>27 year old virgin >that crippling realization that you

>>36245619

Yep, when you get a lol bit older and just a tad bit more mature and realize that none of that really matters so long as you can just find shit that makes you happy.

Only 22 y/o khv and it doesn't bother me too much. It's such a waste of time and money and will also blow up in your face when all is said and done.

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>>36245753

You're only 22, so your opinion on this matter is less than useless.

The real sense that you've ruined your life won't come until you hit 25 or so.

>>36246408

Kek - feel free to keep throwing yourself a pity party an basing your life around what others have.

If you want to keep being a khv, do so. By no means are you a khv by anyone's choice other than your own and by no means is your life terrible by no means other than your own.

We're both grown ass men - you choose what you want to do with your life. You choose if you want to do things that make you happy. You choose if you want to put in the extensive time and effort that it takes to get something as wasteful as a girlfriend and you choose if you think having a relationship has any value.

You can fuck right off with pretending not having something as trivial as a girlfriend is a life ruining experience, I'm perfectly happy with my life as is because I doge shit that I find enjoyable and tell self-loathing fuck-wits like yourself that life does have to be shit just because you don't have X or Y.

>>36246666

>22
>grown ass man
>durhurhur everything is your fault and no on else is to blame

Fuck off normie.

>>36246408
That's true, the sense hits eventually, but not having sex is the least of my concerns really.

32 here.

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>>36246862

Feel free to keep making yourself miserable mate, nobody's going to stop you.

>>36246980
Nothing worse than 20-something normies thinking they can have an opinion about life.

>>36245619
at that age you should plateau. you will stop caring soon.

t. 33 kv neet living at home. just waiting my parents to die so i can kill myself

>>36247078
>tfw mom told me i hope you get a family someday after i die
>she is ill
Little she knows she should gave up on me a while ago well if i kill myself she will never know

>>36247052

Nothing worse than 25-something's pretending their life is over because they couldn't get their dick wet.

Oh no! You couldn't have children, get a divorce, lose half your money and never see those children again?

Your right mate, your life MUST be shit if you dot have to put up with the constant nagging, expenses, mood changes and bullshit required to get your dick wet for 2 minutes every other weekend.

Get the fuck off our board you normie cuck, /r9k/ is for self actualised robots only, not this self-loathing, petty, failed normie shit.

This Probably sounds like normie advice, but sex really isn't that great. Ok that's a lie, sex for the first few times with someone new is pretty great. After that it just becomes something you do with another person.

Do yourself a favour and get an escort. You'll see sex isn't the be all/end all. If you're going to have a relationship It's much, much more important to really like the person you're with and be able to share in things you both enjoy.

been single/friendless for the past 10years while watching sitcom shows about how everyone else is doing better or just above me while i couch potato hanging onto those old high school days.

>am 27

>>36245753
It's very likely that you're so young it didn't even hit you yet. I'm 28 and it hit me when I was 24.

>>36247247
>dick wet
>have children
See? You see this from the point of view of a kid who has all the time in the world, and who didn't get hit by loneliness yet. It's not about sex or retarded social norms when you hit your late 20s.

>>36245619
My dad didn't marry my mom until he was 35 and was 40 when I was born. So, it's not like you've completely missed the boat

I mean you have missed it cause you're a whiny, self-pitying fag who's just going to continually find excuses to not improve himself

>>36248099

How about this: you explain to me when your life is over.

Clearly there's something so amazing, so life changing, so fucking unbelieveable about having sex that's implied here and I'd love to know what that is.

>>36248320

Why your life is over**

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>>36248320
How would I know if sex is amazing or not, I'm a kissless virgin. But that's beyond the point.

>having sex
I just told you that when you grow up it STOPS being about sex. It's not about getting your dick wet anymore. That's the case when you're a kid but if you stay a khv long enough it changes, you realize what it's really about. I don't give a shit if I die a virgin. However never getting physical affection, intimacy, a mate that you can cuddle with, that ends up wrecking your mental health.

If you have eyes you can use them and observe mammals around you if there's nature around you and you'll see that they're constantly cuddling and scratching each other's back and sleeping on top of each other, whatever. Affectionate touch.

Babies die if they're never touched for too long. Adults die because of the lack of affection too I think, it just takes more time, or maybe they just become crazy.

>Why your life is over
My life isn't over, it's just painful and feels kind of pointless sometimes.

How about you tell me why the ONLY aspect of affection you seem to acknowledge is sex?

>>36248516
you've thought this out well

so, OP, what are you doing to change your situation? it's harder now, maybe, but definitely not impossible. have you thought about where you can go from here to find a partner? have you started yet?

please do not answer with self-pity

Lost my virginity at 29, I'm 33 now and with a wife.

