More than half said they felt ‘left on the shelf’ and that they’d been ‘judged negatively’ because of their age.
Health expert Eileen Durward, who provides advice and support to women through the A.Vogel website and helpline, said: ”The results show a worrying decline in confidence and self-worth in women when faced with the prospect of growing older.
”The world can feel very geared toward appreciating younger women, leaving those of a certain age to feel neglected or less worthy.
“These women are not invisible and neither are their concerns.
”They are often the driving engine behind many a family, juggling careers, looking after older relatives and bringing up children.
”All the while dealing with the ageing process and changes brought on by the menopause.
”They need to be supported, not made to feel washed up.”
I could of sworn this has been studied before Males are more attracted to females during the golden time for mating It's natural, why would anyone be physically attracted to a used and worthless female body? Besides fetishes etc
>>38159002 I felt that way for a long time. I swore to myself if I hit 35 and can't find a women I'm going to stay single. If no women wanted me when they and I are young then I sure as hell wouldn't want a woman when she's is used up and panicking.
Don't go for MILFs (women who still have young children). Go for cougars (women whose children are in college, at least). If you're decent-looking and charming, you'll get a risk-free fuckbuddy who'll do anything you want.
>>38159541 >No, but you are seen as a social pariah if you do (desperate, thirsty, bold, uppity). Yeah by other woman maybe, and if you're a woman holding your sister's opinions dead, then you dun goofed.
Literally ANY man would be flattered getting asked out on a date from a woman. Even a landwhale, validation is validation.
>>38159002 Well to be fair, for most of their life they are complaining that they have TOO much attention. I really don't feel sorry for them if after 50 years of being the center of attention, they are finally treated like every male who has ever been average.
I've been using online dating since I was 18. I'm 30 now. When I was 18, I'd send out maybe 10 messages to girls my age and maybe get 1 or 2 responses. I'd get no responses from older women. Now that I'm 30 and have a good career, I get 10 messages a week from women my age and younger and don't even need to send any myself. Too bad for them. I don't date anymore. I visit 18 year old prostitutes to relieve my sexual urges. I picked up that trick in my 20s when no woman would touch me. Fuck dating. Fuck middle aged bitches. Women don't care about you as a person. They only care about how much money you make. Women don't fuck men. They fuck paychecks. Women don't fall in love with men. They fall in love with bank accounts. I'd say that all women are whores, but that would be unfair to whores. Prostitutes are at least honest about what they are. I can't wait for sex bots.
>The lifestyle study, commissioned by herbal remedies company, A.Vogel >”Many women don’t realise that simple steps, like breathing slowly or taking a herbal remedy containing sage, can provide relief.”
>>38159742 No, I'm saying that ~95% of men like thin girls. You beautiful only when you're thin. If you're chubby or fat, then you have to date some mentally deviant man who thinks a fattie is attractive.
>>38159761 I don't know if there's ever been a study on that, there must be a ceiling on that. There are studies that show that men, even to age 50, like women who are 20, but there's nothing showing that young women prefer men 40+ unilaterally.
The research shows that women like men +0 to +5 years their own age.
>>38159750 You reek of internet tough girl. The mere fact of you posting on /pol/ proves this. Let me guess, you have novelty SS memorabilia and a Che t-shirt you interchange for each 'clique' you slut around in IRL, right?
Party scene chew you up fast? Or you just testing the water for a new place to attetion whore trip soon, because you know, /pol/ and it's queens!
>>38159760 >Women don't care about you as a person
Now i want to ask you. What kind of body did you had in your 20s. This is importnant for both sexes. Women are as shallow as men. And when i see how you cry over you pathetic life then if i was woman i would ignore you as little cockroach that you are.
>>38159002 When I was younger(21-24) I used to try hitting on 50 year olds at bars and they always told me I was too young looking and ignored me, maybe they just thought I was ugly or a fetishist/creeped out by me, I gave up on that pretty quick.
>>38159653 >would have lost the opportunity to chase her
Right, because all men are savages hell-bent on chasing and conquering women, and that is TOTALLY not a stereotype perpetrated by the Matriarchy in order to benefit women at the expense of penis-havers.
>my mum is 52 >im 19 >my mum wants me and my 17 year old brother out of the house by the of the year >shes wants to sell her house and kick us out to move to another state so she can live with her boyfriend of 6 months >i have to join the army because for the last 3 months i've applied to alot of places and still nothing >my brother hasn't even finished school yet >mfw
I'm fine with leaving and joining the army cause i've wanted to do it since i was 5 but i fear for my brother cause he hasn't even finished high school yet.
