I asked a girl out and I got rejected She laughed as if it was

Hahaha you're a faggot for trying

>>37757119
The more you do it the less it hurts

After a while you'll start to do it just because you're bored
It becomes a gamble on whether you'll accidentally end up in a relationship or not

Maybe that will teach you not to dip your pen in company ink.

(Don't mix your personal life with your work life)

Sucks to be you.

>>37757119

See ya in the woman hate threads anon. Fuck em

she will tell all her friends. they will laugh at you. then. they will discuss you and everything about you. they will pick apart your physical and social flaws.

her perception of you will never be the same.

You first have to just accept the fact that she rejected you and will gossip about it with her girlfriends. Then you try again with someone else because now that you know what rejection feels like it will stop feeling so bad the more you try.

Honestly, don't just 'try'
Only try if you have a chance of succeeding - otherwise you'll feel like shit.

Don't take advice from retards who don't understand your position. When they say 'What's the worst that could happen', Usually they mean 'BUT IT WORKS FOR ME'.

Only ask a girl out if you flirt with her and feel a connection, otherwise don't bother.

>>37757119
Assuming this was in person anon? Do you think that from her reaction she didn't take you too seriously or more like how could that loser ask me out?

Sorry for the way things turned out. Id say at least you opened yourself up and went out of your comfort zone, but I'm not sure that's a good thing.

>>37757210
fuck off beta retard.

>>37757226

We have similar interests and i see her glancing at me over the desk, no other girl does that.

And she talks to me, rather than me talking to her - if you get what I mean? I feel like I cant see her the same way again........ i fucked this up

Maybe this is my social retardation giving me wrong signals, but i swear we were vibing, there was something there.

When she laughed and said, "no its ok... no no its ok" (after offering to go for a drink sometime) i instinctly asked 'oh you have a boyfriend'? she said 'no its not that'

I couldnt bare to talk anymore and just left, no point getting more info t.b.h humiliated already

>>37757239

Yep Im trying to become more normie, and my co-workers interact with me a lot more, and I painfully reciprocate.

Like i said earlier, i took the mindset - whats the worst that can happen, i like her, why not. Rejection isnt a big deal. But it really worse. unironically speaking, i havent felt this low for YEARS.

I mean i improved myself to the point where girls talk to me now, but realistically who the fuck wants girls-as-a-friend, i want a girlfriend!

thanks for the kind words guys im actually drinking away the pain, i never thoght it would feel so bad.

How exactly did you ask her out? Did you tell her it was a date or did you just invite her to dinner sometime or something?

>>37757733
so basically , it was at break and I said hi ____, could i talk to you for a moment? i went with her to an empty quiet part and simply asked about the project we're working on and hows it going, then 'so, i was wondering if your not too busy this wekend if you'd like to go for a coffee?'

And she just laughed saying nonono its fine, its ok. I said, oh do you have a boyfriend? 'no its not that', I just noped out and said well no worries its ok, while smiling like a retard to conceal the pain

then went back to work and we didnt talk, just a smile at eachother as we went home.

Next wek is when the trouble begins, as my female co-workers giggle in my direction .Thats how i'll know for sure ...........

>>37757718
I just don't see your problem realistically speaking, from a sentimental perspective sure, but this is the real world.
As previous posters already have pointed out you usually have to ask 5-10 women out, mind you already then feeling a connection, to get one date.

I got rejected as a teen a few times, and still never had a gf. Thing is, you gotta out yourself in her shoes. How would she like to be asked out? Do you have any personality traits and skills? Niceness is good, but it's such a basic human trait, that you shouldn't be one of those "Nice Guys".

You can also try talking to her about what happened, and ask if you made her uncomfortable or something. I wouldn't ask her out again, unless she keeps talking to you.

Keep trying anon. I believe in you.

>>37757867
>And she just laughed saying nonono its fine, its ok.
>saying nonono its fine, its ok.

I suggest you cut ties with her. A girl said literally the same thing to me when I asked her if she wanted to dance to a slow song with me at prom. Keep in mind this girl was my DATE to prom, and she rejected a dance with me. She later whored herself off to the highschool Chads while I just left prom, went home and smoked meth because I was so upset.

