I'm a 26 year old girl and have never had a relationship.

All I can say is you need to get with an older man and get married ASAP before you hit that wall and you're forever doomed to crazy cat lady status.

>>37348541
Idk,maybe Try online dating? worked for me,lasted a couple months though

>>37348560
I don't want to get married

>>37348571
Tried online dating, guys were only looking for sex even on okcupid

I'm not trying to get a boyfriend anymore anyway. I just want to know how to make up for a lack of emotional development.

You can't develop maturity anyway other than by experiencing life for yourself. Go and do mature person shit until it becomes second nature to you. Congrats you're mature now.
Unless you mean 'develop maturity' as in getting a smoking hot body, in which case you've gotta work out and probably get implants.

>>37348584
>26 year old girl
>virgin
>never had a relationship
>doesn't want to get married

Why? You should get together with a man who is waiting for marriage to have sex. They make the best husbands. Statistically, that is the most likely way to have a happy marriage

>>37348771
I don't want a husband just a boyfriend.

I'm not a virgin I lost my virginity through casual sex when I was 21

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>>37348811
>I'm not a virgin I lost my virginity through casual sex when I was 21
leave, roastie.

>>37348811
this. women CANNOT be virgins past 21

>>37348840
I didn't enjoy it and I've never enjoyed sex, if that makes you feel better.

>>37348877
>if that makes you feel better.
no, gtfo

>>37348912
Anyone can have casual sex or hire a prostitute, I've never had affectionate sex with a boyfriend, which is really the only kind worth having.

>>37348925
>Anyone can have casual sex
no.
>or hire a prostitute
ah, yeah I'm so fucking pathetic that I could possibly pay someone else to have sex with me. Fuck you roasties have it easy. Fuck. off.

>>37348541
I'm 21 and feel emotionally stunted for not having a relationship with a girl, so the answer is probably yes.

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>>37348541
>Am I emotionally stunted due to this?
Yes. You're fucked in the head, and everyone can tell. You're dying alone :)

>>37348541
try being 29.
i live in a constant state of fear and misery.

>>37348541
try a sweet, younger one which isn''t as experienced as the ones at the same age and explore

>>37348584
>online dating, guys were only looking for sex even on okcupid
I also stopped using it becaus of that. It's quite useless.

does anyone even do that relationship shit anymore tho

>>37349120
>try a sweet, younger one which isn''t as experienced as the ones at the same age and explore


If I could get a date with them I would have done years ago

I need to find a way to cultivate emotional maturity outside of relationships, because I can't get a date.

>>37348541
Are you fat? Cause that could be a problem

>>37348811
An emotionally stunted girl who has never been in a relationship but gets fucked by other men on one night stands. Holy shit, imaging falling in love with that. I don't think its possible.

>>37348584
>>37349120
>all the guys i ran into while online dating were only looking for sex

that is either an outright lie, or you are extremely unlucky. I'm pretty sure it's the former.

>>37349137
There are plenty of guys interested in older women, obviously myself included. It shouldn't be too hard just be a bit more open around younger guys.

>>37348925
Why would anyone want to be your boyfriend when you give it up to random guys? Why deal with all your emotional bullshit when they can just fuck you and be done with you. This is something women will never understand, and why half of them end up sad and lonely. You can't have both, and if you don't enjoy casual sex, too bad for you, you already chose wrong.

>>37349423
I haven't had sex in years, and I would much rather have lost my virginity to a boyfriend but I gave up on waiting for one because I was getting older and it didn't seem like it would ever happen.

>>37348584
>all the guys are looking for sex

that's why when i write in my bio i'm looking for friendships and change my status to Looking for Friends and Serious Relationships it doesn't matter, right?

>>37349474
Every girl says I wish I lost my virginity to you babe, but you didn't so it doesn't matter. If you were 21 and couldn't find a bf you're either a legit 1/10 or have unsalvagable mental problems. Even girls who go out once a week get hit on by guys.

>>37348541
You will never reach the maturity level of your peers if you have no intention of taking a relationship further and getting married and having children.

But if you want to try an online relationship, I would be down.

>>37348541
b my robit gf? I'm 25 and had like 4 serious gfs now so I can teach you stuff. I am mature for my age and usually don't date younger then me. No Fat Chicks though

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Hijacking this thread

How do I stop being afraid of girls and relationships? I'm at a point where even fictional romances from TV/Manga destroy me emotionally, regardless if they end happily or tragically.

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>>37349094
>i live in a constant state of fear and misery.
pink manch?
>>37349673
> I'm at a point where even fictional romances from TV/Manga destroy me emotionally, regardless if they end happily or tragically.
sadly i can relate to that. Im not afraid i just have no fucking idea what I'd do if i was in one, like is it any different from being friends? i dont get it

>>37348541
Stop caring and do what you like instead.

