What's the meanest thing a girl has said to you?

so you guys hate it if a girl rejects you while also keeping the "nice" front (let's just be friends, i'm sorry, you deserve someone better, etc)
but you guys also hate it if a girl rejects you honestly and directly?

>>36256139

say back

"Well damn, you didn't have to put it like that. But thanks for curing me of it so quickly!" and then cut all contact. It's the only way to save face OP.

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>>36256139
kill herrrrrrrrrr

not original

>>36256165
Obviously every girl I'm into has to be into me, else she's a roastie whore. Duh.

>>36256165
I think the girl in OP's pic handled it well. Blunt, perhaps a bit cruel. The second of her messages seemed unnecessary.

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>>36256139
>nobody would ever want to marry you
>ew, you thought i was your friend?

these 2 haunt me every day and are a big reason why its hard for me to connect with people on an intimate level

>>36256180
this do it do it

>>36256139
mean but effective, I think it's actually better in the long run. If she was apologetic about it the rejection would just be harder to process

>>36256165
I wouldn't have minded if it was just the "I'm not interested" bit but was the second message really necessary? Sounds like bitch. First message is how it should be done

>>36256234
that's fucked up. they did you a favor anon, you don't want people like that in your life.

>>36256165

>I'm flattered, but I don't feel the same way about you.

how hard is that? You don't even need the "I'm flattered" part. Hell, just take off her last message and it's acceptable. But the "IDC if you have them" was just cunty.

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>>36256139
that image isnt all that dickey

she is simply saying that she doesnt feel the same way and wouldnt treat you differently if you do or dont have feelings for her

if you so choose, you can keep being friends with her and she will continue to treat you as just as good as a friend as if you didnt have these feelings

how is this bad? this is what i would want if i get rejected desu

>>36256165
What a shocking revelation! People don't like being rejected regardless of circumstance!

>>36256139
>when she tries to reenact Boys over Flowers, self-inserting as the MC and being bitchy to the point of me wanting to just ignore her

>>36256234
those kinds of people aren't even human beings. hope you feel better someday anon.

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>>36256287
>they did you a favor anon
w-what
what favor have they done for me
one of them still doesnt leave me alone, i just try not to listen to her she still tries to put me down often, but none have hurt me as much as the "marriage" comment

>>36256368
what a piece of shit. can't you just block them? or do they keep making alts?

>>36256368
my nigga. show yourself some fucking respect. cut these people out of your life.

i'm worried about you man

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>>36256368
ik her irl
she has nobody else to hang around so she comes to my group of friends

she tried to date me when we first met but i gtfo when i realized that she would make me feel like shit time and time again now i have even more intimacy anxiety than i did before

>>36256368
the favour will be complete once you stop allowing people like this in your life and to continually talk to you.
good luck anon there's shitty people everywhere and thats why i constantly cut people out

>>36256139
A girl has never said anything mean to me.

In fact, girls have hardly spoken to me at all.

>>36256429
meant for
>>36256398
orirnal

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>>36256139
The sad thing is that's probably from a woman who isn't a complete cunt. The standard response to that is to either string you along for money/favors or do shame and emotionally abuse you over social media.

>>36256297
Being friends with a roastie, cuck.

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>>36256287
>>36256367
>>36256398
>>36256423
>>36256437
ty for support anons
felt a little better to get that off my chest... or a lot better

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>>36256580
anytime man
origgiinalll

>>36256139
i fucking wish someone would say this to me. it would hurt so good.

think i'm a bit of an emotional masochist though

>>36256165
You can reject someone's advances directly without being cruel. The roastie in the OP was unnecessarily rude.

>>36256464
>That's probably from a woman who isn't a complete cunt
Wrong, the second text makes her a cunt. The first one was sufficient to get her point across, the second one was twisting the knife

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>>36256234
Starting to think robots are the only genuinely good people desu

>>36256580
>Spaghettirabbit.jpeg
Anon, that's a dog and that's also not spaghetti.

