>>24058445 I can't say it's a regret. It's just very hard. I never let the woman I love to get too closer to me for good reasons and now she doesn't want me no more. I'll have to wait years, maybe lifes, to have the opportunity to have her again.
I also regret not dating the most gorgeous chick that ever touched my wang. I thought I was hot shit because I had three side pieces all at once but I was just a dumb high school cunt. I absolutely deserved it when she dropped me. It's been a decade and I still stalk her fb on the regular.
>>24058771 I would go for half of the first semester then never go back. Never got any trouble from a truancy officer or anything. I also didn't really go to school grade 7 and 8. So I'd say ~12-18 was wasted
I regret not taking advantage of school resources to help me further my education instead of coming home everyday playing vidya and talking to friend on Skype everyday. I regret not getting a job at16 so I had an excuse for no experience now I have nothing and, it's all my fault.
There are not many things I don't regret. i regret stopping to take music classes, and stop playing when I was younger. regret not going to university as soon as I was done with high school, I regret a lot of things I've said to my family, I regret trusting people too soon, I regret letting people getting close to me, regret being afraid of everything in general
>>24058445 My very best friend is a girl. We have a lot of fun together. She's wonderful to be with. It's just like having a girlfriend, but without having sex. So if she was my girlfriend it would be perfect.
>1st grade >have massive birthmark on chin >everyone makes fun of me because of it >except for one girl >pretty hot, and she defended me >become really close, we made out and shit >keep being really close until 4th grade >suddenly my autism and faggotry rear their heads >start treating her like shit >she hates me >being an autistic faggot, I didn't care >flash forward to 6th grade >she still hates me >she's really hot at this point >beginning to realize mistakes, but too late now >move to a different city >still have a good friend there, visit sometimes >flash forward again, 16 years old >look her up on facebook, she's like 9.5/10 now >send her friend request on facebook >she accepts >apologize deeply >accepts apology, really cool about it >ask if we can meet next time I visit friend >says she's busy at that time >ask her again the next few times >she makes more excuses for why she can't >eventually catch on >she still hates me >feelsbadman.jpg pic related
>>24059268 lmao, she's like 7/10 at best lad. but yeah, you fucked up. my story is kinda similar, i started treating my girlfriend like shit, and things were never the same since then, even when i realized what an asshole i was to her and tried to save our relationship
not taking any one of the multiple opportunities presented to me throughout my life I really do have a halo effect but I fuck things up every time, I'm going to die young, alone and miserable and it will be entirely my fault
Oh shit. Could probably post half a thread by myself.
Big one is probably fucking up uni, because my degree is pretty much worthless now. Every half-decent job wants a higher grade than I got, and people with better grades than me are applying for the ones I AM qualified for as well. Really wish I could just go back in time and tell myself to work harder. This is the first time I've ever really had to deal with the consequences of a bad decision, since everything else has just worked itself out.
Not standing up for myself because I wanted to be liked/fit in, as well. Didn't get me anywhere, given that I have barely any friends now, and I just ended up being a doormat for successive groups of friends for my entire adolescence.
Also not wanting to ask a girl out unless she was literally telling me she was into me. I missed so many chances growing up. I had a decent amount of girls (I can think of 9 confirmed) into me between 13 and 18, but was a KV the whole time.
I decided to text her one month after the break up. and it was desperate and basically i called her immature, should have just ignored my feelings longer for it to pass. Now i made a ass out of myself. What used to be a normal break up without any awkwardness is now awkward shitty break up.
My girlfriend and I broke up after 6 months. She kept sleeping over and pretty well living at my house. I had a bad day and she came over and brought me a coffee, I took the coffee then kicked her out. Haven't talked since... my real regret here is that my skates are in her trunk, hockey season is starting soon and she won't return my calls. My bad
>>24058723 Dude if that's the worst thing you did in life then you'll be just fine. Take it from a college graduate who makes decent money in sales; unless you plan on going to college for medicine, law, allied health or stem high school is worthless.
There is nothing I'm doing right now that I couldn't tech you on the job in a couple weeks.
Get your ged, learn a trade, and move on with life.
>>24061276 Nah. My only regret is that I was stupid enough to try to be your friend in October and was so tolerant of your games from January all the way to July of this year. You aren't worth the effort of hating
I regret being booty with money. I cant save at all. Every time I have money I just spend it. I always pay my bills and have everything covered first but I just can't into saving the most or at least some of the rest of it. In the short term what I'm doing is terribly irresponsible, but I worry how I might ever retire even if I start saving later because I don't make a lot of money (~CAD $40k) but I don't plan to change jobs simply out of convenience and comfort.
