>tfw over 30 and no gf
How do you kill the pain /r9k?
I smoke weed, try to everyday
Eat, exercise, job , game a bit, eat, jerk off, sleep.
I don't mind it too much, things that turn me on these days are only possible in hentai doujinshis anyway so I accepted that fact and jerked on.
>>37934544
>>37934570
Do you not feel wrong doing this? I don't really want to become an addict, which both of you clearly are. I'm having a lot of trouble surrendering to this fatalist attitude
>>37934628
Once you get used to it, those feelings will pretty much faint.
Of course deep down I hope to get someone in my life, but I can't seem to take it to practice myself.
>>37934743
Tbh i don't know how you can get used to it. I wouldnt be able to enjoy any of those things as i'd always have the lack of a good woman itching at the back of my mind
>>37934868
It's always in the back of my mind aswell, but I need to distract myself with something that seems important/enjoyable if I don't want to cry my eyes out for all the love I have and will probably miss out on.
>>37934491
Where do you think you are?
That having said, focus on things you truly enjoy and that are positive to your well-being
Wouldn't hurt to meet new people though
>>37935039
iktf my friend, this is a painful path to walk. I feel i need something to focus my life around, as i will never have a wife.
>>37935094
Well i came here to find ways to dull the pain as i don't think there are any solutions, thought r9k would be a good place to start with that
>>37935179
>Well i came here to find ways to dull the pain as i don't think there are any solutions, thought r9k would be a good place to start with that
I guess it is easy to say what I said when you don't know the conditions someone is under
Just don't focus on pain too much
>>37935247
The older i get the more i find trivial pursuits like videogames are a waste of my life, and human relationships are far more interesting and satisfying. It's a tricky situation. but i appreciate the advice nonetheless