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Anybody here gets angry easily/has problems controlling their anger ? I do, to the point a fucking porn made me angry. Let me explain:
>want to bust a quick nut
>decide to go to /gif/ and find a nice thread
>found a nice thread and started masturbating
>in the middle of the jerking off section I see webm related
>suddenly my mind connects some dots and comes up with this sudden thought
>"when you have a heterosexual amateur porn video where the camera isn't static or not being hold by the dude fucking the girl, aka someone is filming them, you can assume that it's cuckoldry porn, and 99,9% of the time it is cuckoldry porn."
>when i realize this, i get so fucking angry that i can't finish

this was two or three days ago. Anybody has the same problem or way to fix it ?
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>>37812658

Stop being a faggot, I assume this statement isn't original so I'm gonna drop these extra keys just in case

faggot
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Stop browsing /pol/.
Stop being upset by what other people do because they aren't yours to control.
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>>37812694
It's original, very original, you faggot
>>37812725
i don't browse /pol/ and i am not upset about what they do, i'm asking ways to control anger, cut the "Stop being upset by what other people do" bullshit. You sound like a fucking normie
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>>37812658

????????????

Dude, maybe is just a hooker, and his best buddy is taking the video.

just it
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that's a pretty fucking stupid reason to be angry about something

I do have anger issues though, caused me a lot of problems as a kid but now I just direct it inwards and smash shit every once and a while. Even on /r9k/, there is no sympathy for us faggots.
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>>37812797
i know dude, the problem here isn't what the webm is about, the problem here is how easy i got angry at such a stupid thing, and i'm asking for ways to control my anger
>>37812800
that's why i'm asking for advice, because it was such a stupid thing to be angry about
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>>37812847

I know. the other day i was watching some blakedkino. everything is fine, suddenly the beautiful pornstar do a rimjob.


i don't know why, but i was so upset about, shut it down the porn and went to smash some books.

i understand your problem
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>>37812794
You sound like a retard, where do you think the anger comes from? Because people don't live up to your expectations, which is the normiest thing possible. There's a buddhist saying that goes- being angry at someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

If you genuinely want to find the reason you're angry, try meditation, it gives you insight in yourself and your thought process, nothing else will help you.
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You don't have an anger problem. You have a maturity problem.
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>>37812898
I sometimes scream or throw stuff at my room wall. I did the scream part throughout my entire teens, and for some reason, my parents never even got worried about it.
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>>37812959

What kind of things bothered you during your teenage years?
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>>37812923
the first paragraph was complete shit. Being angry has nothing to do with expectations, being disappointed has everything to do with expectations. And following your stupid idea, i would have to have expectations about the fucking webm to be angry, which i never had.

i did mediation for a year and it didn't work. I thought that here on r9k i would some real advice but people insult me and bring the basic normie advice about anger
>>37812951
T-Thanks Mr. psychologist anon, you are incredible, your assessment about my problems are really deep and full of thorough analysis.
>>37813058
Well, my parents were the overstrict and protecting type, so every time i failed at a task at school, they would do psychological torture on me, like saying stuff like:
>let him failed, them he will see what happens when he is a dad and his kid asks for a toy and he doesn't has the money for it
and things related to that, mostly just this type of torture where they your future would be hell if i failed at just one test, and they would beat me up too some times. All of this, on top the bullying on school, made me very scared of them to the point that i would cry if i got a bad grade on a task/test. Them everything turned into anger at them and the bullies because i just wanted parents that would help me instead bullying me like the people from school. Them i started screaming in my room, and in my late teens it evolved to saying stfu to my parents every time they tried to do the previously described torture. Since them, it has only got worse, even after trying to control it.
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>>37813303
>being disappointed has everything to do with expectations
and disappointment can never turn to anger. nope.

>which i never had
you find the idea of being a cuck disgusting, you had expectations that people fucking on camera were normal hetero relations without a cuckolding angle, when exposed to the reality you get angry

>i did mediation for a year and it didn't work
i find that incredibly hard to believe. maybe you're just a brainlet.
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sauce on webm please
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>>37812658
Woof, he's really pounding that.
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>>37813303
FUCKING -----KILL YOUR PARENTS----
SCREAM AND EMBRACE YOUR ANGER. SHOW UP TOMORROW AND MAKE THEM PAY FOR THEIR ABUSE. ONLY THEN CAN YOU BE FREE
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Yep porn almost always pisses me off for one reason or another when I watch it. I always think to ymself that's just an average girl and some of the circumstances it's like I fucking hate these people when I think about it all. I hate the shit they do. They're just drug addicts and conmen and all sorts of heinous dirty shit. Then I can't help but think the girl is incredibly naive and slightly coerced into it, or a complicit accomplice and it all just seems like bullshit I'd just as soon want to watch those people in rekt thread rather than a porn
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>>37813370
>and disappointment can never turn to anger. nope.
It can, but you implied that my anger comes from disappointment, which is not true, as previously explained