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>>37349694
>like is it any different from being friends?
I can relate to the feeling the characters have because I've felt love before but in my case I just get really anxious because I start thinking "what if it were me? could I stand that much suffering if things don't work?"

This shit is dumb goddammit, I shouldn't feel this way.

>>37348541
>go on /soc/
>fill out chart in honest way
>wait for males to ask for your contact info
>alternatively you can actually look at male charts too if you're that desperate
>talk to them
>weed out the unfunny thirsty betas
>meet up with that chad you liked
or just be my mommy gf

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>>37349773
any non-chad is basically doomed to christian girls, fatties or feminists; pretty depressing

37 yo guy in the UK looking for a relationship, I'm pretty rich and okay looking, decent height, if any late 20s fembot is interested, get in touch somehow

>>37350119
>37 yo guy
> late 20s
fuck off old geezer

>>37350199
>37
>Old
Sure thing.
>some woman in her late 20s still hoping she will get a boytoy
Kek

>>37350424
tfw some old geezer thinking he can still fuck girls under 30 if he isn't paying a hooker.

>>37350119
Why are you on r9k if you're 37 you fucking loser?
Do you hang around playgrounds too?

>>37350487
You think I haven't/can't? I'm divorced, I should have probably added that. Lot of people my age are coming out of fucked up marriages or relationships, it's not like everything in life just becomes linear after 30.

But whatever makes you feel better, lardwhale
>>37350571
Why, is there an age limit to either? lol

>>37348541
be in DUESSELDORF pls and become my gf

>>37350618
you're responding to 12 year old newfags, just so you know.
i literally haven't heard anyone say "old geezer" since highschool and this board has 25+ threads all the time.

>>37350645
Yeah I know, so what? It doesn't mean there are *only* 12 yos on here or that 37 yos shouldn't post here because of underage cancer. I just wish more of them would be honest about their ages so we can have a more open conversation. It's funny that they're getting mad at me because I've actually done pretty much everything in life, and they probably won't get the chance, not if that moron trump presses the nuclear button by accident one day after someone ate his extra ice cream scoop.

>>37350571
>Do you hang around playgrounds too?
I guess a lot of anons do because there is a lot of pedoscum here

>>37350645
>>37350696
>>37350703

stop distracting my future gf you fuckfaces

>>37350624
nobody is in DUESSELDORF let alone GERMANY let alone EUROPE. Save up money mein Bruder and move west to America.

>>37350707
No one under 30 here wants you, old geezer. We already told you.

>>37348584
>doesnt want to get married and raise a family
Well you're a useless waste of flesh like most everybody here, then. Best option is suicide

>>37350739
but there is no health care in America! and no neetbux soon!
>>37350771
Im not old, old sport!

>>37350837
>>37350776
>>37350771
>>37350739
>>37350707
>lets just quote anyone and hope it was the right person: the thread

straight up clowns.

>>37348811

why would you do that?

asking for a friend who is also me since I'm a 26 year old female virgin

>>37350771
Stop fooling yourself into thinking a young guy would want your moldy ass, lardwhale. The availability of rich men dries up the instant a woman hits 29 and there's nothing you can do about it except cry on /r9k/. I come here for keks but you come here because there's nothing else left for you. It's cute that you're trying to psych me into thinking I'm too old for you or for the other washed-up whales but I have plenty of choice where I live. I'm just curious to see what international vagina is available.

>>37350837
If only there was a certain country where they had an american culture and spoke English that did have healthcare and neetbux. God if only.

>>37350872
it's crazy that it's a male with this opinion. you sound like a homo, no lie.

>>37348811
See why do you come here to say that?

>>37350868
>straight up clowns.
you quoted me twice you old geezing clonw, and funnily enough I am the very top and the very bottom of your quoting list.
>>37350879
Do you mean Canada? But how do I into Canada?

>>37350886
well they are a tripfag

I'm confused.

Are those threads filled with guys roleplaying, or do we have women out there who really are that stupid?

>>37350776
>useless waste of flesh
I'd say there are human achievements, worth much more than mere reproduction. Even the dumbest retard can reproduce. There are more than enough humans already. We need innovations, artists, philosophers and similar minds, not dumb rabbits.
You should kys because you see reproduction as the only real goal.

>>37350908
That's the question isn't it. Still looking into that one.

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>>37350872
>I have plenty of choice where I live
Says the one begging for female attention on /r9k/. I don't think so old geezer.