>>36256139
>Why do you let those people bully you, anon?
Or
>Haha, you really thought I'd want to date you
I hate pity more than anything

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"I love you so much" while she's bawling and I'm breaking up with her.

>tfw I got cucked

A former friend of mine was bipolar and liked to play chicken with her lithium. Anyways she tried to argue I'm a sociopath because I'm on the spectrum, gloated over how things went south with a girl I was into, and other sorts of nonsense like that.

Truth be told what hurt more was the simple fact she was trying to upset me, most of what she actually said was easy enough to tune out. Still kind of struggle to be emotionally vulnerable but I'll survive I think.

None of you faggots even know mean. This girl that I was "seeing" kept telling me she would do stuff with me and then never turn up. She would say she would call/text and never did. She said "I'm sorry I'm just a hopeless human being" and then I found out that she lives this totally different life and she was seeing someone else the whole time.

Get on my level, faggots.

>>36256139

my highschool friends girlfriend
>you're repugnant

my ex-friend that i really liked and wanted to be on a deeper level with
>you are the weakest link, bye.

another longterm ex-friend
>you'll find friends, it just won't be with me.

Woman are vile. I want them all to die.

>>36256139
The man I love and once dated ( he broke up with me for his ex) talks about how he wants to sleep with other girls.

Every time it feels like a direct knock on me. He likes all these girls that don't like him back but he still won't love me.

And I told him that I still love him and he just said " sorry"

>>36256139
Girls don't say anything "mean" to me, they either move away if I am near them or make bitch like facial expressions like I fucking just spit on her.

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>>36256234
There's this then the rest of the fucking morons in the threads saying "Oh so u all r just mad they didn't immediately love you. Quit being a whiny loser"
This board is fucking infested with actual Level 3 Normaltards, they're the counterpart to Wizards.
Hang on Anon, hope you find some "Help" that doesn't start with something like "You're being incredibly dramatic, but-"

Pic related. It's to anyone wanting to respond with "lel trigger virgin XD" "Quit circlejerking, you're just whining more!" etc, anything along the lines of that.

>>36256139
"I fell in love with idea of converting you"
last time I date a Christian. I didnt believe people like that really existed.

>>36256139
>What's the meanest thing a girl has said to you?
>posts getting rejected

Try getting accepted for one date and then have her suddenly stop replying to your texts with no warning.
No outright rejection has ever hurt like that. It's like she let me get close enough to get my hopes up and then does the one thing that will maximise my suffering for the longest amount of time.

It's been almost 2 weeks and I still have some hope that she will talk to me again. That's also what draws out the pain.

>>36256139
I don't think a girl's ever said anything mean to me. Even my ex was polite when we split up (You're too adventurous for me, we want different things, I don't think this will work longterm).

Most girls seem pretty nice to me, I can't imagine what's going through someone's mind when they think saying shit like >>36256234 is okay.

>>36257685
I had something kind of similar happen but I wasn't seeing her

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>>36257782
>people now post phone screenshots of instagram pages of reaction images instead of just posting the image
smartphones really killed this place

>>36257945
damn that's pretty fucked up.

i feel for you man

>>36257945
I would be fucking diamonds if a Christian qt ever said that to me

>>36256139
lift for fuck sake ayy

>>36256165
My ideal rejection
>Hello, I like you. Would you be interested in going out with me?
>No.

Boom, it's over and we can start forgetting about it ASAP. Drawing it out to soften the blow just makes it awkward for everyone.

>>36258100
It's over lad sorry give up hope now

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>>36256234
>>nobody would ever want to marry you
>>ew, you thought i was your friend?

Kek, that's not even that bad. If a girl said that to me I would literally just call her a fat bitch

>>36256139
>Talking to qt3.14
>"Hey, can I get your number?"
>She looks at me in disgust, turns around and walks away. Didn't even say anything.

Broke my confidence for at least a year though.

>>36258610
did this happen at university?

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>>36256234
fucking hell some bitch said that to me as soon as a started secondary school "You're going die alone."

>>36258666
Well she's not wrong. Everyone comes into this world alone and leaves it alone.

