how do i get over a schoolboyish inability to speak to qts?

Is there a way?

just stop thinking about it

Make a fake Chad profile on some dating site and practice there.

Practice talking to ugly girls first, then gradually work your way up to the qt girls.

>>38022807
Understand that you want to succeed with a girl, and that that requires you to speak to them without being awkward, because awkwardness is a human sign that you don't feel "normal" with a person. This will cause her to be averse to socializing with you.

Going by this, convince yourself that you stand absolutely no chance by being awkward. By the virtue of loving yourself and wanting to succeed with a partner (because, as we established, it will never happen if you don't be confident), you must work, with all the effort you want to put into having a partner, towards being your most confident self.