date me

>>38061224
>tfw he's too afraid of approaching me
yep that would be me.
I don't know why but whenever I notice a girl is into me I can't manage to make a move. I don't know why. It sucks.

>>38061224
i will approach you, you cockthirsty slut

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I'm in the same boat anon, I really like this guy but he's just so damn awkward. He's not that afraid to ask to hang out but he goes really quiet and doesn't talk about much.

>>38061224
no you arent fuck off

anyone else posting in this thread is a thirsty faggot

>>38061273
You realized that no one would date you, as you were dating someone?

>>38061280
Hey, at least girls are interested in you and you notice.

>>38061224
>>38061300
maybe that's what you like about him in some way

he seems more real

>>38061224
>tfw nice asshole
>tfw no girl like me and even if they do i don't approach because i don't really like any of them
>had such bad relationships don't want one anymore and i already know what to expect from different types of women

>>38061224
Make out with Chad in front of him to make him jealous

>>38061248

I can't. Men have to approach first, it's literally the number one rule of dating.

>>38061319
I could see through her jewish tricks

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>>38061325
You're not wrong, he is very real and understanding when we do talk about things. We enjoy the same music/games and he is lowkey autistic and socially retarded (like me) but ahhhh, wish he was a bit more confident y'know?

>>38061224
Don't be afraid to approach him yourself. Ask him to go out (even if it is just as friends).

>>38061322
>at least girls are interested in you
Very rarely though. Thanks to my low self-esteem and anxiety I never take the initiative.

>>38061336

I don't like Chads to be honest. They're all douchebags and mansluts

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>>38061342
>I can't. Men have to approach first, it's literally the number one rule of dating.
And this is exactly why I won't ever have a gf. Fucking kill me.

>>38061224
>>38061342
0/10
Hang yourself or never post outside of /soc/ again.

>>38061360
The grass is always greener femanon

yeah i remember one time this girl that really seemed to like me approached me and i just walked away without saying a word
they don't call it an illness of lost opportunities for nothing hehe

>>38061344
had a little chuckle at this

Don't try for a nice guy. I spent 4 years with a nice guy in college and he only had sex with me one time. Maybe I'm just weird but back in college I would touch myself like 3 times a day and even if he was in the room with me, he still wouldn't fuck me. Just play his games or watch something. Nice guys don't care about you. They only want you to feel better about themselves, because with you they aren't lonely losers.

>>38061383
Grow some balls and be confident man God. You just gave the answer to your problem.

>>38061451

>bad boys are assholes
>nice guys are assholes
>Chads are assholes

and they say women are confusing.

>>38061458
whites systematically destroyed their own confidence through Christianity for over a millennium.

>>38061458
I can't. I'm 24 and have never approached a girl with clear intentions of wanting to hang out/date. Everything in me says "don't do it". I'll never understand why.

>>38061342
Not sure if b8 or absolutely retarded. The guy can't approach you because he's too shy. If you really like him make the move for him. Don't hide behind the good ol' "men are supposed to make the move" and then scream about patriarchy and muh wage gap and muh feminism. Either treat both sexes equally or go to the fucking kitchen and stay there.
This is why I prefer guys to women. Women just sit and wait for guys to approach them by default. Guys who just sit and wait for others to approach them are viewed as weird. If you like someone, regardless of yours or their gender, and you know they like you back but can't/are too shy to tell you, make the move.
Fucking hell people the worst thing that can happen is that the say no.

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>>38061369
>I don't like Chads

>>38061224
>female
No, you ar not.
If you were female your usual reaction to a nice guy crush would just be making fun out of him until he does not even want to be in the same fucking cityblock with you and then acquiring your next crush.

>>38061451
>I spent 4 years with a nice guy in college and he only had sex with me one time.
That's 100% your fault, not his. I can't even begin to imagine how repulsive you are.

>>38061342
>Hey do you want to hang out
>Hey lets get drunk duhh
>Touch your hair
>Bite your lisp
If he was ever interested he would kiss you at that point

>>38061506
you are def gay

>>38061369
>They're all douchebags and mansluts
That's a prefect match for a self absorbed jackass and slut.

>>38061451
What did he say when you explicitly said you wanted to fuck?

>>38061273
>no girl would date me
>breaks up with gf
are you autistic?

>>38061369
You don't have to date him, just make out with him (and fuck him a few times) to make the "nice guy" jealous

>>38061554
Nope, I'm a straight dude who has severe social anxiety and low self-esteem. I would love to have a gf. The thought of being gay and having gay sex is repulsive. I like tits, ass, and pussy.

>>38061342
And if a man approaches a woman, that can lead to sexual assault.

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>>38061342

So whats gonna happen if you approach first? is it because your friends will hate you if you break the *sacred rule*?

>>38061528
maybe if guys stopped being big babies they'd have more success. I'm not his mother, and if a guy can't be bothered to say "hi", then why should I do all the work for him?

>>38061616

originally get a hooker.

>>38061273

this makes no sense at all. you got what you wanted and still self-sabotaged

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>>38061630
He might not be interested and she would have to kill herself due to shattered princess ego.
Women can't take rejections. At all.

>>38061273
literally autism. consider killing yourself.

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>>38061342
Obligatory text for the robot because evidently this image isn't original

>>38061650
No one's telling you to do all the work. Relationships obviously require effort from both sides to work. But if you're interested in a guy who seems too shy to make a move, you have the option of getting the ball rolling by taking the initiative. You don't have to obviously.

>>38061669
I don't have an interest in hookers. I lack intimacy.

