Step parent stories

You got off good
>don't remember anything about biological father but his face and 1 memory of him buying me sprite when i was 5
>am 9
>some guy moves in
>don't understand what's going on, whatever
>get married
>now step-father is much younger than my mother
>if he was my real father, i'd be born when he was 14~
>is not interested in raising a kid
>all my memories is him yelling at me for various shit
>himself has done nothing (no college too) in his life expect have a shitty paying job and terrible health
>decides to have a baby with mother
>quits his job and becomes a highly overpriced babysitter leeching off my mother
>is not interesting in raising the new kid either, just yells constantly
>drinks
>have to move out to a nearby house to live alone when im 12 because there's no space for me anymore (they still fed me and stuff)
>spend the following years getting raised by internet

Grew to resent my parents and stepfather. No real parental figure to help me figure out shit. I blame them for my problems.
If I hadn't found a true friend who was like my sub-father in a game that still is my close friend now, i'd have probably killed myself already

Don't leave me hanging here OP

tell me more good stuff about your step father and i'll throw something bad back at you

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>>36591456
OP Here

> About a year later
> Had finally gotten the a computer with the internet in my room
> Probably also my step-dad's doing
> Catch is that it's the only pc in the house
> Get home from school one day and find him on the computer
> I had left limewire open
> BUSTED.AVI
> All my gross porn laid bare
> Tells me that I should probably hide my material like a normal kid.
> And stop stealing music, anon.
> Really? What's the catch.
> tfw there was no catch
> few days later he bought a laptop for him and my mom to use.

feelsgoodman.

>gets drunk
>yelling with mother
>be in the other room
>can hear him trashtalking me
>"that little fuck is just sitting on his ass"
>"all he needs is food and someone to wipe his ass"
This kind of trashtalk happened always when he was drunk, idk why I was always the focus of his drunken rage.
Why do people marry single mothers and expect not to have to deal with the fucking kids?

>>36591822
>>36591664

the same anon here, forgot to reply

just avoid any confusion

Well if you wont talk to me I might as well talk to myself

>1am
>already moved outside in the other house
>all alone
>sleeping
>phone rings
>it's step father
>pick up
>"Go the fuck to sleep"
>"but I am"
>"yeah right you shit, I can hear the music blasting here''
I was still young and probably edgy but I wont deny I didn't think about somehow killing him

>>36592143
I honestly don't really have any more stories about him, I'm sorry.

Remembered another one

>17 at the time
>he's drunk as fuck
>partly sleeping
>mother has to go to work
>asks him to do some stuff
>after some nagging he gets up from the bed
>starts yelling at maximum volume with a tone that could be explained just as angry giga nigga
>yells that no one around the house does shit when all he does is drink and watch TV 24/7
>mother argues back by yelling
>he yells for her to pack him a bag and he's gonna leave
>not too late after he's yelling "maybe I should hit you once for all"
I'm correcting the language here, russian rage doesn't translate well. Im not russian myself
>yelling escalates so hard I think he's gonna hit me or anyone else
>remain super calm but sort of feel empty inside
>think that he's drunk and has a bad back so if he comes at me, i could probably take him
>sit in the kitchen, pretending to wash the dishes
>hold a knife in one hand
>inb4 edgy
>I didn't know any better than just to protect myself with something sharp, sue me
>awaiting what happens next
>waddles outside till the next day
>next day everyone pretends nothing happened

It wasn't fun

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>>36592298
it's ok OP

im more like just feeling to pour my hate out

>>36592300
I've been there, lol. Feelsbadman

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>>36592300
I'm sorry bro.

I hope things are going better for you now.

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>>36592431
>>36592479

I lost all empathy towards him that day. Wouldn't care less if he got hit by a truck

I used to consider waiting for him to get drunk and just slit his wrists to make it seem like a suicide, but well

Just grew to ignore him. Look on the bright side though, if I decide to kill myself, I won't have such a thing "i dont want to hurt my parents" keeping me back

Damn, looking back I really was an edgelord
But what can you expect from someone who was raised by the internet and randoms in video games

