How do you guys manage to be self-loathing yet at the same time

>>37576844
Narcissism covers the extremely low self esteem. That's actually how it works and why a narcissist will have "narcissistic rage" at real/perceived insults.

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shy narcissism is the mantra of the nu-male. they can't handle the fact that they are the bottom of the barrel so there's this split in complete denial over it with narcissism

I'm not self-loathing, I just acknowledge that I do not fit into this society, because this society is deeply flawed.

>>37576844
You can be absorbed in your own self-loathing. Being a narcissist doesn't mean you think you're great, it just means you only really think about yourself because you can't empathize with others meaningfully.

>>37576844
im a narcissist because myself is all i have