>>38061650
Do you understand the fact that some people have low self esteem? I know a lot of guys(including me) who started out with zero self esteem but we were so lucky to find gf's(now ex's) who'd actually, at least partially showed the guys that there is no fear in making the first move. You can't expect a guy who has little to no experience with girls to be a Casanova. As I said if you like him, instead of whining on the internet how men are babies, go ahead and fucking kiss him or something you slut. You can't have everything, including dick brought to you on a silver platter.

>>38061764
Don't go for hookers man. Just talk and go out of your house more. That's the only thing that'll solve your anxiety problem. That and some beers or drinks to help you become a bit more confident and charismatic. Practice is all it takes. Go for people on your own league and you should be fine.

>tfw no grill will ever post like this about you

>>38061342
enjoy being alone forever. men are done with these bs expectations.

>>38061506
Sounds to me like you don't want to risk getting a disease, or perhaps you've been saturated by the rumors on here. Either way, don't be a fuck boy, pick one and be done forever when the time comes.

>>38061224
>hey anon, let's go on a date

congrats, you got a bf

if it were the opposite
>hey femanon, let's go on a date
>ewww... gtfo, creep.

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>>38061224
>there is a problem at hand
>the problem has a simple solution that is already known
>instead of solving it, you show the problem on the internet for attention
>women

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>>38061342
Bait bait bait bait bait bait bait bait bait bait bait
Come and put your sage on it

>>38061792

I've stared at him and made direct eye contact. Sat down next to him. I even smiled at him. Nothing from him. I'm sorry, but a guy like that isn't shy. He's passive, which is a sign of laziness.

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>>38061224
>tfw going to bars or nightclubs every weekend
>tfw I am just usually sitting there drinking and females are eye contacting me and smiling at me every single time
>tfw I won't approach them because I know I would show how fucked up robot i am

>>38061922
It's a sign of him either being scared of women or not having experience with them, not laziness. The poor bastard's heart was probably about to explode. Or he simply isn't interested, have you considered that option?

>>38061796
I know that going out and practicing my social skills would help my situation. But I don't even drink or have a circle of friends. I only seem to attract fat chicks on dating apps. I'm slowly settling into a position where I'm okay about being alone for the rest of my life. At 24 I think my chances are long gone.

>>38061949
>wah wah wah I'm a chad but such a gigantic pussy I cant even make anything with that
gtfo

Where is that article where there was some US city or uni where the girls outnumbered the men and they were losing thier minds because they had no idea what to do since there were not enough guys to do the asking out and of course they couldn't break the sacred "guys must do the asking out" rule so they wound up depressed and clueless as what to do.

>>38061922
>indistinguishable between autism and bait
Why are you here? Go grub for attention on /soc/
Seriously, fuck off. Everyone here wishes death upon you.

>>38062010
I am not Chad. Chads are absolute fit people with great social skills.

I am fit and tall and not looking like a creep but i have zero social skills.

>>38061224
>Tfw he's too afraid of approaching me
I wish more females were this aware.

>>38061224
Bait

Canterbury

>>38062012
Is it this? This gave me kek and a half.
http://time.com/money/4072951/college-gender-ratios-dating-hook-up-culture/
http://archive.is/IOuiu

>>38062012
I would be interested in reading this as well if anyone can find the article

>>38061972
It takes a certian amount of maturity to approach a woman, so maybe he's not mentally ready for a gf. Him not being interested is a possibility, but he trembles when I get near him. Don't think a guy would tremble around a girl he wasn't interested in

>>38062047
this is bait
you got me
nice one

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>>38061224

Hello, roastie.
It seems you've lost your way and wound up here. May I suggest you fuck back off to /soc/ and never come back?
Your kind isn't welcome here, faggot

>>38061224
i'm angry about this post

>>38061342
if you really like him, for your and his sake please ask him to go for a walk with you somewhere, or something like that.
Its not a date type of thing, but it will let him know you're interested. I was in the guys situation and the girl that I fell in love with and that fell for me hard as well. She asked me out for a walk a few times and eventually I asked her out on a date and now I got my first gf at 21 and we are dating.

Just let him know you're interested, because you fucking women feel the need to play mental games and say shit that could be interpreted in more than one way. It fucks with guy's heads and we get confused.

Also, touch him in a playful way.

>>38062126
>it takes a certain amount of maturity
Ok, I'm done here. It literally takes no fucking maturity to approach a woman whatsoever. He probably isn't interested and is socially anxious, thus the trembling.
The only way to learn how to interact with other human beings is through physical experience and physical experience plays little role in maturity of a person.
Stop deluding yourself and just go for it. Either he's a social, he liked you, you helped him, he'll be more brave in the future, or you were wrong and he's just a social autist.

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>people are falling for this bait that easily

>>38061342
As soon as I read this I knew it was bait. Retards replied anyway. Well crafted friend.

>>38061224
approach him then you fucking idiot

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>>38062126
He wants to fucking DESTROY YOU, Anon... SEXUALLY!!! Oh my goddddddd stick it in there and UNF UNF UNF DE LA UNF UNF UNF!!!! I'm high as fuck right now holy shit tutti fruition I'm in a fucking high ass condition!!! WEED is what you NEED!!!! Get him STONED!!! Then have fucking monkey sex oh yeah baby YEAH WHAT!!!! I'm talking about sex you ninny!!!!

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>>38062123
I have no words. Fuck everything. Elliot was fucking right.

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>>38061224
You know there's more Liz-pics than just that one you faggot?

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>>38063277
Liz numer 2222