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>>36591185
>My dad was a good guy. Country doctor who was never rich, but we never lacked
>8 years old my mom gets cancer. She died in just 9 months. Dad was a wreck, the doctor who couldn't help his wife.
>He tried to raise me and my 2 kid sisters but it was hard
>When I was 12 he remarried. She was so young she was 12 when I was born
>She worked SO HARD to be a mom; My sisters loved her, but I could remember my mom and couldn't explain that her being there made me sad because I wanted my mom, even though my step-mom was cool
>Just before my 15th birthday my dad just - died. We were watching football and he started snoring. We laughed quietly and snuck out of the room so he could sleep.
>He never woke up. Heart attack got him, right there, and we thought he was napping.
>Step-mom fell to pieces. Cried all the time, drank too much, slept a lot. I took over raising my sisters, Got a job at 16, enlisted at 17 (she signed the forms)
>When I signed up she sort of snapped out of it. Stopped drinking, stopped sleeping all the time, got a job, and was a mom again.
>When I was leaving she apologized, promised she'd be a good mom to my sisters. Hoped I could forgive her.
>I visited as much as I could. She did great and my sisters adored her
>When I was 20 a drunk driver slammed into her. Killed her and my kid sister instantly. My baby sister was with a friend.
>Baby sister came to live with me, I got base housing
>Baby sister is in college, now
>When I dream of my mom sometimes she has my step-mom's face

>>36592602
Fuck man I've been on 4chan for almost 10 yrs now and that might be the saddest thing I've ever read on here

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>>36591185
you mother is a leech, a parasite and a whore.
nice 1 lad

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>>36592602
Sometimes life just doesn't want to give you a break

stay strong

>>36592537
Well, in term of being an edgelord.

> Step dad has 2 kids who live with their mother.
> Super Chad (picther of baseball team and loved by all) and Ultra Stacey (on the drill team, which is a Texas version of cheerleading that is for the prettiest, richest girls)
> She was a bitch and had graduated by the time I moved there.
> I was a freshman, and super Chad step-bro was a senior.
> Step bro makes an effort to approach me in the hallway, try to get to know me, introduce me to his friends and help me get situated in this new school.
> Overall tries to be a cool bro, despite having no reason other than being nice.
> I'm too much of a fucking edgelord to be associated with that fucking jock prep.
> tfw I ruined my best chance at being a normie because I'd rather be edgy
> That said, we are cool now, and when the family is together, he and I usually bail and get drunk and make fun of our families

>>36592702
I'm just glad I wasn't openly autistic/edgy

I have got plenty of problems in my own head but I never spilled my spaghetti, im just quiet and speak only when spoken to. Could say I was/am invisible

>>36592773
>tfw my mom now loves the bitch ultra stacy because she has a baby, and none of her kids have one

It's pretty fucked up.

>>36592843
>watch a TV show where the father has a heart to heart talk with his son
start tearing up knowing i'll never have a connection like that

Ever called your step-father a father or dad? I never associated myself with the drunk mess mine was. Alongside that stopped calling my mother mom/mother as well. Just 1st name basis
A kid shouldn't grow up like that. Feel like I wasn't meant to be

>>36592918
>Ever called your step-father a father or dad?

Nah, I had/have a dad. My relationship with my dad got WAAAY better after my parents split. Turns out being married to my mom turned him into an ornery asshole.

I fuckin' love my dad. maybe 1000 miles of separation helped.

>>36592918
>>36592999


ALSO, I was 15 when I met my step-dad, so the bulk of the raising had already happened. It probably would have been different if I was younger.

>>36591185
>17 neet
>fucking sweeting balls
>step dad asks me to take the laundry upstairs
>go in my room to change into shorts first
>he shuts the power off to my room
>get my clothes on
>go out of my room
>why did you shut off the power?
>YOU AINT DO NOTHING
>I was putting shorts on
>oh oh
>grab laundry
>walking up the stairs
>he says I need to do what he says when he says it
>he pays the light bill
>say with what job and laugh
>he is furious
>I can't stop laughing and walk upstairs with the laundry
>he's pissed yelling now
I won this round

>>36591185
>Dad died right after I graduated college. He'd been sick for years - cancer kept coming back. I think he was relieved
>Couple years later mom re-married. Some dumb-ass guy from Massachusetts with a real thick Yankee accent. Spends his time off work drinking, playing cards, and watching the red sox
>Meh.
>I am visiting for Thanksgiving, he is yammering something and says [paraphrase]
>"If ah'd been yuh fahthah Ah nevuh woulda' let the cancer get me, Ah'd have beat to for muh kids"
>My father went through years of chemo, radiation, and surgery including having his entire fucking stomach removed and always, ALWAYS, had a smile for my mom and us kids, never complained, never even acted depressed. Towards the end he asked for minimum doses of painkillers so he could be alert enough to talk to his family coherently and the pain was so bad he would shake and sweat, but he'd smile and tell us he loved us. So I told him
>"You aren't man enough to lick my father's shoes you jumped up yankee piece of shit."
>He glared at me the rest of the weekend but never said shit
>Christmas comes and I am visitng. It is Christmas Eve; I'm at the car getting presents from the trunk and he wanders out and says,
>"Ah haven't fuhgaht what you said. You evah talk to me like that again and Ah'll whup ya'"
>So I punched him, right in the solar plexus, just a jab
>He collapses into the driveway, gasping and wheezing. I tell him
>"You try anything or threaten me ever again and I won't stop beating your ass until I get hungry for dinner, you fuck"
>I got my gifts and went in
Never had another problem with the guy

