>Vividly dream about having a gf for the third time this week

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I know that feel all to well OP. I often dream about simple things, going bowling with friends, or going out for drinks. Then I wake up, and remember I have no friends.

>>36946655
This seems like a stupid question on /r9k/ but why do you have no friends?

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>>36946090
This hit too close to home...

I.. gotta go...

>>36946655
>>36946868

The most crushing thing about it is the absolute trust you have while it is happening.
I literally thought "well at least I'm not kissless anymore" during the last iteration.
Being a virgin I can deal with. But being kissless in my mid twenties is truly pathetic.

I even developed a kissing fetish because of it. When I watch lesbian porn I usually skip right to the kissing part and shut it off when it comes to the actual fucking. I also get unreasonably annoyed when they skip kissing.

>>36946823
Eh, no body really ever bothered with me to be entirely honest, from pre school to college.

As a child I was never invited to any birthday parties, as an adult I'm never asked out for drinks.
It would seem that any time people went out to see a movie, for a pint, bowling etc. I was always conveniently forgotten.

I dunno, perhaps I just put out some kind of "weird kid" vibe. I'm not going to lie and say it doesn't bother me though, It does.

>>36947206
I understand.

Much of what I see on television angers me deeply. Even watching how I met your mother (or some other cancer) gets me wistful. Just a few friends, at a bar, talking shit, something I will likely never experince.

It's weird, most people wish for wealth, or something as materialistic. All we seem to want is what others take for granted. Why is OP, that we can't have what other people can? Are we not human? Maybe we're just the butt of some bad joke.

>>36947331
If you want to change that, next time you overhear them planing some kind of activity just nochalantly say "Sounds cool, can I come?". There's a 90 percent chance they won't say no. Even if they don't like you or don't want you there initially, they still won't reject you simply because they don't want to be rude. Especially young people.

Then, gradually win them over. You don't have to be funny or witty, simply being no asshole and generally acting friendly will completetly suffice for them to accept you quickly.

>tfw have zero female contact with women my age
>never had these kind of dreams

I think the last wet dream I had was fucking Emi from Katawa Shoujo.

>>36947496
Trouble is, I already tried that. People always tend to either flake, or remeber other plans, if I do that.

Belive me friend, I tried.

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>>36946090
every single fucking day I think/daydream about an azn gf
seeing them in real life depresses me as fuck
;_;

Know that feel man. It's been happening to me alot too lately. It's like a reverse nightmare, you have beautiful dreams and wake ul into fucked up reality.

>>36947605
It's not a wet dream if you don't have sex or get aroused.
It's fantasizing about human interaction, contact and companionship.
It's a feel dream if you will.

>>36947713
>dreams are either fake gf dreams, nightmares (usually about a family meber dying) or abstract proceedings fueled by anxiety
>wake up either tired, scared or sad every day

Do sleeping pills affect / calm your dreams? Or do they only make you go to sleep faster?

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>>36946090
>>36947705
The absolute rage these posts bring me is unbearable, me and this one gril both really liked each other but I moved too slow and she got a bf, what hurt worse than being so close and failing was dreaming about her for a week straight afterwards

Don't really know why I'm posting this, just need to vent I guess

>>36948041
>all the girls I ever liked either had boyfriends or got one while I got to know them
>literally more than a dozen by now

Twice I fell in love with a girl who turned out to be a lesbian. Twice.

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>>36947705
>you've been denied this four times in a row in 2017 alone

I don't want to do it anymore please help

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>>36947605
>ywn wake up next to this
why even bother living, honestly.

>>36948197
I've learned to take the sadness and rage and turn it into motivation, works really good when working out

>>36948197
>Twice I fell in love with a girl who turned out to be a lesbian. Twice.
That's just a meme, anon.

Girls say that when they're not interested.

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>>36946090
Are we both the same person?

>>36946090
I know this feel tooooo well. Always I dream about legit awesome sex moments, but then wake to realise I'm a khv with no friends or social life. But on a plus side, it helps me get off later in the day. Take the positives from it lad, always take the positives.

>>36948820
No, this was back when people used facebook. They had relationship statuses and posted pics with their girlfriends. That's how I found out. It might have been a phase or bisexuality or something but it's essentially the same as if they'd had bfs...

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I have these dreams sometimes, not wet dreams at all just romance. They're lovely, then I wake up and realize I'm a 26 year old virgin that never held a girls hand and I want to kill myself. It seems so out of reach for me, yet it comes natural to most guys. I can't even talk to women. Usually I can keep these feelings out of my mind, but every now and again when I'm out I will see a young couple holding hands or making out and I will feel like trash.

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>>36948941
This, never liked black girls but recently had a dream where I get in a hot tub naked with a thicccc black girl and I feel up her fat ass while she blows me and now I have a new fetish

>>36949072
>ftw with every year that passes the questions from your family and friends about your realtionship (and their non-existence) get a bit more stingy, their looks a bit more judgmental -
as you, in an almost detched way, observe your own transformation from a "weird" or "eccentric" guy into a full-blown freak

Being a virgin in your mid 20s is weird but never even having kissed or held hands is something normies can't grasp. It baffles them.

I don't understand how it happened to me either. I'm not attractive by any means. But I'm not completely hideous, antisocial or have some other massive flaw that could explain it.