I matched with a girl like 3 weeks ago. I never messaged her because I think she is too hot and I think of myself as inferior.
Today is the last day of classes. I saw her walk past me and she briefly looked at me but I could tell she wasn't paying attention.
It was her. 100%. I'm a lot taller than her too (she is short). Must be about 5'0''.
Should I message her? What the fuck do I say?
Almost thought like
"Happy LDOC! <Insert one sentence conversation breaker based on her profile info>.
Is that good?
Go for it. What do you have to lose? Tinder is nice because you don't get rejected in person.
>>36623590
Thanks I'll go for it.
>>36623590
Is my message ok?
"Happy LDOC! <Insert one sentence conversation breaker based on her profile info>.
Whens should I send it? I'm in EST
>>36623349
bump for my thread im nervous af
You shouldn't get nervous, and you shouldn't overthink your messages. I used to do this, and stalk their instagram and spend ages putting together the perfect message, and then they don't even respond and your rejection is 10x worse.
>>36623349
Whatever you do, DO NOT mention you saw her. Let her bring that up and be like "oh yeah? Maybe. I was around there at that time."
>>36624397
>>36624635
ok good idea. she looked directly at me for a split second but i could tell it didn't register with her that i was the dude she matched with. she was walking towards a bus. i kind of circled around and tried to see what she was doing but i was like f it and kept walking. i wont mention i saw her. she is cute in RL. veeery short, but she put that on her profile and i 100% knew it was her
>>36624688
Good luck, anon. Post results if/when they come. Don't sperg out if she doesn't respond, and don't respond back to her immediately when she does.
A good way to wait on responding is to just leave your phone and go get food or play a video game. Then pick it up an hour or so later.
>>36624688
Oh and don't fuck it up by posting identifiable information here. Your fellow bots will out you on reddit like sniffjizzler and then you'll be fucked.
>>36624814
OK. DWWP BREQATH,
I am about to do it.
"Happy LDOC! <One sentence question based on her profile info>
DUDE IM NERVOUS AHHH
IM DOING IT
just do it already you fucking poofter
>>36624884
Also what the fuck is LDOC?
>>36624958
Last Day of Class you colossal fucking retard.
>>36624958
Last day of class... I fucking did it. I messaged her.
Now I am paranoid she won't respond and/or unmatch me.
>>36624990
Must be a new thing? I graduated from college in 2010, never seen that before.
>>36625019
Yeah got get a burger. Got any friends? If you're in college you can pretty much just knock on someone's door. Or just go for a walk by yourself. Also not weird if it's a walking campus.
Get out, get off your phone, relax.
Also,
I match with several attractive women on campus. I seen another one SEVERAL times on campus. I messaged her once (dumb message). She never replied. Kept seeing her on campus. She never saw me.
Should I message her again? We matched in Jan. Matched with the girl I just sent this message to 3 weeks ago.
I magtched with several other women months ago and i thought they were too attractive to message. Maybe I should message them too?
>>36625095
ok good idea. i gotta final i need to study for. i';l keep thread open and if it 404s and she ends up replying to me i'll use a tinder icon and do an update
>>36624990
>>36624996
>>36625072
Yeah looks like it was coined in 2011 at Duke. Redeemed.
>>36625123
Awesome man looking forward to it!
>>36625138
Ah, makes sense. LDOC is where chads/staceys party all day.
>>36625161
Thanks!
<pleasedonotmuteme>
>>36625166
I mean college is pretty much 4 straight years of partying. The last day is actually the saddest because the party ends.
What I am worried about the most is I am emssaging them 1+ months after they match with me. Worried they may not check/get notified I messaged them.
>>36623763
><Insert one sentence conversation breaker based on her profile info>.
such as?
>>36625456
Very few people give a rat's ass about how long it takes for you to reply. In your defense, she hasn't messaged you either
jus b yurself
>>36624397
>I used to do this, and stalk their instagram and spend ages putting together the perfect message,
If you do this you probably dont have much of a chance anyways
>>36624635
actually he said.
