why is sex better in theory or imagination than actuality?
I haven't experienced gf/love sex but from my experience it's generally underwhelming compared to the fantasy of it
brain tricks to make you reproduce
That's like saying you played basketball a few times but wasn't good at it.
The problem with sex is that you need to know what you're doing... at least one of you.
Sex is different with every partner... my current GF has been the best sex of my life, and I'd way rather get fucked then fap...
My first couple of times was kind of akward....
Have you ever danced with a partner? Same idea... you need to learn each others rhythm and timing. Very few people are natural dancers even less are good lovers.
because you're actually dealing with another real person who doesn't just do whatever you want and doesn't have any dynamic you can imagine and there's consequences to what you do
also because you're circumcised
>>36684044
>also because you're circumcised
I'm not though
>>36683611
The same can be said for lots of stuff.
>imagine beating up someone with sick karate - in reality just get knocked out in 1 hit and almost die in the hospital
>imagine blowing everyone's minds with your sick musical skills - in reality everyone thinks you suck and doesn't even pay attention
>imagine being funny as hell life of the party - in reality no one gets your jokes
>>36683611
I don't know if it's just memory but i'm certain that two times I really had a great time, one with a girl that after it never wanted to go out with me again and other who wasn't from my city...but besides that yeah, bland as fuck
>>36684089
but sex has a very low learning curve and doesn't take a long time to even work out the basics
>>36684253
easy to learn, hard to master
>>36683611
>I haven't experienced gf/love sex but from my experience
what