It seems like your friend might actually be a huge bitch and you just don't know it yet. Tell me, does she seem nice to you in general, and does she get a little touchy with you sometimes too? Does she not mind being close to you? The girl I went to prom with was exactly like that, but it turned out she didn't like me at all.

Girls are fucking weird man.

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>>37757867
Wait the women didn't laugh at you yet? Then what's the problem? I grew up with severe anxiety and I don't think one of those worries turned out to be true. I wasted thousands of hours worrying about worrying and worrying.

Hold your head high, and walk through those doors. If someone asks you about it (that person not being your boss) just say "Yeah. I asked her out. So what?" Some girls like that 'fuck it' attitude.

>>37758097
>"Yeah. I asked her out. So what?" Some girls like that 'fuck it' attitude.

Thanks, this is what Im planning to do. the aftermath will require me to make it seem like i dont care and go on acting normal. But i have to tread carefully and not diss her, because they are all her friends.

I might have to compliment her like, shes too pretty for me, or some stupid shit like that.

>>37758260
>I might have to compliment her like, shes too pretty for me, or some stupid shit like that.
Nonono, don't do that. That "haha I'm a loser" shit never works. Acting normal is a better plan. It's very unlikely anyone will mention it.

>>37757119
>(co-workers)
so you tried to ask out someone you have to fucking work with? I hope I'm misunderstanding, or else you should have seen this coming

>>37758315

Um how else to build a relationship with females?

I couldnt succeed with a girl ive known for 4 months, how can i succeed with a stranger?

>>37757119
I've literally had nightmares about this happening (again). I think it's at least half the reason I don't even try with women.

>>37758363
Well, then you're so to speak fucked. Give up. Heard about whizchan?

>>37758430

Ive visited there. Don't think i'm anywhere close to wizardhood yet (but on the path to it)

>leaving the house
>coercing with women

Look at this normie

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>>37757119

The good news is that she probably won't make a big fuss out of it, because she's used to get asked out on a monthly basis.
Even the girls which are 3/10 on /r9k/'s aesthetic ladder get asked out regularly by thirsty men.

This albino nigga >>37758314 knows what's up. Act like it's nothing, if someone dares to bring it up, act like an adult and they'll have nothing on you,
> "Haha you remember when I said xxx to Anon and he didn't give a fuck?"
is something you never hear, for a reason.

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well I'm sorta in the same boat op, I've been out and had a good time with this girl a couple times but I suspect she might have me in the friendzone. I'm fine with having a cute friend rather than no friends though. have I become cuck?

>>37758498
>but on the path to it
A path is a path. That's a highway if you don't change mindset. You just can't afford staying this anxious after every setback.

>>37758676
>suspect
Sounds more like you already know.

>>37758781

wtf kinda retard reply is that? you never know with these hoes

>>37757144
this op wtf desune

>>37758676
>bigtimecuckwalking

Ah, I remember you

Too bad it didn't work out lad, but at least you did something

It'll pass and you can always try again with some other girl, but now you know how to do it

getting rejected a thousand times makes you an expert in losing and it won't be so painful anymore and that is in no way a con

I'm saying this because I speak from experience

>>37758836
Doing stuff together a few times and nothing happens. He's a cuck. There's no point doing anything else from this point on now than either ask her out or trigger jealousy so he can leave that cuckhole.

>>37759017
Well, did you get any results from doing this?

>>37759182
no

domo oregano commento mr roboto

>>37757119
>Playing an unwinnable game

Deserve it.

Don't play Chad and Staceys game.

Act normally, do your job, do it well. Cut any not work-related ties with her you might have, if she asks about it tell her there is nothing to say, you are co-workers and that's it. And don't ever again think about having a relationship with a girl at work. I hope you learned your lesson.

>>37757119
I've literally got rejected 8 out of 10. I did this for two years going through 40+ girls. You have to go through this process... Chads go through this too!. Experience is the only way to get better anon.
>why do you think there are savage rites of passage for 3rd worlders
You HAVE to go through the crucible!
>what you are doing is trying to land a 747 without training
You have to put in the work and hours.
Sorry. No free ride.

>>37757119
dude forget emotions. foreget porn. becoem something like a witcher. emotinaless. give a shit about everything. trust me you will feel much better