A) its something to talk about
B) potentially a compliment since you remembered her
C)autistically obfuscating the truth to make a facade is immoral, retarded and creepy
>>36625506
ok thanks
>>36625496
asked her something related to what she mentioned.
i'll message another girl later tonight.... but i do have finals to focus on so i need to study.
>>36625528
>actually he said.
*actually he should
>>36625548
it's too late. i sent the first message. wait to see if she replies and the amount of time that passes if she does.
Actually on that note, anyone ever match with someone living ridiculously close to you?
I've matched probably four times with the same girl (she kept restarting her account) who lives right in my housing estate. Wouldn't be surprised if I'd met her before
If for some reason she doesn't message me would it be OK to approach her in RL if I saw her?
Also, for the girl I messaged in Jan (and seen on campus 4+ times w/o her seeing me) is it ok if I message again? If so, what would I even say? My initial question was a lame one asking if she ever been to X random resturant. I thought about mentioning I thought I saw her.
She is mutual friends with another girl I know. I wonder if I should bring it up that i matched with her to her mutual friend? (I sorta doubt this is a good idea)
>>36623349
You can be a couple, you're in the same league. You have a social handicap. She has a physical handicap (being a midget).
>>36626009
No. If she doesn't get back on Tinder it's a good enough reason to assume she doesn't want to IRL
You can give the other chick at max one more try but don't bring up the mutual friend.
>>36623349
Shes already fucking chad. Lay down and rot instead.
>>36626181
Ok. Problem is girl is from out of state according to tinder. That means if I messaged her now, she'd be here at most another week until finals is over. Only thing I could say to other chick is "Hey, did I see you at X place on campus?" but in a non-creepy way.... other than that maybe a better message would be "Ready for finals?"
original girl hasn't messaged me back yet. I'll wait a day or so.... i wish i spoke to her in person today but that could have been super awkward. Plus, I did watch a little what she did when she passed me and it looks like she ran into a guy friend. But I couldn't see if it was anything more than that. I think it was a "hey!" <hug> gotta go. But I couldnt see if she hugged him cause I got spooked she'd see me obviously staring at them. At most I just saw her stop, some dude came up to her. Then within 5 mins she was gone, I assume to the bus stop.
>>36626092
Yeah, that makes sense. She looked like a middle schooler. but she is hot. I just saw she took she is 5'0'' off her profile and kept a joke about how small she is up.
>>36625528
A. It's something extremely boring to talk about, and an extremely shitty opener.
B. Compliments are bad openers. If you lead with a compliment, you are immediately demonstrating you think they are better than you are.
C. Immoral? Maybe. Depends on your moral structure. OP is looking to get laid I think, so it doesnt really matter what your moral constructs are. Retarded? No - that's how this game is played. Creepy? The opposite. Sperging out and saying HEY I SAW YOU TODAY DID YOU SEE ME HAHA PROBABLY NOT WHOOPS I LOVE YOU is creepy.
just matched with a 40 year old lady. should i go for a mommy gf?
>>36626181
Anyway, I'd say the girl that initially messaged (not the one in OP) but one from Jan that never wrote back is a solid 8. I got interested/reminded of her again when some frat dude was looking up her FB for a "friend" that was too scared to ask her to some dance shit. She's hotter than the mutual friend I know of hers. I thought I about telling her mutual friend I matched with her hotter friend. But could be weird. I was interested in her mutual friend but the more I talked to her in class the less interested I became. I figured I'd start new by messaging the girl I made the thread on. Still no reply. I'll listen to the other anon and study.
I saw her on campus (thread girl) but thought it'd be super weird to stop her and be like "HEY YOURE MY TINDER MATCH" so I thought about it 3-4 hours, made this thread and sent her a message.
>>36626422
MOMMY!
<plz no mute me>