>>37350886
Nah I'm not a fag, just a guy with a business, multiple houses, decent car, enough money to travel the world and fuck bitches and pick up some nasty STDs, and I'm in good shape for my age. Most guys this age are fat fuckers, I stayed slim through cycling and body weight exercises. I'm not even in a big rush to get pussy like some of the betas on here, it's nice having some peace and just being able to watch some decent shows and play vidya and eat some nice food.
>>37350914
Not really a proper tripfag, just for the purposes of this thread.

>>37350925
Have you been to Canada?

>>37348541
MIAMI original bmygfpls
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>>37350942
37 yo guy in the UK looking for a relationship, I'm pretty rich and okay looking, decent height, if any late 20s fembot is interested, get in touch somehow

Sure sounds like begging to me, uh huh

>>37350968
Same as this guy only from Miami and 31.

>>37350958
Nah man I'm broke as fuck and basically saving all the money I can to get out asap.

>>37350968
>Sure sounds like begging
Agreed. It definitely does.

>>37351002
wow I wish you well

>>37351006
Then every single tinder profile or whatever is begging you fucking moron

I'm in the same boat OP. 25 and never had a relationship. I don't think I'm emotionally stunted, but I am inexperienced and if I ever do get a bf he'll definitely have the upper hand on me in the beginning. It's daunting. I don't know how to have an adult relationship when everyone else my age has 5+ years experience.

>>37350908
>still thinks everyone who responds is the old geezer
lol... you can't reason with clowns.

>>37348841
Shit, I'm 20, can anyone else confirm? Does it just happen on your 21st birthday? Rape or what?

>>37351041
Consider the place you are posting. Seems like you are already senile, geezer. Maybe you should look for a nurse instead of a gf.

>>37351023
Alls I need is a job offer from some leaf company and I'm in. Gonna be tough.

>>37351057
Where are you located, inexperience bot?

>>37348584
>>37348541
why do you want a boyfriend?
i bet you don't even know what you want get your shit together and seek help with an "expert" otherwise you're just attention whoring

im 19 yo fembot virgin
i am losing weight and hopping off the abstinence train when i find a perfect bf after my self improvement journey is over

It might amaze you guys, but after 30 you really don't give a fuck about chicks.

If you get laid, great. Otherwise you have enough shit going on that it's fine. (I run a team of researchers at a F500 firm, have 2 cars, a house and travel all the time.) Most cases you can't stand how stupid girls are at this point.

34 LA

>>37351061
I don't even know who the old geezer is, old sport.
>>37351084
what field do you wanna work in?

>>37351083
Are you a woman? No one else would have a reason to be this mad to keep replying. If anything I'm giving the young shits a hope here because they need to be taught how easy it is to get pussy because some dumb bitch out there will always be desperate enough. Only a woman would be this mad at the truth.
>>37351105
This nigga knows what's up

>>37351105
yeah fuck off Chad even though you have a point, but you're still Chad and need to fuck off originally.
>>37351104
>when i find a perfect bf
never gonna make it

>>37351123
Software Engineering. Hopefully with 2 internships and some github shit to show off I will get one. Low chance but I gotta try.

>>37351100
Cincinnati/northern Kentucky
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>>37351144
nice numbers and nice field

>>37351104
Location? Preclaimed for gf if in europe.

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>>37351105
I'm almost there, but have moments of still wanting a gf. It's for sure better than it was in my 20s. Like you, I'm also super busy with work and have found successes in other aspects of my life. I also see all the guys getting screwed over by women, taking half their money, and the whole kid thing.

Hey, I'm just starting to get my own employees. I'm an engineer and now going to have two people under me. Any advice on managing people? Is there something I should read? I'm afraid I won't be able to keep them occupied and use them to their full potential...

>>37351105
>tfw at 22 i decided that i didn't even was interested in sex and wanted to reach wizard status
>stopped lusting after women
>after that i have been asked out by a lot of girls and got some sex invitations from female co-workers
>god is trying to tempt me
>im still kv at 25 feels good

>>37351140
Perfect for me, not Chad perfect.
>>37351158
No, USA.

>>37351148
Pity, we might have been a good fit. :o/

>>37351136
Implying I have a real reason for posting here or replying
not everyone has an agenda besides socializing a bit, geezer.

>>37351057
>girls like this will never exist in Europe
If you fembots want a bf, just move to Europe. I have never seen a 18+ girl never have a date or bf. It just doesn't happen.

>>37351236
It's the same in America. Women just have to walk outside to get a date.

>>37351162
I was a lot like you in my 20's. I really didn't think I was going to end up with a girl since I was a stats guy who while pretty good looking but didnt get much success into mid 20s. Thing is, you get your shit together things work out. I ended up marring a cute jap girl who lets me fool around on the side.

