I had a sexual encounter with another man. I'm gay. I'm

How did you find him?
What kind of apprehensions were you thinking before?

>>8863010
>How did you find him?
A moment of weakness on grindr. I liked to browse and lurk. Never sent a message until today.

>What kind of apprehensions were you thinking before?
I don't know. Would I regret doing it? What if it changed something in me? What if I felt disgusted and ashamed forever after? What if people found out? I just felt like it was a big step to take and I was a late bloomer anyway. I liked the fantasy but actually going through with it was scary.

I really wanted my first time to be with a nice, gentle, caring bf that I can trust and I know is safe. That's kind of an unrealistic expectation I know but idk I'm a romantic or something. I've been looking for someone for 2 years now and I'm not getting any younger. It made me want to finally get out there and get active. I felt like I've been wasting valuable time and even if it was something casual with a stranger it's better than nothing.

>>8863002
>I'm gay. I'm actually gay.
Judging by your pic it's more likely you're trans.

>>8863002
>What does this mean for me?
It means you're gay

>What's it like being gay?
Idk anon, I'm just a dirty trans :/

>Am I part of an oppressed minority?
If you are, it won't stay that way for long. Dirty libtards will see to that.

> Is there a political scene that I should be active in?
Not really. There are political groups that you can join in if you want, but I wouldn't really recommend that.

>Do I have a responsibility to "come out" and be visible?
Well, you should be honest with the people around you. If you don't like girls, then just say so. Unless you want to be unhappy with any future straight relationships you will force yourself into.

>How will this effect my sex life?
It probably won't really affect your sex life, if the first paragraph is accurate.

>Where would I go to find partners?
Just google "Gay hookups" if that's just what you're looking for. Otherwise some other dating sites will probably suffice.

>Should I inform my doctor and get on preventative medication like prep?
eh, you could, but I don't really see the need if you practice safe sex habbits. ( lots of lube, a condom, etc)

>Worry about STDs from (safe) sex?
You should straight up ask when the last time your partner was checked for any STDs, and if he hasn't then that would be a dealbreaker for me.

>Do gay men have boyfriends or am I doomed to casual hookups forever?
Of course gay people have boyfriends (and eventually husbands if they're serious.)

>What online scenes or communities could I look to for support, or romance?
Well, 4chan isn't really the place to go for support, see if there is a local pride center near where you live, they probably have some support chat/number you can call.

> I really feel like I need some support right now.
Welp, I hope that I was at least some help to you. If you have no friends/no one you can honestly talk to about your personal feelings, there's always some gay/trans support center somewhere you can call.

>>8863067
I hate my body and I wish I was a girl. Yes. I'm also very very masculine and manly, and overweight and definitely too old. There is no chance of me ever remotely passing. I'd look ugly and ridiculous. I can either be a fairly attractive man, or a very ugly tranny.

>>8863078
/lgbt/ is a blue board anon, I can't.
Also because I didn't take any.

>>8863085
Thank you. I don't have anyone I could talk to, maybe I'll look into finding a support center.

>>8863067
>Judging by your pic it's more likely you're trans.
Yeah. When I first saw this thread I looked at the image, read the first few sentences, and kept scrolling because I figured it was some fujoshi posting her fanfiction.

>>8863104
>I hate my body and I wish I was a girl.
FUCKING CALLED IT.

>>8863104
Tell me OP, how do you feel towards girls? Do they ever feature in your sexual fantasies?

What a genuinely terrible thread

>>8863159
I have folders with hundreds of images of cute anime girl reaction pics. Which I post because I want to be cute and I like cute stuff. My whole desktop wallpaper and windows theme and everything is customized to be pink and girl. My cursor and icons are a custom, girly set. Same thing wit my phone. I play female characters in games because I want to be them.

>>8863167
>Tell me OP, how do you feel towards girls?
Most of them are boring, dumb, unfunny, selfish, just generally shitty people. They're also weak and pudgy and gross looking. Even a low maintenence girl will make you jump through hooks just to get a chance to entertain her. I dislike (3D) girls and I'm not attracted to them.

>Do they ever feature in your sexual fantasies?
They used to when I was younger and I thought I was straight. Not for a few years though. If I'm fapping to straight porn I'm self-inserting as the girl. Female POV porn for example.