Nice get.

>>36258618
No luckily it didn't happen at uni. It was at some party 3 years ago. The worst thing is that one of my friends was watching it happen. I cringe so hard every time I think back about that evening.

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>>36256234
>>36256287
>>36256367
>>36256821
>>36257782
>>36258107

>getting upset over that
>this huge circle jerk like it was the worst thing to ever happen

You guys are pathetic

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>>36258708
>is a cunt
>has no empathy
>blames victims for their own bad luck

You're the reason why a roastie's getting treated like shit at Dairy Queen today. You get what you give, you useless life support system for a cunt.

>>36258742
>You're the reason why a roastie's getting treated like shit at Dairy Queen today.

Good.

>>36256139
one day in hs i was talking with one of my classmates, i always thought she was somehow flirting with me and i flirted back. One day, when we were "flirting" she suddenly said to me:"do you know you will always be a virgin, right?" or something like that. i suddenly became quiet and looked her in a spiteful way. I never understood why she did it, but anyway she was right. still KV and i'm 22.

>>36258742
>You get what you give,

which is why robots have a shit life

>>36258820
Did you stop talking to her after that?

>>36258913
no, but our relation became colder, we just thought of petty shit once in a while.

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I've never asked a girl out.... ever.

I've never been talked too by a girl not in my family... ever.

So you are one step ahead anons.

>>36258956
talked*

original correction

>>36258956
Are you still talking to her today?

>>36258986
no, i've never seen her again after hs.

>>36256165
the fact is that women never face the level of rejection men do, so them telling us to get over it is more than rich

basically robots are poor socialists when it comes to relationships and women are rich capitalists

>didn't you say you were going to go
literally got asked to leave when i really wanted to stay and convo w her and 1 other guy there

>>36258820
>One day, when we were "flirting" she suddenly said to me:"do you know you will always be a virgin, right?"

How fucking cuntier can you get?

I swear, most of us here are robots not just because of us, but because the people around us are Grade A Cunts. If we grew up around nicer people, we'd be just fine. But no, cunts have to say shit like this.

Why would you ask her this? If you knew she liked you, you wouldn't need to ask it. She would be the one doing the asking because girls play these passive aggressive kind of games. You basically gave her all the power and control over your feelings and women don't respect that at all. They think men like that are the lowest of the low, hence her harsh response.

But I can't blame her, she's a woman after all and you can't be mad at a woman for doing something in the same way you can't be mad at a dog for doing something.

>>36259142
Simmer down, Elliot.

>>36259142
the funny thing is the she was surprised for how i reacted, like she probably expected me to laugh and continue to talk. fucking rosties...

girl texted that I made her spit out her drink and then said u r funny. Does she want me i need to know

>>36259218
>like she probably expected me to laugh and continue to talk.

What the fuck. Can you tell me what happened to her afterward? I'd like to hear some justice being served, even though it usually doesn't happen...

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>>36257756
>girl
LEAVE THE FUCKING BOARD,YOU BLOODY GOD FORSAKEN ROASTIE BITCH!!!!
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>36259277
i just gazed her spitefully, but if you mean what happened in her life afterwards i don't know, nothing bad i think.

>>36259242
>Does she want me i need to know

How the fuck would we know? fuck off

>>36258708
>autistic self-centered chad
LEAVE MY BOARD,YOU FUCKING FAGGOT!!!
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

"Anon.. just DON'T talk to me" she says while putting her small unfeminine manhand perpendicular to the floor

I could have absolutely destroyed that 5'7" piece of blonde garbage

>>36258666
nice satanic get,anon-kun~

>>36259409
why didnt you? jail is just a room but revenge is satisfaction.

>>36256165
I'd prefer she be nice direct and doesn't lead me on. It's not hard to be nice and direct.

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women are really scary

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>>36256139
>Hey wanna meet on that convention and chill out a little?
no
>Oh ... can I at least now why?
i don't want to anymore

>>36256666
There should be enough people who say mean things to you, satan.

