Why is it that I cant find anyone who wants to be friends as much as I do? Nobody asks me shit about my life or starts a conversation with me etc.
I'm always starting the conversations, asking what their favorite shit is etc. Why does nobody care about me? Even after I ask them stuff like "what's your favorite movie" they dont ask me back... I don't understand especially when I have lots of interesting experiences and knowledge why nobody want to talk to me.
Is it just that all these people have so many friends i'm just insignificant to them?
I'm sick of carrying every conversation.
>>37322941
lets be buds man, I have the same problem
You have the stench of vegetable about you.
I don't think I've ever had someone who truly considered me a friend. I think when people see me that's it, I'm never on someone's mind.
>>37323242
You have the stench of potato about you.
>>37323251
No. No I do not.
That's why people converse with me openly and cordially.
>>37322941
what's your favorite movie, anon?
Mine's Evil Dead 2
>>37323319
Well I don't exactly have one I hold above all others but one of the films I really enjoy is one flew over the cuckoo's nest.
>>37322941
>what's your favorite movie
If you make those sort of questions i think the problem is that you are a boring talker man. Even if you don't do anything "wrong" if you don't get people's interest they will be indifferent to you.
I like Backdoor Sluts 3
>>37322941
If you're trying to meet people on /r9k/ most people here have bad social skills. People love talking about themselves.
>>37323376
I don't talk like an interview, no. I was just using that as an example. I don't think I'm a boring talker it's just that nobody else puts in even the slightest bit of effort.
>>37323388
This is for pretty much anyone I meet in any situation.
>>37323438
>nobody else puts in even the slightest bit of effort
yeah, because you don't make them interested in talking with you
Less is more OP. You'll put people off if you try too hard to make conversation. Friendship naturally comes about in a spontaneous way, you can't force it
>>37323725
That's only true in the sense that most people don't have the same interests as me. I don't see why you feel qualified to make that statement.
>>37322941
>Is it just that all these people have so many friends i'm just insignificant to them?
I have the same situation and honestly we're just not important enough for them. People hang out with me only if their friends are not available. They never ask me how i'm doing despite me carrying all the conversation.
>>37323790
Bore off Captain Autismo.
>>37323790
>I don't see why you feel qualified to make that statement
because that's exactly what you are describing? Happens to me often, as no one gives a fuck about discussing Chinese cartoons, which are the only hobby i have.
People just get bored with you, and the sad thing is that you're not doing anything wrong, just being yourself. Some things just aren't meant to be
>>37323863
Well it's mot like that, I don't push what interests me into conversations where the other person wouldn't be interested in it. If i was asking for advice I would have explained things more.
It just seems like the majority of people don't like to engage others(maybe becauase there are so many people who engage them they just don't bother to put in the effort).
>>37324056
>It just seems like the majority of people don't like to engage others
They don't like to engage dribbling loons, no.
>>37324074
Don't feed the troll OP.
>>37324056
>It just seems like the majority of people don't like to engage others
If that was the case we would be the "normies" and Chads would be the "robots" come to this board to be miserable because banging bitches instead of having waifus would make them social rejects
I'm at the opposite end, anon. People tend to ask me loads of questions all the time and get upset when I try to end the conversations with short, quick answers. I never ask people about their point of view because I really don't care. Good luck with everything though.
>>37324085
>Don't feed the troll OP.
He's being honest you fucking gimp.
It's clear that OP is an autismal mess, people don't want to engage freaks.
>>37324336
Femanon as all fuck.
>>37324629
>trollstrollingtrolls
Fuck off newfag you're the only person who thinks you're funny and exactly why 4chan doesn't have fun anymore.
>>37324629
It actually isn't clear at all and your idea that he's in any way unsociable or awkward is conjecture only.
OP, all that's really happening is you're realizing the average person does not have a complex character or the ability to develop meaningful relationships. It isn't really a bad thing for them but it does mean that if you can't deal with it then you will live a very unfulfilling life as far as interpersonal connections go.