There's nothing to do everyday other than go to uni in the morning, come home as early as possible, then sit in front of my pc and watch series and movies that give me no enjoyment anymore.
I'm tired of being alone but the only people I socialize with are my uni classmates and none of them are likable or have any similar interests with me, so I'm stuck in a loop. I haven't 'hung out' with anyone for over 6 years (junior high school). I've never even held a girl's hand that wasn't my relative and I'm almost 20 years old.
I look at my future and see at least 2-3 more years of uni, depending on what classes I pass and I know that I'll spend all of them alone, lonely and depressed.
I love music so the only thing that really keeps me going is concerts and playing drums. But lately that drive has been waning. I'm scared that if that completely goes away I'll fall into my depression again.
>>24078274 I don't know what your interests are but in my experience it's best to invest in them as much as possible. Go to events related to it. You'll eventually meet someone that is interesting to you. Also, I'd try giving those classmates of yours a chance. They might not seem interesting but they might invite you to a party or something where you might find someone you do find interesting.
>>24078482 My interests are programming and Attitude Era WWF, so I doubt I'll find anyone, let alone a girl, who I can connect with based on those two. As for parties, I haven't been to one since elementary school and since I have no friends I don't see how I could ever get invited to one, but even if I did, I would sit alone all night like a retard.
>>24078629 well he just gave you an example. Go to events related to them, buy whatever you think will make your hobby more fun/enjoyable. Own that shit. Unless it's videogames, in that case stop if you don't want to look like a faggot. (or just control how much you play, you need to go outside more.)
>>24078715 I mean be proud of what you do, show passion when talking about it if you do get to talk about it, for that you have to be doing it well and to full capacity. Hobbies are a big part of life and definitely one of the most interesting things about people so just be sure it reflects what you want to be seen at. If there are no events that involve your interests maybe try out new, more broad, hobbies? such as music and film.
I agree with the hobbies and social events stuff. I am shit at making any social connections myself. I am alone most time of the day. I come late for breakfast and dinner to avoid people. But it made me feel alone. I didn't want to make friends with those people. They were all the same. But than I took up a sport which I was completely shit at (boxing), but as I found out, everyone was. I did not care much about others. I just wanted to be able to beat someone up. Yeah, and that's how I met a few people that I talk to. It's just at the training sessions but still something
>>24080768 For me, it's not do much that I lack desires, just the impetus and/or circumstances to do the things I want to.
I know its hardly an issue, but I really wish I wasn't pressured into attending university. It seems like a stupid thing to complain about, but I think higher education just isn't my thing. I'm glad to have met the people I have here; but, university itself just isn't fulfilling at all.
>>24080911 >but I really wish I wasn't pressured into attending university. It seems like a stupid thing to complain about, but I think higher education just isn't my thing. I'm glad to have met the people I have here; but, university itself just isn't fulfilling at all. I secretly hope I drop out
same here 24 from germany saddest thing I am not into sex that much any more... broke up with gf because I dont want spent future with her also don't want to waste her time... WHY in hell there is not such website for people like us.... I really can't hang out with my friends because they to much into party...
My msg to you guys, if u find a gf you will be happy for 1-2 years and then all this shit flows up again...loneliness, sadness, depression
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