Mentally... its like marinating your brain in negativity.
more like marinating your brain in gay faggots
>>36304874
>life already extremely negative
what's a little bit more going to do
>>36304905
hopefully push you over the edge
And what's good for me?
>>36304874
>r9k makes you depressed meme
No, My life makes me depressed. r9k helps me cope.
>>36304874
being on r9k just makes me appreciate being a wagecuck.
i dont know what I'm gonna do tmmw during easter. i have to go outside or i might just blow my brains here.
>>36304874
I'm here for the once-in-a-while serious discussion and to give people advice. But yes, commiseration is not healthy. If that's why you're here, you should leave /r9k/.
>WHO YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH IS WHO YOU BECOME
>>36304874
r9k is like struggling in math class and having drop outs tell you math is for fags and they never use math in their life. This place has a crab in a bucket mentality
I come here for the feels. I try to avoid most women hate threads and any gay/sissy threads. What this place has done to me is make me resent my cut dick with all these threads. Wasn't even done at birth. Happened when I was 2 for medical shit. Guess I need to actually have sex and find a woman that'll love me for who I am to reassure me. Hopefully.
>>36304874
is that a fucking man
that had better not be a fucking man
>>36305152
it's a girl. Grace from youtube channel called Texan in Tokyo
>>36304874
It's better to have something than nothing.
>>36304874
>implying I give a single shit about my mental health
WHERE DO YOU THINK YOU ARE
>>36304874
then why are you here?
/orgain
>>36304874
you sound like a normie desu
>jus bee positive brah
why is she putting her bare ass on a subway seat
I come to this place so that I can get a laugh every single day to know that my life will never be as bad as any of you white people and I happen to be a black guy who lives in the ghetto
>>36305677
/pol/ plz go and stay go I hate you guys
>>36305709
I dont go to that board.
>>36305035
Life makes you depressed.
r9k keeps you depressed
>>36305773
>Life makes you depressed.
>Life keeps you depressed.
>/r9k/ lets you kill time talking to other depressed people in between pictures of chicks with dicks
>>36305768
stop baiting
gar
>>36305099
This shit is retarded...
This only works for women they follow the herd they don't think for themselves and only listen to their "friends"
Also if this were truth how do you explain geniuses?
>>36305099
translation:
be born into the right life circumstances or get blamed for 'not working hard enough'
>>36305822
Geniuses dedicate their time to their passion/skill. They dont dwell on r9k and waste time with people that complain bout how life sucks.
Leave r9k and take action
>>36305773
It really doesn't. Maybe other people have this emotional effect. R9k is dominated by Normalfag posting anyway. It's not even a depressing place anymore.
>>36304874
You're absolutely right. Most depressed kids on here don't even realize they're being intentionally brainwashed by gay trap shit and negativity
>>36306172
>anons on /r9k/
>having passions/skills
Also that doesn't answer their question, since it is based on who you surround yourself with.
>>36306252
Well think about it. It is impossible to not be influenced by your surroundings. Most people with friends tend to start to act the way their friends/family do. If your friends greet eachother with whats up nigga daily, it becomes your lingo. If your family loves to give eachother hugs, u might start to give people hugs. So if you decide to surround yourself with r9k regularly, the viewpoints which are mostly negative here, will impact your mind to automatically go to those thoughts when you encounter bad times in life.
>>36306792
But if you surround yourself with nobody you're bound to be a nobody. So who did geniuses surround themselves with?
>>36304874
TOP KEK I'm a happy person here to talk philosophy and politics. Depressioncucks and trap chasers can live in an iceberg for all I care.
>>36306975
If they surround themself with no one they become themself or whatever interest they fill their time up with. Which is probably why geniuses can become that way because they had more focus without relationships. Thats alot different than feeling lonely and surrounding yourself with r9k
>>36304874
This is very much true, but there's no way you're going to get anybody off the board by saying this. In fact, you're more likely to get them to stay here farther because they see you as the enemy. That's how I felt when I'd be on here upwards of 12 hours a day back when I was in college eight years ago.
All you can do is let it be. Either that or get them pussy.
>>36307099
That's an interesting perspective on it I suppose. However if we consider that, then what if you are /r9k/ in personality? Would it be more or less beneficial to be in solitude? Not everybody has the capacity to be an Einstein, speaking from experience. I practiced something I held a high amount of dedication to for a full year without stopping and all I got out of it was raging at my own incompetence. I couldn't even have fun with it anymore.
Shitposting on 4chan about my failure was therapeutic and I'm pretty much over it by now. Even /r9k/ helped me come to terms with my shittiness, oddly enough. At least I'm not the only failure when I come here.