Don't give me that crap OP, shit happens only if you make it happen.

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>>36248516

Why didn't you say to begin with? I completely understand that. I've done stupid shit in the past subconsciously to get close to a girl, had a really intimate connection (read: non sexual), and then had to leave her one day when I realized just how close we were. It fucking sucked, for both of us, and I regret doing it.

My point is life doesn't have to be that intimate connection, humans need other human contact and this is why I value my friend so much; but I don't "need" a girlfriend t be emotionally fulfilled. I'm perfectly happy doing what makes me happy and chatting with friends occasionally, but I can see where you're coming from.

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Is that Commander Smoothie?

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>>36245619
the enlightened meme is real. happened to me around 30

>>36248757
wait until your friends get married off and you spend 90% of your days alone

no matter how much you enjoy your own company, it's not enough

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The moment you let go of having sex is the moment that a chick will hop on your cock. is this way with everything in life, remove desire and what you desire will be yours.

>>36248900

I know pal, but there's something we have now in the 21st century called "the internet" which means it's fairly impossible to be lonely unless you're a self loathing cuck like OP.

>>36248900
>wait until your friends get married off and you spend 90% of your days alone

I'm going through this right now.
They hardly have the time to hang out any more, and when we can get together every few weeks, we have nothing in common any more.

I can't remember the last time I felt this alone.

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>>36248680
I'm not OP I just jumped into the conversation sorry. I have no idea how to find a partner. I have friends but they can't really help me with that. I'm short and ugly, objectively, so my dating pool is very very tiny. I'm probably going to move to a smaller city soon, which might help as I'm currently living in a big city, which means more competition.

>have you started yet?
Not really. I'm struggling to stay afloat because crohn's disease, the meds side effects and GERD are taking up my time and energy for now, the rest is for work. Is that self-pity? I don't know what I can do. Dating sites? I doubt it would help, I'm unattractive.

>>36248757
You don't feel the skin hunger then. Maybe we're different, or maybe you'll feel it in a few years. Or maybe you can just hug and cuddle with your friends because that's socially acceptable to do at your age in your milieu.

>>36249065
I understand man, and I feel bad

I'm in sort of the opposite position right now, where I'm at uni living with my brother and surrounded by friends. my best friend since a very young age lives about an hour away and has no friends in his area. he always wants to hang out and I can tell he's lonely, but I've just got other obligations and hate to drive all the way over there or have him drive over here just so we can drink and play videogames. I don't even like videogames much anymore.

I don't know what to do about it, like to let him down or keep giving him so much power over my free time because I'm obligated by friendship.

life isn't fair.

>>36249144
I think dating sites are worth a shot. consider that women your age are going through the same desperation and loneliness that you are, except probably stronger since they can feel themselves becoming less attractive with age. just browse profiles and try to find someone who seems reasonably smart and send some messages. it probably won't be easy and I wish I could give more advice but I don't know shit about it myself.

>Tfw you'll never have kids or a wife because you don't want kids or a wife

Still want to kill myself but at least I won't have to change diapers

>>36249367
How old are you?
The feeling never really hit me until I was 25 or so.

If you are older, I am very envious.

>>36245619
Yeah, it gets better. I actually don't even really want a gf anymore. I don't want to deal with it. I see guys my age spending tons of money on roasties, having families with all kinds of problems, getting divorced, and this whole hassle I don't want anything to do with.

>>36247078
This is me, only a few years younger.

>>36249411
Not that anon, but I'm the same way and 31. No interest in kids or a wife. I think I got to this point around 28, maybe 29. Wizardhood has treated me well in that respect.

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>>36249323
>consider that women your age are going through the same desperation and loneliness that you are
I'm not sure about that, honestly. I know a few of them that are alone but they'd rather be alone than get with a guy like me.

>ust browse profiles and try to find someone who seems reasonably smart and send some messages
I know plenty of smart girls. Being smart doesn't change their desires though. They're happy to discuss certain things with me and then love their bfs that might not have the same kind of interests.

But hey I'll give it a try anyway. I know I'll become crazy if I don't do something about it.

>>36249572
I hope I lose my interest in it soon, it's driving me insane.

>>36249632
That guy is either lying to you or he's very attractive and well off so his life is good in other ways. If you reach 30 without a wife, get ready for a really fucking shitty time. Everyone will treat you like you're the worst possible person in the world and you won't be able to go anywhere or do anything without people shitting on you.

