Why do normies interpret social anxiety/shyness as being rude?

>>36948942
it's fine for a girl and also cute

It technically IS rude if you are using your social anxiety or shyness as an excuse to not follow through on normal socialization.

I get very shy too and can have pretty extreme anxiety (to the point of throwing up). I had to learn to get over myself and if I am going into public, to act as normal as possible. Smile at others, make small chat, etc. It has made me a less shy person. I never let other people suffer for my own problems.

>>36948942
They don't actually they're just being tribalistic and they're trying to push you into further anxiety to isolate you from the tribe.

>>36949032
>you must suffer for the bullshit of normies

naw

I actually find it very insulting when someone I supposedly am close to gets nervous or quiet around me. Usually I end up yelling obsenities and/or throwing things but they only get quieter and more nervous for some reason. Social anxiety is a mental disorder

>>36949176
You think yelling and throwing things isn't a sign of mental disorder?

Anyways read >>36949086 you aren't fooling anyone.

>>36949086
Why must I be like this

>>36949224
Be like what? Tribalistic? Because you're basically an ape in an apes culture. It's only natural. Kindness and empathy are an intellectual faccade

>>36949246
Oops wtf with the name

>>36949201
that's the joke original

Because it makes them uncomfortable. Talking is easy for most people. They're talking 24/7. So when someone doesn't talk to them they don't think "wow he must be shy" they think he hates them.

>>36949273
oh well in all honesty I think that mental disorder here comes out of bounds and fails to express "true nature"
Drives home the idea of empathy / sympathy being an intellectual faccade. vice versa

>>36948942
They're very self centered and hate to not be validated instantly by everyone they meet.

>>36949386
The word you're looking for is "insecure"

>>36949246
I mean unable to fit in and communicate with others

Social anxiety/shyness is offensive. You're a weak specimen and deserve to be ostracized.

>passing someone I distantly know on a street or somewhere
>want to be polite and greet them
>ready to do it, waiting for just the right moment
>some quiet mumbled gibberish comes out of my mouth
>they probably just think I'm rude

fuck

>>36949484
I dunno man, probably tribalism or some shit.

>>36949386
Pretty much. Introverts are hated and punished for existing. I wish I could do nothing more than be a sociopathic normie with an enormous sense of unwarranted self-importance and not care about anyone but myself.