>>8863181
Thanks, you too.

>>8863002
>What does this mean for me?
Time to get a boyfriend.

>What's it like being gay?
Who knows?

>Am I part of an oppressed minority?
Yes, the most oppressed in the LGBT.

>Do I have a responsibility to "come out" and be visible?
No, but if you do it's great.

>What online scenes or communities could I look to for support, or romance?
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>>8863002
>What does this mean for me?
Ur geh.

>What's it like being gay?
P gay.

>Am I part of an oppressed minority?
Kek no. Libs will champion you as the second cumming of Jesus.

>A vulnerable population that faces violence and discrimination?
Just don't be a degenerate faggot in front of rednecks.

>Is there a political scene that I should be active in?
Stop. Do not let your sexul predelections define your existance. You're better than that OP.

>Do I have a responsibility to "come out" and be visible?
No. Fuck that. You don't have a responsibility to be some libshit poster boy talking point.

>How will this effect my sex life?
Gay sex with me.

>Where would I go to find partners?
Apps, online dating, gaay bars.

>Should I inform my doctor and get on preventative medication like prep?
If you're going to fuck without a condom, yes.

>Worry about STDs from (safe) sex?
Use a condom and don't be a slut.

>Do gay men have boyfriends or am I doomed to casual hookups forever?
Prolly the latter since that's what you faggots like.

>What online scenes or communities could I look to for support, or romance?
Support for what? Romance: Grindr (sex), OKCupid (dating and sex).

Faggot.

>>8863247
>>8863085
>If you are, it won't stay that way for long. Dirty libtards will see to that.
>Kek no. Libs will champion you as the second cumming of Jesus

Really? At my last job it came out that I was into guys and all of my (female) coworkers hated me after that. It went from flirty and friendly and them doing their jobs to very rude and not doing shit, so I had to do literally everything. And getting in trouble when it wasn't done, because I couldn't do 4 additional people's jobs for them. That's just an anecdote but it makes me worry. I see a LOT of people that are very very strongly anti-gay too which makes me worry about bashing. Like "all fags should die and I want to actually kill you."

>>8863247
>don't be a slut.
What qualifies as a slut? Is like... once a month casual sex from grindr or something slutty? Is a blowjob without a condom slutty? I'd like to only do it with someone I know and trust but that's hard because I don't know any gay people. Or at least none that are within 500 miles.

>>8863247
>Ur geh.
She's not though?

>>8863359
girls are gross

>>8863002
How'd you end up having sex with him in the first place?

This whole fucking topic screams "prison gay" to me

No one suddenly realizes they're into guys at 24.

>>8864152
What do you mean? I went to his house and we did the thing. Met him thru grindr.

>>8864156
I was really repressed. There were hints before then obviously but that was when it really hit me that I was really attracted to guys.

I don't think I'd call it prison gay since women like me and hit on me.

>>8863002
>what's it like?
A plump cock and balls will arouse you.
A sloppy or gaping vagina will gross you out.
You'll start to like the smell of sweaty men even if it doesn't feel like it now.
Unless you have a lisp no one will know.

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>>8863002
>what does this mean for me?
It means as much or as little as you want it to mean. Though having a typical relationship and children will be much harder. You're still you though.

>What's it like being gay?
You're gay. You already know this.

>Am I part of an oppressed minority? A vulnerable population that faces violence and discrimination?
Yes, though some countries and communities are more oppressed than others. You might not experience it.

>Is there a political scene that I should be active in?
No. I mean there are political scenes, but its a choice not an obligation. You can even disagree with these organisations if you want.

>Do I have a responsibility to "come out" and be visible?
No.

>How will this effect my sex life?
Its up to you. Again, if you're gay sex with men will be more fun most likley.

>Where would I go to find partners?
The internet?

>Should I inform my doctor and get on preventative medication like prep?
Only if you're a complete whore.

>Worry about STDs from (safe) sex?
Everyone should think about this not just teh gays.

>Do gay men have boyfriends or am I doomed to casual hookups forever?
Lots of gay guys have (and want) long term monogamous relationships.

>What online scenes or communities could I look to for support, or romance?
I don't know to be honest. Talking to friends in real life can be more helpful I think.

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>>8863002
Here's the superior version.