>>36256139
:facepalm:
WORD of advice anons do not approach banter or escalate over text. be normal when it comes to approach-- wait for physical signs if you aren't too out there to recognize them

>I never loved you, it was just the alcohol talking

Not terrible but it hurt

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>>36256666
CHECKED. but also, you're on /r9k/, everyone here's a fucking emotional masochist. why else would we spend our time writhing in our own filth so shamelessly?

>>36256180

>But thanks for curing me of it so quickly!

This is why she said it in the first place. People like you are so autistic that you think this is an epic comeback.

>I love you but I'm not in love with you
:^)

>>36256139
"Yea, he fingered me, and you never will, this is what you wanted to hear?"

>>36256139
I know shit like that hurts but we've all dealt with it. Some women will let you down easy and some will let you down hard, that's just how it is with people. You get over it eventually and keep trying until you find someone who does care. Hell, my last gf jus ghosted me out of nowhere. Turns out she was fucking someone else

>>36263229
wew
context anon?

> "everything is gonna be ok, don't worry mi vida, ill be with you through thick and thin."
> dating for 4 years and things got tough with money after highschool
> she lied to me saying this and talked so much shit to her friends and tried to do that shit where girls convince themselves of a lie
> she used to say she wouldnt start a family with anyone but me
> she now doesnt even remember me
> shes a college whore now fucking marines and shit
> i still dream about her and think about all the things id go off on her about
> in the end i just want to go back in time and just tell her i love you and make everything bacl to normal again

>>36263593
That's brutal and cold of her. Thanks for the advice though m8 I appreciate it.

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>"I'll be in touch"
>A week passes.
>She avoids logging on that account completely.
Wew lad.

Pretty much her saying she regrets ever meeting me, and how it was a mistake to ever get to know me. Calling me every insult you can think of. Funny that she said a whole bunch of fucked up shit to me and lately she's been pining over me and trying to contact me.

>>36263762
> i still dream about her and think about all the things id go off on her about
so you were a shtity couple yet you still want to get back with her?

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Yep, this thread will definitely get me to be nice to random women today...pause for comedic effect...NOT.

>>36257735
>you are the weakest link
That's some "nothing personal kid" tier.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

>>36263980
Yeah, it was. I still haven't forgiven her since I never got to tell her what a piece of shit she is, but I don't think about her anymore unless someone asks.

>>36256139
>mfw i got a sort of response like that from a boi
We dont even live on the same continent so i get it. Being mentally ill is hard

>>36264103
We were together for a long time and i really dont want her back, the best way i can describe it is my brain hates her but my heart hasnt let go yet, but its only been 6 months

>>36256234
I hope you find a wife and happiness one day anon

>>36256165
Basically preaching to the choir at this point but I'd add that her saying she doesn't care if he has feelings can easily be taken as her not giving a shit about how he feels.

>>36264103
That is how addiction works

>>36257756
jesus christ we have to start enforcing border patrols again. WHO the FUCK let you IN?

>>36256139
"your face looks like the ass of a monkey' which I responded with an eloquent 'fuck the cunt that spewed you"
It doesn't sound that edgy where I come from.At least the bitch started crying.

>>36264367
>At least the bitch started crying.
Good.

>>36256139
How is any of this mean?

>>36264249
The harsh part is that I hung out with her a lot and she told me lots of personal things but never really listened to anything I've told her about myself. I guess she used me as a sort of emotional sponge to make me feel bad for her.
She seemed to like me being around but it turns out she never really cared about me. She told me she was an empathetic person but so much for that.

>>36256139

>girl at uni flirts with me
>ask her out one day
>I'd love to anon!
>we meet at restaurant
>another guy is there
>it's her fucking boyfriend
>leave after 5 minutes
>"I have to return some video tapes"
>they don't get the meme and look confused
>don't talk to her in class when she tries to talk to me

Girls are manipulative psychopaths around robots. At least I got to meme, but seriously fuck this shit.

>>36258427
i guess the comments themselves weren't that bad

the problem was the people they were coming from were people that i both trusted and honestly believed what they were saying