Can't Move On

>>37978350
Masturbate.

If you want a more permanent solution you have 2 choices, find someone else to be infatuated with or give it enough time and the feelings will fade.

I speak from experience and I have the same problem you do, it doesn't take much for me to fall in love with someone.

>>37978350
Bro imma send you a vocaroo okay? Gonna explain some shit to you.

>>37978644
hahah do it!

>>37978350
>>37978644

Here you go my mate.

http://vocaroo.com/i/s1A3iDVzjdUk

>>37978350
1) kill yourself or go to /adv/

>>37978872
i appreciate it, dude. that's good advice. I've always had a one-track mind, and when I get stuck on someone that's all I want. I mean I've been in long term relationships since highschool. like 1.5 year in highschool, a 3 year in college, a 6 month, then a 2 year that i ended in february. thing is i was totally over them once it was over, but at the beginning i was too optimistic that it might work and I fell in love.
This girl i was just crazy about even more than i remember being with my ex's, but i knew she wouldn't fly with my family and there were things I'd want to change about her like her hairstyle, tattoos, fashion, religion, education, some values. even though it was wonderful when we were together, I knew that later down the line those things just wouldn't work with me. we straight up did NOT fit together. I guess it pains me because that can be seen as shallow and care about her SO much.
At the end of the day i gotta find someone who my family likes, I respect and love, and who will set a good example for my children.
You're right, you cant change anyone and it's not right to expect them to change things about themselves for you.

>>37979205
Don't worry about it, man. You're just anxious to meet a girl who loves you and you can love. When you're handed opportunities to go places or do something, you should do them (unless you really cannot). Event like that always have an impact on the future. I like to think of them as butterfly effect events like from until dawn. Just think of what could happen if you went to said event.

Anyway, I hope things go smoothly for you. Maybe you could at least be friends with the girl.

>>37979772
i appreciate you taking the time to calm me down about everything. thanks so much

>>37978350
Was with trap gf for 2 years when i found out i was getting cheated on. its been 3 years since last contact and i still think about her often. its gotten better though
keep waiting

>>37978350

Time will make it easier. I'm 28 and I've been around the block a few times, just trust me. There will come a time where you really just don't give a fuck about her and can find happiness elsewhere.