Anyone else have this too?
>be a bit of a loner
>do have a couple of friends I see now and then
>they don't mind my asocial ways or don't notice it
>they'll invite me for stuff now and then
>we usually drink around a bit at someone's place
>this I can handle fine and I'll even be social
>then after some hours they'll want to go out to clubs etc.
This is where I don't fit in at all
>it's always the same story
>we go to some club
>my friends will meet other friends that I don't know
>I'll slowly get more isolated
>it's only a matter of time before I'm basically by myself there
>usually just leave after that
God I hate clubs. I don't get the appeal and it's never fun for me and I don't see how anyone likes to go to those places. Do normies actually enjoy themselves or is it all an act?
>>35968363
>>be a bit of a loner
>>do have a couple of friends
?
>>35968406
Maybe I'm an idiot, but isn't all this relative?
I'll see these guys maybe once every 2-3 weeks. My day to day social interactions are very limited.
>>35968363
>Be me
>at party, drunk
>black girl takes me to other room
>we make out for a bit
>starts pulling down my pants
>have epileptic fit
>wake up in hospital
>have to take pills to prevent epilepsy
>mfw epilepsy almost saved me from the misery of being a chad
>>35968426
you're not a loner
>>35968363
Nothing wrong with hating clubs. Maybe it's daft, but when people tell me they really love a certain club they go right down in my estimation.
As regards to whether they enjoy it, I guess they do. I don't think normies tend to do things if they don't want to, unlike people on here who are maybe more affected by social pressures. I really don't understand the appeal though.
>>35968464
>black girl
Stopped reading there.
>>35968494
Yeah I can get the social pressure. Just seems so pointless. Doing something that makes you miserable because everyone else does, even though they don't like it either.
>>35968363
It's always been the same story for me too. I'm able to talk to strangers pretty easily but dancing is impossible for me. I can't wrap my head around the concept. I feel stupid and ridiculous if I try and the music doesn't help me at all - I can understand and feel the rhythm of it (I'm actually a semi-pro music composer) but it's not connected to body movement in my mind. Even when nobody's watching I don't dance so I don't think it's only the embarassment.
But yeah this has really affected my social life. I feel like a total retard and a killjoy when girls invite me to dance and I have to say no.