How do I stop being so beta or cringy with women, especially

The simple answer to that is confidence. All you need is confidence to stop being beta or cringy around girls that is all you need to do.

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>>36263387
>le confidence meme

How can I be "confident" when I'm a manlet with no accomplishments?

>>36263354
Remember that they, and everyone else, including you, are not all that. I've never understood the fact that men start sweating bullets around women. They're below you, what are you afraid of?

>>36263448
Here this might help you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOJrVvbI3HU

>>36263354
Holy shit that whole video is cringe as fuck.

That was some of the lowest production quality I've ever seen in a youtube video. The editing was bad. The sound quality was bad. The shot is bad. The shot was literally him awkwardly standing far as hell away from the camera, like he's about to tell me about a product. He's just looking down reading off of his phone, and then having a short, underplayed, unclever reaction. He was clearly trying to speak as slowly and as clearly as possible to make himself more understandable (which didn't work) and all it did was remove any sign of personality from him and the video. This looks like a highschool class presentation.

Don't ever post some shit like this on here again, anon.

>>36263543
man, i'm surprised you watched then criticized a 300-view video with 6 likes and 5 dislikes. But I assume you're being honest and the people behind this can make better videos going forward if they choose to.

>>36263448
Dry delivery of witty self-deprecating jabs. Don't go to far and make it seem like you hate yourself, don't be so goofy that you're like a dwarf clown and don't be so deadpan that people can't tell when you're joking. Just be chill and always be the first one to make fun of yourself, especially your height.

Also, never make it obvious that you're interested in the girl romantically. No negs or dumb questions or whatever, if you want to talk to some girl you actually have to have a legitimate reason that is worthy of discussion. If you can't come up with one, then you're going to waste your time. Setting and context are everything and if you don't have those on your side, you're going to fail.

>>36263471
>work out
>eat healthy

welp

>>36263354
>tfw not even cringing
I was just like okay, so? This video is so fake I might as well have watched porn for advice.

>>36263707
It's true though. If you have your life in order, you're better off than probably most people and you notice it. You even feel superior, which is a very good thing.

Also a good diet and exercise improves cognition and energy and yadda yadda yadda.

>>36263641
Self-depreciating bullshit is a footstool's job. The best kind of humor pokes fun at other people, especially at the girl in question. Second paragraph is good shit though.

>>36263354
I don't have a problem really.They don't pay attention to me, I don't pay attention to them aside from a few glances I throw at their ass

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Holy shit anon, this is the best form of shilling a video I've ever seen

I'm gonna like and sub just because of this. You're a fucking genius

>>36263354
Just be yourself


Orgonalebro

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>>36263354
>How do I stop being so beta or cringy with women, especially hot or popular girls? I'd rather not have my shit get read on something like vid related. Inb4 just bee yourself.

Go talk to an uggo or a fattie that you're not interested in banging. Personally I can behave pretty normally around those girls, I don't run out of things to say, I don't get stifled, I don't drop spaghetti. This is because I don't want anything from them.

If you're placed in front of a hot girl, you want something from her, you want her to like you, you want to fuck her, you want the validation from being seen with her. You try to please her rather than being authentic.

You should be able to have just as much fun with a 2/10 as with a 10/10, because you're the source of the fun, you're not trying to take anything from them. You don't have to fuck the 2/10, but its possible to flirt and have fun just for its own sake.

Hot girls are like a millionaire in a club surrounded by poor people. Every time someone talks to them they can detect that they have some kind of agenda, they just want to get their hands on their money. If you can shed this neediness and the mentality of taking, then you'll be like another millionaire to her, a breath of fresh air, and she'll fuck you to thank you.

In fact, yes... you should b urself. i.e. be comfortable with yourself, stop trying to find fulfilment outside of yourself. b urself carries a lot more meaning than you'd think if you actually get into it.

>>36263448
Firstly you can't change your height. Accepting and owning the fact that you're short is the only feasible course of action available to you. Accept it, own it. The only truly bad thing about you being short is how butthurt you are about it.

If you were 5"11 you'd be insecure about not being 6". If you were 6" you'd be insecure about not being 6"2. There's no end to it. You will never be happy if you attach your happiness to external factors like this. Same goes for achievements.

>>36263354
the whole video made me cringe delivery included. I guess thats a win

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>>36263897
I remember learning in school that women have a higher disposition to appreciaye and employ self depricating humor where as men tend to apreciate and rmploy depricatimg humor more.
Examples:
>Men call each other pussy, weenie, and bitch on occasion with good intent.

>women tell embarassing stories of themselves