Also for books managing people, read the google's "Work Rules". It's a good overview of HR stuff. Another good book is Druker's stuff on managing knowledge workers.

>>37351182
>geezer
Literally the only thing you have been saying to me. You wouldn't be this mad unless you had a dog in this fight. You're hoping the age thing will go away for you by making me feel bad about being this age, but that's not how it works. I like being how old I am, I have family around who are more than enough of a social aspect in my life. I have children. I have enough money to buy your pussy every night for the next 10 years. I am having fun travelling around the world while you are being salty because you're getting older and you failed to attain a stupid enough beta provider because even betas know late-20s fatties are the cheapest asset available. Keep waiting for that dream toyboy to show up. For a laugh I spoke to a 44 year old on a dating site a few days ago who even though I told I was only speaking for entertainment thought I was sexually interested in her stale ass and got mad when I reminded her I would never commit to something that stale as I'm not that desperate. I have a feeling that will be you in a few years.

>>37351263
Judging by the amount of fembots in the US versus in Europe I'd say you are wrong. Maybe it's your shit healthcare not helping anyone, but there is a clear difference in where most of the fembots are

>>37348541
Shut up and get out. Regardedless of what time age your in where males also exist you are not fucking stunted and you have pleanty of brain dead males that will want you. Get the fuck out of here you roastie shit stain.

>>37351274
Thanks. Congrats on the jap girl. I'm afraid a girl would never want to be with a 31 year old wizard.

I don't even know where to meet girls. I want to meet a qt fembot, but, that's impossible.

>>37351299
No one cares about your story. I'm disgusted how you are trying to fish for much younger girls. I guess you also know that you have to buy them and thats why you constantly post how much you earn. A bought golddigger will never be yours. She will always be a bought whore. Now fuck off, geezer.

>>37348541
>I'm a 26 year old girl and have never had a relationship.

It's over I'm sorry

>>37351432
Thanks, you finally proved to me that you're just a salty fucking hamplanet who knows no sane man her age would waste his time and is mad at the ages-old principle of how men always marry younger women. Stay mad you feminazi fuck.
Had a 10/10 time btfoing you today. See you next mission.

>>37351384
I met where when I was 31 so its doable. Book stores and coffee shops are good places to pick up girls. I always hated clubs, I got dragged along by my friends and had maybe 2 real wins out of the hundreds of times I went.

The best pick up line for day pickups is literally "Is X good?". Then talk about why you need it in a way thats not related to hitting on her. Try to drop some tidbits interesting things for her to ask questions about. Try to demostrate something girls care about in a non-talking about yourself way. Travel, money, job and cool hobbies go a long way. Chicks in the US are really big on travel=awesome. It's kind of retarded but i can play that angle since i lived in europe.

>>37351509
*met my girl when i was 31.

>>37351479
You err, geezer. Plus using dating plattforms and trying on /r9k/ clearly shows you can't be desireable. Gl with finding someone dumb enough to let you buy and fuck her.

>>37348541
How many guys have you had sex with? Be completely honest since you're anonymous.

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>>37351509
>friends
yeah...I don't have an of those.

>>37351175
fuck off Chad, stop the excuses

>>37351675
easiest thing is to just go to eastern europe or asia. America is a lost cause for getting non-fucked up chicks. Being a normal guy is more than enough in other countries.

>>37351733
I live in Miami. My work is here...

>>37351677
I said I'm a fembot??

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>>37348541
Yes. I felt so far behind in high school because most people had experience by my sophmore year. I got a boyfriend and he was very patient and excited to help me become a woman (not sexually).

I'm sure you have a chance but you have to find a patient guy who is willing to help you along the way. You probably should point it out early on so none of you waste your time if he's not down with it. Or maybe find a very inexperienced guy too but i wouldn't at your point.

>>37351479
You are a disgusting example of human trash. Kys

>>37351853
as a fellow fembot, you are stacey and need to get the fuck out

>>37352136
I am a fat fembot but im trying to improve

>B GF in SoCal

>>37348584
>I don't want to get married

then why the fuck do you care you're going to be alone for the rest of your life ?

>>37352151
>fat
okay you're a bot, but get the fuck out once you're not and thus stacey

>tfw no fat fembot to irrationally clutch onto for life, get fit and good jobs with, all that jazz
>instead, memes and depression

our culture needs arranged marriages. how else am i supposed to meet a shut-in girl?

>>37352381
We do have arranged marriages. It'll be purely about money, though. You'll pay everything for her and she'll just act as your trophy wife. Sex will be very limited and love will be non-existant. Cheating is guaranteed.
Also, you have to arrange it yourself.