>you find the idea of being a cuck disgusting, you had expectations that people fucking on camera were normal hetero relations without a cuckolding angle, when exposed to the reality you get angry

Again with the expectations thing, i never had expectations about it. I don't find cuckold digusting, indifference is what defines what i think about cucking. There was no goddamn expectations, the problem here is my sudden anger against a small chance that it would fit a criteria that i don't to like to masturbate to or watch.
> find that incredibly hard to believe. maybe you're just a brainlet.

No point in arguing this because you are hellbent that mediation works for you or anyone close to you that anyone that says it didn't work for them, you are gonna label them as anything that proves it didn't work for them because they lack something that makes it work.

Please, if you are going to just insult me and never bring any useful advice, get outta here.
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>>37813511
i can't anon, they are my parents, i love them. And for some reason, during my late teens my mom stopped with it and started being a little more comprehensive while my dad still does it
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>>37813628
if meditation doesn't work then only chemical or physical lobotomisation will work.
or you mellow out with age, but that's doubtful.
find the source of your anger if you want to get better.
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>>37813456
>>>/gif/10778516
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>>37813692
See, wasn't so hard, was it ? Thanks for the help
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>>37813734

yep.
>>37813370
this guy is an asshole.

he know nothing.
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>>37813843
i literally don't get angry at anything for more than 5 seconds if i get angry at all, i'm just giving my personal experience of what helped me, and i have cracked front teeth from getting angry in my teenage years.
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>>37812658
I do have the same problem.. the world makes me so... angry.. hateful.. my eyes bleed with rage when I go outside and see people.. children.. smiling.. their happiness burns my soul and I want to BURN EVERYTHING DOWN.....
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>>37812658

Why can I never hear the sound on webms?
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>>37812658
sauceroni please
origami
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>>37812658
that's not anger issues. that's just insecurity kicks in
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>>37815824
only enabled on /gif/ and /wsg/
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I can't jerk off to straight porn. I only jerk off to solo female and lesbian porn. Maybe you should too.

As for my anger issues, I had to quit playing video games in 2013 because they would put me in such intense uncontrollable fits of rage.
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>>37812658
There was a thread about 2 or 3 days ago asking to sum up your life in one picture, i chose one about being angry.
Some anon told me i'm either not happy about myself or the situation i'm currently in. And then told me to learn more about myself.
I don't really know how to do that, but it did stick with me, and maybe you'll know how to.
That is if your anger isn't just about cuckolding.
Anyway, maybe our problems are related, so whats fucking pissing you off angernon
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>>37816117
Nope, this is just a recent case that used as an example to ilustrate my problem. And please, if you are going to use the same arguments other people on this thread used, at least read the answers i gave to them instead of posting the same thing.
>>37817293
Dude, it's horrible, a simple thing as making an sandwich and unintentionally dropping a small piece of tomato on the floor is enough to make so angry to the point of throwing things at the wall
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>get bullied whole life
>people always backstab me my whole life
>had am emotionally abusive ex girlfriend
>dad always bullied me
now I have angry outbursts, paranoia and I'm extremely self conscious about my looks, one time when I woke up I was so angry i smashed my head against the wall until i got knocked out and went to sleep. These anger issues are really bad I'm really scared that one day I'm gonna hurt someone and wind up in jail. Anger issues are self destructive and I just want a cure. I wish I was normal, I wish that I didn't have to be like this. I think of killing myself everyday.
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So, you are madturbating to another guy, probably a chad, fucking a hot chick, but you get mad when you find out it's cuckoldry?
What?
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>>37812658
stop browsing this shithole.
also try yoga or meditation.
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>>37812658
Then stop watching amateur porn dumbass
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>>37812658
>tell me how to fix this problem!
>*anons tell me how to fix this problem*
>FUCK YOU, I don't like those answers, tell me the REAL ANSWERS you NORMIE KEKS
Every single time, perhaps the easiest tell of pure autism
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>>37821592
100% originally this statement right here.
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>>37812658
>not getting mad about when you find a good thread on /gif/ but no one is actually posting any gifs or webms but just bullshitting and spamming "sauce???"
They need to make it so you can only reply with gifs or webms related to the thread
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