>>36245753

>getting laid is a waste of time and money

TOP KEK, keep feeding your schizophrenia with that black and white thinking. Reality check, getting laid is as cheap as buying a number 7 at McDonalds, and costs as less time as you spend reguarly lurking and shitposting.

t. I can go anywhere and fuck a bitch for less then $20 within hours of meeting her

>>36249632
I had a hard time for a while, but it did get better.

>>36249679
Okay, yes, I make a lot of money. I'm still miserable, it's just not really that interested in the hassle of a gf anymore. Everyone thinks I'm gay since I've never had a gf, but, I don't really care anymore.

>>36249743
>>Okay, yes, I make a lot of money. I'm still miserable,
Have you tried eating it? Just roll all the billls into little clumps and fucking choke on it faggot.

>>36249743

I have a high IQ and i'm the best chess player I know, if you want I'll write you a strategy plan in order to get you laid.

>>36249842
>>36249743

Step 1:

Go on backpage and look up body rubs/ escorts. Visiting a massage parlor 3-5x will desensitize you from the anxiety you get from engaging with your sex drive

>>36249898

Step 2: Look at a fashion catalogue and buy a new wardrobe.

Women are skin deep and superficial and THEY care about the way you dress more so then you think, especially when it comes to quality women.

Shave your facial hair, but dont get a haircut, let it grow and look naturally rugged. Women love that shit.

>>36248726
how'd you meet the miss?

>>36246862
He's not a normie, if anyone's a normie it's you (or a failed normie at that) because you cry over the things normies have and care about rather than thinking of such materialism as being a lesser trait of being human. This thread is basically you using the things normies strive for as a meter to measure how much of a "loser" you are. This shows you are a slave to normie materialism and even judge your quality of life by it, just as a normie would.

Don't you agree that life is more than the things normies strive and live for? Isn't knowledge, character-building, endurance, etc more important than having things such as a gf/wife and nice things/material? If so, then focus of these things and not that which isn't even important. And do not let unimportant things ever get to you or drag you down. You have one life and a chance to rise above the normie. Don't make your life a pity party for yourself and let such things prevent you from achieving greatness on a whole different level.

>>36249947

Step 3: JUST B YOURSELF

Literally, thats it. thats all there is. Be confident.

When im in a rut and havent practiced my game in a few months, i'll go up to the hottest girl i see and try spitting game with her. Usually my eagerness and confidence doesnt match my wording and game and i do come on edge, but i'm using the girl as a totem pole to get back my confidence. If she rejects me thats fine, I know i wont get rejected with the next girl afterwards. Its like having skill rust from not playing a game in a long time, you need to warm up for a bit before you have your skills back and then some.

After accepting rejecting, my confidence and eagerness is now finally back with my game and I can pretty much shoot the breeze with anyone woman that comes my way and get with them just by simply BEING myself.

Last friday I got rejected by one girl as warm up, met a girl on the street and got her number after telling her my intentions, and then went to a bar and met another girl and fucked her an hour after meeting her. So by one rejection i got two girls in exchange as opposed to none. You just have to face your fears and eventually you'll be addicted to rejection and failure because you'll eventually be closer to what you want.

Yesterday, I saw some a comic posted on /v/ that just completely wrecked me. Even thinking about it now makes me want to just close my eyes and picture a running river until the pain goes.

All it was, was a comic of a young girl taking a nude photo of herself, and sending it to her boyfriend I suppose, for his birthday. The punchline was that she sends to all contacts by accident, but that's not the point.

What wrecked me, and is still wrecking me now, was the realization that having a sexual relationship with a girl may not be as special and sacred as I have lived my life fearing. That special comfortableness you have with a close friend when you do something silly, that might be all sex is but with a female. It was nothing to be afraid of, and it was certainly no greater plateau I was incapable of reaching. Sex with a girl is just doing something silly with a close friend that you wouldn't do in public, sluts aside for this analogy. Now it's too late, I'm too old to have experienced that. It's a younger generations game and I missed out entirely.

I don't know how I got this all from that comic. I think the casual message she sends with the nude pic, just like a silly comment I would send along with a silly picture to a friend, that's what hit me so hard.

>>36250489
>may not be as special and sacred as I have lived my life fearing.
It was until 9/11. Nowadays, yeah, it's all fucked.

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>>36246408
Your a fucking scumbag piece of shit. Boo hoo my life is ruined because i couldn't have sex poor baby. Your existence must be pathetic if the only thing that you think can make you happy is sex. Get a grip, get a hobby do something productive, dont just wallow in self pity.

>>36248842
Care to elaborate? I was obsessed with that shit for years and got nowhere.

>>36249144

Wherever mate, you do you. want to wallow in self pity and not make internet friends? Be my guest.

If you need me I'll be taking in caffeine alcohol and sugar and playing some games with my friends - just generally enjoying life.