>>38159865 And it works. There is a qt 8 years younger than me where I work. I completely ignore her a lot and pretend to be Chad and for some reason I am attractive to her. However when I let it slip that I am into her she starts ignoring me slightly until I start to not show interest in her. I am still confused by this.
Sir Mix a Lot did an interview and said he doesn't like that his iconic song, "Baby Got Back," was used so prominently in the fat acceptance movement. He said something like, I like it when baby got back, not baby got back, side, front, and middle.
>>38159784 Why would I someone who lifts/ takes care of my health while staying around 12-16& (depending on cut/bulk) body fat want to go with a fat ass lazy slob female? Being fat is an indicator of many attitudes that I don't care for.
>>38159990 > Interviewer: I'm writing a story about young guys who like fat women, who prefer fat women, and your song keeps coming up.
> Sir Mix a Lot: That's funny because that's not what the song is talking about. It cracks me up. I've seen girls that look like me and been like, "Ohhhhh, I'm Baby's got Back!" And I'm like, "No, no, no, no." It wasn't "Baby Got Back and Center, and Middle, and Front." You know?
>>38159952 Look when will you throw tantrum like kid over some bitches that didnt like you because you was ugly fat piece of shit or was as person bitter husk of man then there is no wonder that women didnt like you. Blaming your problems on other is easy
>>38160020 i dont understand you a little bit let me explain for the one who are not so smart. Girls love ripped guys if you are skeleton or fat then there is no wonder that you had no response. Get it?
>>38160065 >Girls love ripped guys if you are skeleton or fat then there is no wonder that you had no response.
Because women don't care about you as a person they care only about your looks/money which by the way is only because it gains them social status. Are you retarded or just parroting what the other anon said?
>>38160147 I have tried that before but I tend to take it to far and push them away. Maximum aloofness is required right now, but I must stress I need to strike when the iron is still hot but not before it's time you know.
>>38160065 >Look when will you throw tantrum like kid over some bitches that didnt like you because you was ugly fat piece of shit or was as person bitter husk of man then there is no wonder that women didnt like you. Blaming your problems on other is easy
I'm not even mad, you moron. Fucking prostitutes is awesome. It's cheaper and funner than dating. I honestly wish I'd never dated. Women simply aren't worth being in relationships with.
>i dont understand you a little bit let me explain for the one who are not so smart. Girls love ripped guys if you are skeleton or fat then there is no wonder that you had no response. Get it?
And there's a reason fatness has left you bitter and willing to lash out at any man who has escaped your chubby clutches, girlfriend.
Men are waking up to women, and that terrifies you. I get it.
>>38160128 I'd honestly go for a big titted 50 y/o blonde bimbo with a big doughy ass over a skinny ugly birdfaced chick my age (27), that's all I can get though. I'm not looking to have children right now anyways.
>>38160134 Women don't even care about looks that much. They literally worship money. It's all they think about. They might fuck a poor built guy, but they'll marry a rich ugly skinnyfat guy in a heartbeat.
> I'm a Yale law professor, 51 and still hot > My husband is also in his 50s, rich, well-connected, and good-looking Jew > My half-white children are daughters, thank goodness > and my family is so important they were invited to a Time magazine party!
>>38160412 >How woman know if you have fuckload of money when she meets you at bar,street? Clothes. Car. Speech patterns. Facial expressions. Eye contact. Skin condition. Grooming. All these things are social signifiers of wealth. Even muscles signify a high protein diet that costs money to maintain.
Rich people can spot each other at a glance.
When a woman says she wants "confidence" what she really means is "high social standing" which unless the society she's referring to is ghetto hood rats means having money.
>>38159653 Sorry, but you have male sexual attraction completely wrong. Men fuck whatever looks visually appealing to them, they have no interest in "chasing" anything.
Unless your point is that men don't form relationships with "easy" women, in which case, they're not "losing interest", they just don't want to be with a slut outside of a one night stand. This is because sluts don't make good mates and will easily betray them when it benefits them or just spread their legs for the next guy to come along.
>>38159724 I like a healthy partner. Someone who is fat is undisciplined and lacks genuine self respect. Why would I trust a woman like that to bear and help raise my children and achieve financial goals. Fatty rack disiprine
>>38160412 The women can be convinced of power (which is the basis of loving money). This is based on social status and what the woman holds to be powerful. This is also why wiggers can nail white trash -- white trash women are taught, via social interaction and media, that nigger culture is sought after, thus they seek aspects of it they cannot innately understand. As they age, money becomes the immediate catalyst of power. Thus it becomes apparent the woman simply seeks a mate with powerful influence, relative to her station in life and peers. Women are basically instinct driven morons, for the most part.
similar boat anon. i met some older chick at a biker bar, she kept hinting that we could have fun if i "gave her something". I treated her nice, when she realized i was a decent man, she fucked me for free. i didnt even use a condom, and im completely STD free.
