Am I just missing it or is it actually over?
it's usually up much later, haven't seen Nick in a long time though
>>37954567
I havent been here for a while and I couldn't find it past few days.
If it starts late it would explain alot, Ive been trying to get more sleep so I go to bed early
It has been up every day, albeit later.
Nick has been popping his head in, but hasn't been running the thread.
>>37954567
I've been busy. Crazy shit keeps happening to me.
>>37954963
>Nick has been popping his head in
That's what she said.
Guys, I'm doing the thread IN REAL LIFE now.
Except it's way more dangerous. I rescued a lady in distress, except she might be absolutely insane and her husband might be a Russian mafia boss, so that's real worrisome. Goddam.
>>37955039
Oh boy. Nick is at it again. What is it about you and slavic women?
Also hello everyone. A pretty strange thing happened to me. I went drinking and the next morning there was an extra chair in my room that I didn't have before. So I have stolen/bought a chair somewhere. More likely stolen.
How is everyone doing?
That's pretty exciting. While we're here:
Hey Atlas! The closest you've come to rescuing a lady in distress is heaving yourself off some old woman's shattered legs after you decided that you could 'share' the disabled seat on the bus.
This tread is bullshit. Last time this threaf was up no one cares about my issuses.
>>37955039
Fuck russians
>>37954971
Howdy ho Nick
I've been considering going to an actual therapist since I've been really out of it and lost lately
Just not sure if it'd actually be good for me
>>37955160
actually got a chukle from that. good afternoon lad
>>37955102
>Oh boy. Nick is at it again. What is it about you and slavic women?
You tell me. If you're Eastern and insane, you are gonna love me. I'm a half Italian who loves Dostoyevski, I guess that's why.
When I told her my name was Nicolas, she smiled and said, "Saint Nicolas."
Then she asked if I had any alcohol.
>>37955215
Afternoon, aye.
Got to go for my tea m8s so talk later if the thread's up
>>37955202
Go for it, worth a try; try several therapists until you find one you like spending time with.
>>37955165
Let me love you long time. Numbered threads are official, the rest isn't. I only do numbered ones when I have time, which I don't lately.
>>37955165
So why not talk now? There is plenty of people around.
>>37955243
Not sure if I want to hear the details honestly. Women like that are usually whores (not using it as an insult) and often hooked on some drug to keep them docile and prevent them from running away.
Well that's how the ukrainian/russian pimps work here anyways. You say it's her husband?
>>37955364
From what I heard and saw, she's unstable, but not a whore. They have children. Eastern whores used for sex don't get taught to speak French.
It is her husband. Last I had heard, she had run away with the kids.
>>37955301
I don't know if I'm up for shopping around, I'm gonna talk to my dad about it
>>37955478
Don't. Do it on your own. Shop around, keep it your secret for a while, make it your own thing, not something that involves your parents, especially not your father.
>>37955415
>It is her husband. Last I had heard, she had run away with the kids.
Interesting. Still don't understand why are you sticking your dick into this hornets nest. I've seen cases like this, often when the women were even beaten but they still gladly came back to their Chad husbands to get more beatings. I don't see how this could end well for you, honestly.
>>37954971
Hey Nick. How have you been? I haven't been here in a while.
>>37955509
>Still don't understand why are you sticking your dick into this hornets nest.
I stuck my dick into nothing. Long story short, I talked to her for some time, she cried, she said she wanted to die, I held her hand and listened to her. I asked where her husband was. She said if she found us he'd beat her again. So I went back to my place with her, found the phone number to the therapists I go to, wrote the name of my own therapist, and told her to call them. She asked me to keep it between us. She apologised a lot.
That's all.
Her husband wants to leave her because she's crazy, she feels like nobody loves her.
She said she'd pray for me. She thought I was a psychologist, and she barely believed me when I said I wasn't.
I just hope she won't knock on my door at 3 am.
>>37955039
what the fuck.
how do things keep happening to you.
i didnt know the whole damsel in distress thing was even real!