Not trying and putting effort into my work in middle and high school so I could have gotten accepted into the magnet high school I dreamed of getting into for architecture and then not being accepted into my dream uni for architectural engineering
I wouldn't care If I had friends or a gf, I want to become what I dreamed of doing since I started middle school a decade ago
But sadly, I barley skid by and now Im in my second year in CC doing fine but I know with my GPA I wont get into my dream uni
I did not abandon my family soon enough, now my conciousness is nagging on me hard and I am stuck. If I just up and left one day I might have been at a better place now and the pain of leaving my family behind would subside eventually. This home is dysfunctional as hell and it is tearing huge chuncks out of me aswell. I do not think I would manage to stand up on my own well enough tho. Shit is really fucked in general, only absolute regrett I have is failing to kill myself when I finally was ready.
>>24061705 You regret not taking the dog all the way where? I imagine it couldn't be anywhere besides your Local Olive Garden Italian Restaurant for an $8.95 UNLIMITED Pasta Bowl. Next time you can, because at Olive Garden Italian Restaurants, you're Family!
Never asking her out when I was around 12-14. Honestly the only girl I've ever really cared about, and I feel like she might've felt the same way about me. If I asked her out and she said no, at least I would know. If I asked her out and she said yes, my life could be completely different right now, probably for the better.
>>24061976 I talked to her 4 months before that in a moderately sized conversation and that was pretty much it. We were together in a small English literature class and she would laugh at certain things I said, look at me and when I moved me head she looked away and another time said that I was a really nice person out loud to the teacher. It was the last few months of high school and I figured that not asking and not knowing would be worse than asking and getting a no at least then I would have closure (spoiler I wouldn't). She was alone a few times and I considered going up to her but I thought there were still too many people around and chickened out. Eventually I hovered around her facebook chat window for 3 days until I just started typing and sent the message. She never replied, never talked to me again, started avoiding me in school and told other people what had happened.
Having scumbag friends. One friend stole something from be and would constantly belittle me, the other actually made a large scratch in my laptop monitor just because he was envious. It took me almost a year to figure out. I sometimes wonder if I should take some mean revenge
>>24062134 i was alot better at dealing with her in person i guess. at school she would even approach me most of the time, not good at explaining things so i wont bother, but i feel like if i hadnt been an anxious lazy fuck things might have been different. in the end at grad when we were signing shirts i was to nervous to even go and get hers. so we parted ways without a word. thought about trying to start a chat but i'm so different to normal people i cant keep small talk going for more than like 4 messages before it becomes one word replies. also i cant flirt with people i know for some autistic reason.
>>24062282 Well I have genuine autism so that probably didn't help either. Been rated a 3/10 on here and /soc/ too to add onto that. Also diagnosed with depression a few days ago which started some two years ago and I wouldn't be surprised if I suffer from some other mental illnesses but I have to wait until my counselling starts to know for sure.
Trying too hard and getting a girlfriend. I can deal with most problems my girl has mental health issues and they are tearing me apart. My life and relationship are built on nothing but lies at this point and I can't peacefully step down from what I've chosen to do.
Here is a cautionary tale fellow robots >be me >/decentlooking/ >autist who never had friends in high school. weaboo as fuck >first week of college >leaving gym after some stupid opening ceremony shit >girl comes up to me >solid 7/10, blond hair, short but skinny with good boobs >"Hey, are you Anon" >"Uh yes I am, have we meet?" >" We both used to live in (name of my old town) remember! My name is ..." >pretend I recognize her >she says we should hang out sometimes >isthisreal?.webm >we exchange numbers >get a text from her that weekend >she invites to go a party with her >holy fuck >am i entering the normie life? >got a bad feeling about this, but I just say "fuck it, got nothing to lose. Might as well try this" >do my best to dress like the normies at my uni do >pull it off pretty well thanks to the clothes my parents bought me based on what my normie older brother wears (my dad's been trying to make me a normie for a long time) >arrive at her dorm >we do this shit called "pregaming" at her dorm. >only ever heard about it in health class >it's pretty fucking stupid >we go out together and meet up with some other people, some of which used to live in my childhood town >go to some parties >there not too bad i guess >drink the free alcohol as best i can >the girl is being really touchy with me >isthishappening >she's also being touchy with other guys >pass it off as just her being drunk, she warned me that she gets touchy anyway >we hold hangs as we go from house to house and bar to bar >once it's just us, she kisses me in the middle of the street >get a raging hard on just from that >do my best to hide it >1:00 am >we go back to my dorm >my roommate is at his house for the night (he lives nearby) >we start watching netflix >this was before the stupid "netlfix and chill" normie meme mind you >we start making out and shit part 2 coming