>>38160440 I'm not bitter, cow. I dated in my 20s. I simply get far more female interest now that I have a good career. What don't you understand about this, you vapid cunt?
>>38160447 You're not worth the effort it would take to grab my phone. Also it's hard to take a picture of myself ten years ago with a timestamp, unless you've got a time machine I can borrow, you fucking submoronic retard.
>>38160599 Are you fucking stupid im not woman you retarded shit im telling you that you are fucking shit if you cant date woman now i see that you can so shut the fuck up and stop crying over internet.
oh well everyone gets older every day. besides old ladies are sometimes cool. grandma was cool. she called out niggers on the street and sandniggers at the gas station. she could cook for 20 people by herself and genuinely enjoyed it. my grandma was wise too and could really put things into perspective. I have a photo of my grandparents, after 50 years of marriage and they were looking at each other like they were both 18. sadly you don't see that kind of relationship much now. maybe women should stop seeing themselves as sex objects and more of nurturers then they wouldn't feel ignored anymore. youth is wasted on the young they say.
>>38160633 I can date women now. I just choose not to because I prefer prostitution, because it's cheaper, more exciting, offers more variety, kinkier, funner, less emotionally taxing, and more convenient. Also, western women are shit. I don't respect them. I would never willingly attach my life to one. Reading and thinking aren't your strong suit, eh?
The only real value a woman has is her womb. The production of an heir is the only thing she really has to offer a man. Her cunt is a smokescreen.
In ten years or so when I want to produce a child, I'll probably import a young wife from Russia and marry her with the sole purpose of filling her womb with my seed.
Did the thread just turn into a "I'm a bigger victim" contest?
Let me educate you all.
Bitches don't have to work much in order to attract a guy. We're one of the many species on this planet where the males put in most of the effort and compete against other males.
Guys have low impulse control, it seems.
"If we could harness the collective energy men have spent trying to get pussy, we could have colonies on Mars by now."
Guys get desperate for a release, and females falsely assume that they're chasing after THEM because guys are into them. No, we just want a release. Most people aren't interesting to each other, hardly anyone is interested in dating you.
Women are emotionally unstable and likely rationally inept. You have your own strengths. Work on them. Stop trying to be like us. Stop ruining our fun shit.
>>38160822 I don't think I'm unduly vindictive. Lots of young men are upset because they receive "no attention" from girls, but in reality, they have nearly all the power.
Assuming they do the generic things that make all people attractive (eat right, exercise, practice good hygiene, wear flattering clothes, get a haircut), they stand a very good chance of getting lots of attention from girls.
They have additional power - they can choose which girls they want, because they have the power to ask girls out. They're the true gatekeepers to relationships. Yes, yes, girls can theoretically ask guys out, but for a variety of reasons, it's not going to happen.
Of course, if a guy chooses to eat too much and become a human hippo, then well, obviously he should be ignored.
>>38159859 I'm 28 and I literally have to beat the 18 - 20 year old girls off of me because they're immature and insane. I get far more attention from women of all ages now that I'm older, oddly enough.
Move to Australia. Guys don't have to work either.
>Come over here.
>Cause I wanna talk to you?
>You're really cute
>I have a boyfriend
>I don't care
>Come back to my place for a cone, yeah?
To make a point to a neet, trying-to-come-out-of-his-shell frind of mine on Saturday, I picked up a 6/10 girl in under 10 minutes, with no effort (she was more like a 4/10, but one of those alt bitches who is really good with hair, make-up and clothes).
Don't know where you live, but it's slut central every weekend.
The only difference between guys and girls is that guys will have to drop the standards if they want to get laid as easily as girls. I have an 8/10 female friend. She can pick up a 9/10 guy with the click of a finger.
If I want to get laid easily, I'll have to throw it to some hamplanets, old hags or generally ugly bitches once in awhile.
That's just life. But still, if you're willing to hang around Star Bar at 2 in the morning, you'll not have to put in much effort to pull.
>mfw looking at older women on okc and reading their fucking standards.
lady you are past breeding age: what do you think you are good for? maybe you shouldn't have shit-canned the father of your children ten years ago.
if you old birds just want a guy to come over and give you the d i can do this for you: but you are clearly looking for a provider. you want to find a man with his own house so one of you can sell their house and you can piss away the money traveling.
>>38161189 19. A KV. Went to an all boys school so missed the boat on dealing with girls. Gym fit, martial artist, been rated a 7/10, can dress alright. Don't have a great personality. Don't go out to clubs and shit as I don't really like them. So the struggle is really trying to meet girls in the first place. I also have no idea how to talk to them
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