>>37955779
There are damsels everywhere, and they're easily distressed.
>>37955779
She was ringing every apartment in our building so someone would open to her. Since the bells are loud as fuck, I could hear it all around, sometimes in my own apartment, like someone playing a cathedral organ with all our bells.
I showed up expecting another crazy neighbour, but instead, there was this slim blonde looking disturbed.
>>37955879
i've never encountered one in actual real distress, but i suppose that's just my /privilege/
>>37955912
it's like you're not even trying, shit just magically finds it way into your life
>>37956234
>it's like you're not even trying, shit just magically finds it way into your life
I almost believe in God again. Too many weird coincidences again. Synchronicity raping me up the butt.
Get this, for DAYS, I had this private joke with myself about "Saint Nicolas" stuff, and that's the first damn thing she thought of when I told her my name.
She also had icons and rosaries, Orthodox ones, which I know well, (read a book about Orthodoxy), and it was just like the one I gave X last year. I wonder what she did with it.
>>37956329
it's good that stuff is happening though. maybe in your case what's going on is unnecessarily shitty. but i wish i could experience more things in my life, other than hypochondria.
how does one go about increasing ones susceptibility for synchronicity?
>>37956628
>how does one go about increasing ones susceptibility for synchronicity?
Look for it.
>>37956727
Nevermind. I got into something like a fight with my girlfriend. I don't think I should be with her, because I'm getting bored.
Isn't synchronicity essentially just a question of confirmation bias
>>37957267
Details, details. Give us details.
>>37957329
It can be, yes, but sometimes, it's hard to reduce it to that.
Like when X and I happened to open the same door at the exact same time, from either side. That had never happened with anyone else.
We did telepathy, though, so there's that.
>>37955508
Any particular reason? I want to ask someone about it, and I don't want to ask my mom
>>37957681
Yes, you need more distance from your parents, in your mind. Do you need to ask anyone?
Good day, isn't it?
>>37957978
I cleaned up!
A very good start. Removed trash from months ago.
My cacti are dead. We had bought them with LO. The last one died recently. They're drying.
>>37957789
>you need more distance from your parents, in your mind
I don't think that's a good idea unless their parents are abusive. Are you projecting your bad family life onto other people again?
First time I start this thread and i dont put my name in
But anyway im glad it aint really gone
>>37958175
>I don't think that's a good idea unless their parents are abusive.
What about when you want to fuck your own dad? Is that enough of a justification for you, my dude?
>Are you projecting your bad family life onto other people again?
Are you in need of my thumbs up your anus, again?
>>37957357
I talked shit to her about her most insecure thing, and I didn't do anything but laugh. She cried, and I didn't care. I'll called her back after a couple of minutes and pretended to be sorry. I got her to forgive me even though she was about to break up with me. Even after she forgave me, I didn't care. I just felt devious.
>>37958345
You'll never know how your behaviour hurts. It's amazing. Do you ever cry, and if yes, what do you feel? And who do you feel for.
>>37958251
Even so, attempting to cut their dad out of their life won't help whatever problem they have. You're hurting people with your 'advice' and you need to stop.>>37958373
>You'll never know how your behaviour hurts
How ironic.
I never asked for this.
I want it to be over. I'm so fucking tired.
>>37958373
>implying I'm not conscious
I understand. I feel for whoever I want.
https://youtu.be/Qq4j1LtCdww
Have a musical moment.
>>37958421
>Even so, attempting to cut their dad out of their life won't help whatever problem they have.
>cut out
>more distance
Do you see the difference between cutting someone out and adding distance? Mental distance, at that, since they live together. It seems you're projecting. You twist things to make them fit me, instead of just reading the information at hand.
>You're hurting people with your 'advice' and you need to stop
Except the advice you think I give isn't what I actually say. You shot yourself in the foot by doing what you accused me of doing. That's called projection. You're doing it, not me.