>>36307252
If you enjoy being like /r9k/ in personality, then thats fine but i assume with all the depressed robots here, theres a reason they are depressed. Coming here doesnt help that.
Also, what you choose to dedicate your time to doesnt have to be genius level. Maybe you are just an average joe that likes video games. Atleast your making progress with games, exploring fantasy worlds, improving reflexes, making gaming buddies, etc. Thats a good way to enjoy your life. Better than letting the negativity of /r9k/ influence your mind.
>>36304874
Shut the fuck up, faggot.
Utugvj
>>36304874
>implying i havent tried to leave
r9k is a life sentence, pal. you can leave whenever you want and for as long as you like but you're still stuck here
you're here forever if you like it or not
>>36304874
I know it is, but I can't stop. It let me get bad feelings our that I can't talk about on other boards, but then it gave me more bad feelings to talk about, and it just keeps repeating itself
>>36305842
Nah, more like, the people who you like to be around with shapes who you are.
>>36307523
A suggestion from someone who was on /r9k/ for upwards of 12 hours a day at a time: Do something else. If you can get away from a computer, do that. Go outside and read a book somewhere or play a video game somewhere outside.
If you must stay on the computer, watch a movie, play a video game, write a screenplay based on your life. All more productive and helpful than being on /r9k/.
And I guess this is a bit hypocritical as I am on /r9k/ at the moment, but I'm also watching Rizin.
>>36307523
Thats the problem. You get addicted to the negativity. Its a neverending downward spiral. The way people can overcome depression isnt to avoid feeling it, but to understand they shouldnt dwell on what is out of their control. Sitting on /r9k/ increases the dwelling and even opens up more reasons to be depressed by everyone pulling you down with them. Its similar to being in an abusive relationship and you just never break up because its comfy for you.
>>36305144
yeah that's in your head 100% exacerbated by r9k. women don't give a fuck about dick cut, and those that do prefer circumcised 99% of the time
>>36307633
>>36305144
I was worried about my dick. Then the chick I was with took it out of my pants and started stroking it and that was that.
Trufax: If you're with a woman and your dick gets taken out, unless it's a micropenis or it has smegma all over it, you're getting laid.
>>36307449
To specify, I practiced Touhou 12: Undefined Fantastic Object for 1 year and could not complete normal difficulty. I was criticized by my family for how angry I was getting. I was not improving and I am apparently alone in my situation even using google because people tend to clear normal on the series within 2-4 months. Even getting advice from various resources did not help. It was an overall awful experience.
I don't think I've actually enjoyed video games in a while, most of my experiences have been kinda shit if it involves other people and I'm too self-critical for anything requiring skill. Being ridiculed by people (not /r9k/, just in general) was the whole reason I took up trying to get better at that damn series, along with others. I don't think I've ever actually gotten better. Even when I succeed through persistence alone I just feel so empty. I don't even get a sense of accomplishment.
I'm tired of being mocked by everybody in my life, I guess. At least if it's 4chan I can narrow it down to shitposting instead of an actual personal insult. I can't get away from that in my hobbies nor in my life.
>>36307883
I recommend choosing something that you are naturally good at, drawn to, or is unique to you. Something that challenges you not in an angry way, but one that excites you to learn more and make progress. Something has no end and you can be proud of regardless of what others think. Its not something you need to prove. Just something you enjoy doing for yourself.
>>36308042
If I knew I'd be doing it.
>>36305099
>Successful people hang around with successful people
Your a nerd and want to be popular? Just hang out with the popular kids silly.
>>36304874
You are correct. And good use of "marinating"
>>36304874
4chan in general is bad for you except for smaller boards with specific interests like /lit/ /out/ trv/ and /biz/
>>36308080
More like your a nerd so hangout with other inspiring nerds and create cool shit instead of walking into a room full of bullies that make you doubt yourself. This is what /r9k/ does. It ruins your potential.
>be me, spent years on r9k and 4chan in general
>no friends for the last 5 years
>no job in 2016
>2017
>meet gf for the first time and get job in the same week
I have done nothing differently to warrant these responses
What the fuck...
:)
>>36307633
Problem as well is reading how women enjoy uncut more because of the whole 'gliding' motion it comes with a normal penis. Women enjoy it more and requires a lot less natural lubrication to insert.
>>36305210
is that thing a trap?
>>36305099
>hang around nobody
>become a nobody
guess the normies were right this time
>>36304874
>witch hat
>glasses
Yes please
>>36304874
Maybe if you just stay in /r9k/
But you can always go to /n/ afterwards to recover.
But I come here specifically to marinate my brain in negativity.
>>36304874
Only relationship wise.
But that's a good thing, Less emotions = more rational decisions.
Also I'm quite hopeful about the future (career-wise, idgaf about relationships)