>have sex with wife tonight >she's a 6/10 at best

>>37574869
this is exactly why i want to never marry

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>falling for the marriage meem

>>37574869
sort of, but we haven't had kids yet and i still think she's an 8.

i think it's more that we constantly argue about shit or have a hard time with budgeting. i still enjoy the sex if i've had time to relax, alcohol helps there too.

don't have any advice but it's been better if i don't jack off more than once a week, we don't schedule the sex or presume that something is wrong if we skip a couple of days, and if we do things separately when we need to recharge. i don't think it's necessarily wrong to get into a good mood after hanging out with other couples/people, and even fantasizing about them. but the root cause for both of us is probably how we communicate with our wives, and that obviously should be dealt with.

>>37574869
I know exactly how you feel. I'm starting to hate sex with my wife. I stay up late hoping she will be asleep when I go to bed so I don't have to suffer through pretending to enjoy the sex.

She looks good but it's so fucking boring pounding on her for 10 minutes and trying to stay hard for sex that doesn't interest me at all.

>>37574974
I almost have to have a few drinks before fucking her. So pathetic to type that

>>37574977
Yeah. It's obvious to me now that men weren't designed to stay with one woman our whole lives. It's ingrained in us to get sick of fucking one person so we can spread our seed more I guess

>>37574869
thanks for making these mistakes so I don't have to anon

Sounds like you need to smoke weed and get a blowjob

>>37575026
Is this true for every man?

I don't have that problem but we've only been married for 2 years, are on the same page financially, have many of the same aspirations, and just had our first kid 4 months ago. Also, she's a middle school teacher and I work 4, 10 hour shifts over night so we don't see each other very much during the week. They say that distance makes the heart grow fonder, maybe there's some truth in that. We bicker a little bit rarely fight, I still love sex with my wife.

Also, why the hell did you have kids

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>>37575026
>>37575043
Degenerate fags detected.

>>37574977
Y'know the trick is to develop your sex at all times
I fap every once in a while when i feel stressed during that time i i will find several things the do in porn positions roles etc and i hqve my wife do these things with me it keeps it interesting because muh dick never wants the same every week

If you're willing, just throw some good drugs into the mix. Alcohol makes for shitty sex. Amphetamines make both sex and orgasm more pleasurable. Anticholinergics make orgasm a hundred times better. Opiates make it take longer to finish but you'll be in a lot of pleasure so win/win. If you're not in it for the raw pleasure and you want to improve the intimacy, you can even try psychedelics or MDMA.

Honestly I know that sounds fairly degenerate but your current situation is actually more pitiable. There alternative is improving your marital relationship the usual ways but it's a lot of effort and without guaranteed success so you better be invested if you try it.

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>>37575043
listen to this guy, he knows what's right

>>37574974
>>37574869
>>37574977
>>37575063

HEY TURBO NORMIES, THESE ARE THE BOARDS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR

>>>/adv/
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>>37574869
Yes, as a normie, I know this feeling all too well

>>37575136
nope, life sucks, /r9k/ is fine.

>>37574869

You are lying. I know because I have two kids and we are too tired to even think about having sex more than once a week, much less rough sex

>>37575136
Don't be jealous that others have lost their virginity. Maybe if you weren't so busy complaining on Cambodian mineral tasting forums you would've out your cock in something by now.

>>37574869
Slowbeef, is that you?
originalio

>>37575063
Hopefully you keep it that way. Sex was great with us for the first 2-3 years. Had a kid at the 1 year mark and at the 4 year mark. Can't pinpoint exactly when it was but I just lost my attraction to her completely. What's sad is it doesn't seem she's lost hers at all so I have to fake it all the time. Would almost be easier if she was disinterested too.

>>37575118
I appreciate the advise and that seems like a good idea but my job is very strict on drug testing and I can not afford to fuck that up at this juncture in my life.

>>37575178
i wish I were lying. If it were up to me I'd be "too tired" to have sex too. Unfortunately she presses me often about it and the roughness is how we started so I can't back down on that aspect now.

Sometimes I look at porn beforehand to get myself in the mood. It sucks because if I ever left their is no way I could do better than her. She looks really good, has a great job, makes more money than I do, and doesn't mind that I'm kind of different.

>>37574869

Yes, it kills me inside for some time now.

That, plus trying to control my hobbies already killed the marriage for me. That said i have a daughter, i'll never leave her alone with her mother, so i'm fucked.

No advice from me i'm afraid, but yeah, i do know how you feel.