>How ironic.
Just eat shit, no one was ever hurt by my advice. Don't be a thick cunt: if you tell someone to cut their parents off, and they do it, they must have a very serious reasons to do so, nobody just obeys advice without thinking about it. Do you think people are retarded like that? They're not, but that you imagine people being this stupid suggests you think highly of yourself, way too highly, considering you can't read simple posts on 4chan.
Now get the fuck off.
>>37958499
>I understand. I feel for whoever I want.
So you turn it on and off? Explain to me because I'm facing someone who might do this too, it's hard to tell.
>>37958586
It's made to be hard to tell. Why do you think most of them are charming and charismatic. I couldn't really tell if a person was switching, but if you suspect them, you will not get away. Just leave whoever it is alone.
>>37958570
>no one was ever hurt by my advice
If telling yourself that is the only way you can fall asleep at night then I won't stop you. You're a big baby that throws fits when someone says anything bad about him.
>>37958653
I'm asking you. Try explaining how it works in you, because I cannot relate. I can't turn my empathy off to anyone, even people who did the worse things to me.
>>37958713
I just get "serious". I feel nothing for a person I don't know, and I only care for people when I think of all the good things they've done for me. Beyond that, I don't like anyone unless they are funny.
>>37958658
Put some effort in it, lad, or I won't respond anymore. 2/10
>>37958782
That's so damn weird. If someone has done bad things to you, you won't feel any pity for them as you crush them, steal from then, hurt them, etc?
What if someone you treat that way turns out to have done the utmost for you despite your hate and cruelty? Would you suddenly feel bad and guilty? Is that possible? Would you cry?
>>37958570
>>37958658
You got blown the fuck off by Nick the tripfag. Go hide yourself, faggot.
And you're such a pussy you'll think I'm Nick, right?
>>37957789
I wouldn't say I need to, but it's not something I want to do and would like someone else's opinion, more specifically my fathers
>>37958658
Just leave it as it is. Nick is a big baby who thinks he's never wrong
>>37958985
Well, you do type like him. And talk like him. And think believing you're him makes me a pussy. But I'm done talking, I doubt he'll ever get over himself and see reason.
>>37959201
The point is that if you start this process under your father's guidance, it won't be the same as if you started it on your own. Your father can't guide you towards the right therapist or give you any opinion on it.
I keep thinking it'd be better if you dealt with this entirely on your own. It's a personal thing, here, it's not family therapy.
>>37959213
I proved you wrong and guilty of what you accused me of, twice. Apart from calling me a big baby, you prove nothing.
You're just jealous. Keep getting mad, big boy.
>>37959240
Anyone not agreeing with you is going to be me, that's fine.
He's true, though, you are a pussy. You'd take a trip if you weren't.
I explained to you why your reasoning is plain dumb. I can't make you intelligent, so just go away and everyone will be happy.
>>37958855
>question 1
No.
>question 2
Eh, my bad.
>question 3 & 4
I don't feel guilty, and probably not.
>question 5
No.
>>37959296
>I proved you wrong and guilty of what you accused me of, twice
You can't even keep track of who you're responding to, big baby
>>37959296
>You'd take a trip if you weren't
Ah right. Because trips are not for pussy-ass attention-whore faggots. Noted
>>37959362
Because you anons aren't using a name.
>>37959426
It was still quite easy to see due to the message itself, you idiot. Read it again
>>37959426
Fuck off you nigger. I didn't insult you until now. And I wasn't aware.
>>37959296
I just want his opinion on whether I should actually go or not, I'm not sure if this will actually help me, I'm functioning right now
What happened? Everyone just died?
>>37960082
Nick's ex sent him a message and he had to cry himself to sleep
>>37955165
I understand, man. It seems like nobody really gives a shit about what I have to say unless I'm wrong or I intentionally act like a shithole. Otherwise, everything I say is just ignored.
Just saw a film called Jawbone. Reccommend it. A good bleak British boxing film.