>luckily i had experience and knew how to kiss decently before you tell me to fuck off from this board, i used to hook up with a fat ugly-coworker at a summer camp i worked at. There's girls out there for a lot for you guys if you're willing to stoop low enough unless your're a mega wizard or some shit. We never had sex though. Anyway, >start kissing her and shit >fondle her breasts >do my best to avoid her coming in contact with my dick because it's pathetically tiny >it works >take of her shirt >we make out and fondle eachother for hours >tells me she doesn't want to rush on our first night, but that we'll have sex soon >we end up goddamn spooning >literally the pinnacle of my entire life >she leaves after a while >we kiss at my door >the next morning i decide i don't need weebshit anymore >ask her out a date a few days later >she says she's busy with something >ask her again a few days later >she's bust with something again >repeat this for a few weeks >one day i frankly, but politely ask her why she's been ignoring me over a text message >she once again says she's "too busy to talk" >realize i've been duped >fucking furious >never shouldve trusted her >depressed for another week >get a text from her while playing vidya one day >she says shes sorry that she ignored me and wants to start over >tells me that shes having trouble making friends. I tell her the same thing. >she says "since we are both in the same boat, why don't we stick together?" >being the lonely faggot i am, i buy it >we both agree to hang out in the future >same shit happens as far, she always has an excuse when i want to hang out >I become obsessed with this girl, think about her all day. Hate her and love her at the same time >one day i see her hanging out with a bunch of normies. She's holding some chad's hand >realize that she was just using me as a guy to cling onto until she found cooler friends >maybe she realized i was an autist somehow, even though i tried to hide
>tell her that she's a cunt over text >no response >I still hate her more than anyone >eating alone in uni dining hall two months later >she walks in with her normie friends and sits nearby >she gives me this shit eating grin >literally shaking with anger >leave my food and leave >kick some trashcans somewhere (i tend to hit shit when i',m angry >I finally enter the world of the normies for one night and i all got taken away >i finally got to experience hooking with a cute girll, only for her to discard me
My regret here was not knowing my place. You're stuck here for life boys. You'll never get out. Don't fall into a trap like i did. You can never change yourself
>>24066915 No. You just failed to get out of it by being a creepy bastard. You basically fall in love with some random girl from the moment you met her and from the way you describe it, it is as if she is yours. For her first week she probs was just looking for a buddy to go to parties with so she wouldn't be alone. One thing lead to another and she thought why not hook up with you for a night after a few drinks. Your problem lies in misjudging the situation and believing she was actually properly into you.
>>24065422 Not that guy, but I didn't even get any good life experience or anything from my bad choices. Like you could fuck something up, and still gain from having tried it, but my life has mostly been choosing not to do things, in favour of playing vidya and sticking with what I'm comfortable with. God damn, I wish I could re-do my life with my current knowledge. At least I'd know I was being stupid this time.
I only texted her once every 4 or so days asking to hang out. I know how to not be pushy. Also this chick TOLD me she liked me and was interested in a relationship. I forgot to mention his in my post, but we did go on one date after that night. We had a nice conversation. It's her fault for dropping me out of the blue and pretending i don't exist. That's not how people should react. She's a cunt
>>24059036 this, but now I think that if anyone makes fun of my teeth they are not worth my time, the last time it happened was when I was like 17 and it was a guy who everyone thought was an asshole, so it gave me good perspective. plus I have a lovely GF so who cares. It's probably not a big deal, if you want it done just pay for it.
dropping out of sixth form dropping out of uni taking drugs in general, have lead to all of the problems in my life not reaching my potential because lazy/anxiety/impulse control disorder. alcohol abuse
all is looking good now but I still love to take drugs.
>qt thai exchange student who was also my neighbor had a big crush on me >panicked and didn't go for her I miss you, Ploy, and I hope everything is going well for you. I'm sorry I was such a stupid teenager :(
>>24058445 >not telling the only girl I have ever had feelings for that I liked her earlier >I ended up drunkenly telling her anyway after she transferred to a school closer to home >she told me I should have told her sooner >would rather she told me she never felt anything for me at all
>played a fighting mmo game all the time as a kid >got real friendly with a gurl gamur >end up chatting with her a lot >she links a myspace >qt 3.14 asian >she wants to see what i look like >told her im not that good looking >shes keeps insisting that she wants to see my face >eventually we stopped talking
I doubt anything would have progressed beyond that, im really not that photogenic
>lol anon you can't be a writer you won't make money >you have to pick a STEM field, anon >absolutely fucking hate what I'm studying >always the stupidest person in class >feel obliged to finish because I've already drained so much of my family's resources paying for school >rarely have time to write >feel drained and depressed every day >fucking despise my family for forcing me into this >graduating soon, no friends, shit grades, everything is shit
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