>>36593087
I can so relate to that

>always washed the dishes
>never left my own in the sink for anyone to wash
>washed everyones dishes
>one night had cereal and left the bowl on my table in my room
>school in the morning
>didn't want to put the bowl in the sink because planned to wash it myself once I get home
>come home after school
>bowl on the table
>try to turn on computer
>wont work
>step father took the wire that gives power to the box
>had to fucking apologize for not washing a single fucking bowl in my entire fucking life


I have some fucking dish ptsd now. Triggers me so hard when people don't wash their own dishes because i always had to wash a ton

Not really a step parents story but whatever
>Father is in the army
>Comes home to find that my mum had cheated on him and fucked other guys
>My dad leaves her
>Mum retains custody of us
>Mum starts doing cocaine and heroin
>Basically an alcoholic
>Goes through like 5 different men
>Settles with a 20 year old guy despite her being in her 50s
>Meanwhile my Dad has 3 different houses over the world and is successful in life
I really can't deal with this feel.

>>36593087
another one
>19
>decide to get a tattoo
>get a slipknot S on my forearm
>like a day later when I was home
>step dad is drunk as always
>I go in the kitchen to do something I don't remember what
>changing the trash
>he starts rambling on about tattoos and how bad they are
>get up from messing with trash bag
>look at him and say shut the fuck up
>he says don't you talk to me like that
>tell him to fuck off and go away no one likes him(he is a drunk, even my mom is sick of him)
>he gets pissed tells me I need to get out
>storms off outside
>my mom says I shouldn't of said that
>looks like I'm moving
>get some boxes pack up my shit
wasn't dealing with his dumbass so I moved to my dads the next day

>>36593171
you are my hero anon

fuck, why are so many step parents such trash

>>36593201
also he drove off drunk that night. I wish he would of got caught by the cops. He is a true dirty dirtbag. My mom wouldn't be with him if they didn't have kids together honestly.

>>36593236
good on you for moving out

wish I could've done that but as I heard my biological father is living with his old mother because he's having a lot of health problems

or those were all lies and he's a neet

>>36593266
yeah but I ended up moving back a year later because I was getting bitched at every night by my grandma for every little thing and I tried to commit sudoku and ended up in a looney bin

>>36593297
I considered sudoku many times

Hilariously enough pure hatred for my parents/step father held me off that action because I didn't want to kill myself because of some fuckhead

>>36593230
they feel like they are entering a relationship with the parent and that the kids are just something they'll have to deal with.

i haven't talked to my mom's bf in months despite the fact that we see each other every day and live in the same flat
i hate that dumb drunk mongoloid

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>>36591185
All women are gold-digging whores.

Holy fuck do I love waking up and seeing all of my things still where I've left them and money still in my bank account. Women literally do not care for a man's personality or integrity. They just use us as resources.

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>be 5, parents divorced when I was 3
>dad still in my life for a while until one day in February he just fucks off
>step dad and mom got married the same year he fucked off
>dad was always super cool, got me anything I wanted, mostly Godzilla stuff
>step dad does his damn best to be a good father figure and he's just as bro-tier as bio dad
>then things change when I'm in late teens
>quits his job when I'm 16, moves his disabled sister out of retirement home to user her social security check for income
>his sister is the most annoying piece of shit in the world
>constantly smells like piss and shits the bed, stinks up the house
>mom and I are furious, he doesn't care until mom yells
>another year goes by, 17 now
>he's cool again I guess, he's just jobless and all he does are the dishes
>having a tough time at school, incredibly stressed from workload and other kids not knowing how to stop talking
>usually have a nap when I get home and go to bed at a good time at night
>mom understands and has dinner ready when I wake up
>he's known to throw temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way
>pissed because dinner isn't earlier
>doesn't blame me at first but it's all about me later
>it's my fault I'm stressed out, my fault that other people talk too much
>stay home one day after I was diagnosed with depression, feel like shit
>he busts in my room at like 8 am, turns my lights on and tells me to get up
>don't
>5 or so minutes later he comes back screaming, takes my computer's hdmi cable and nothing else
>he doesn't apologize and acts like shit all day
>forgets the entire thing happened when mom got home
>about a month later I found out how to see what someone is watching on chrome cast with YouTube
>I see whenever he fucks off to his room he's usually watching porn
>foxy di and luscious Lopez mostly
>show this to my mom
>she goes apeshit on him, he never says anything negative to me in the end
>drop out of hs, get ged
>move in with brother, get job and moved on with life