>be me >gay >look nothing like pic related >feel

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>>8817896
>is there any hope
Yeah, pic related.

>>8817900
I do work out, yet it's a slow process. I still don't see myself as handsome enough though to attract anyone to me or feel like I'm good enough to ask anyone out. I see so much emphasis on looks in "gay society" and it makes me depressed.

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>>8817896
>>8817933
There are people that likes a dad bod, and even if it's a slow process, you can lose weight if you actually work on it. If it's really a slow process, you're probably not eating right, or you don't know how unhealthy the food you're eating.

Or maybe you're just ugly and nothing to do with your weight. Post pic to verify.

>>8817896
is that """"""""attractive"""""""?? so glad I'm lesbian desu

>>8817988
All lesbians are at least this much of an attention whore.

>>8817896
What's so fucked up is I think your pic related looks like shit. He's obviously hot as fuck but I've been so brainwashed and mind fucked by the men that I've met that I have this unrealistic beauty standard.
Most of the time I feel absolutely hideous and when attractive people call me hot, pretty, handsome or gorgeous I feel like they're either trying to improve my self esteem or have an agenda to make me fall in love with them so they can break my heart and drive me to suicide.
Right now I feel okay but I don't know how long it will last.
This is what society does to gay men and women.

>>8817988
It's Colton Haynes, believe it or not.
>>8818019
I have bad self image problems so I'll probably never view myself in a good way. Maybe it's too much porn that I watch... and on instagram too; I see so many attractive gays that have perfect muscle mass, lean hairless bodies, perfect hair and smiles to match. It's hard to think that you need to be like them in order for shit to fall in place and move on in life.

>>8817988
men are like pack animals if we're being honest
They're strong and useful as tools, but that's all they are. There is no such thing as a beautiful man. And when reminded of the fact, they get hilariously upset.

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>>8818192
>no such thing
Take it back

>>8818195
I'm not gonna lie and say he's disgusting or something, I don't have enough of a man-hating dyke thing going on for that, but he's simply not beautiful.
It's like a power tool- it can be perfectly functional, but never beautiful.

>>8818204
Are beauty standards necessary for lesbians or do they just take what they can get? I didn't mean to get into an aside with Tom, I'm really just trying to open my eyes and see life differently.

>>8818211
Okay, shitposting aside because I do get that of course I'll never be able to find men attractive just like you'll never be able to find women attractive, yeah.
I've found that lesbians can be notoriously picky about who they sleep with. If a chick wants a bull dyke, she's never gonna go for any girl with an ounce of femininity in her. If she wants a femme girl, the reverse is true

Of course, I've found that this also is pretty proportional to the whole star system- people who legitimately care about being gold star tend to be more like this than the people who ignore the whole thing.

>>8818185
>Colton Haynes
He's one of the reasons why I watched Arrow, and I stopped when he quit the show. And when Green Arrow is becoming more and more Batman. Sad.

>>8818185
But most of those beautiful guys have those issues.
It's amazing how some of the hottest men I've met have been so insecure. I think to look like that you need to have a high level of insecurity to strive to look that perfect.
Personally I've realised that when I'm fat I don't really care about how I look and I'm happy. When I'm at my slimmest I see myself as an obese hideous monster and starve myself until I'm even thinner.

>>8817900
battle of the bod is fought in the kitchen more than the gym

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>>8818192
Honestly there actually is beautiful men, believe it or not. Short haired guys are meant to be more masc, whereas long haired guys are shown to be more looks over being strong. Of course you can be both, which is the epitome of being a man. Being strong, yet beautiful at the same time is hard.

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>>8818192
You're retarded. There are incredibly beautiful men, you just aren't one.
Even in history, the beauty of men was celebrated.
A beautiful male body is far superior to a beautiful female body which doesn't require much work and doesn't possess the complex musculature.
Also, the most beautiful women in the world tend to have masculine features.
Slim angular faces and strong jaw lines. They also have athletic bodies.
You have no idea what you're talking about.
Western society doesn't see the fat faced pseudo japs that the autisys on here aspire to look like as beautiful.

>>8818635
Of course I'm not a beautiful man, I'm a woman.

As for your example, I sincerely do hope that your picture isn't supposed to resemble a beautiful man, because that's the opposite of beauty.

>>8817896
>>feel like I'm a no one/nothing unless I look absolutely gorgeous
Step away from the screens, brother. This is not how it works in the real world, even in the incredibly shallow gay community. You're being fed a lie by your cell phone and computer. Free yourself.

>>8819420
>sacks of fat on a flabby body is beauty

>>8819608
Reducto ad absurdum.

>"how can you find a human attractive? It's a bunch of gore, bloody meat, and flesh in a constant state of decay"

>>8818635
>posts photoshop as example of masculine beauty

kek

>>8819629
desu digital men are the closest men will ever come to being attractive. Men smell repulsive.

>>8819420
I guarantee every person on the planet would say he was more beautiful than you.

>>8819629
He isn't photoshopped, you fool. You can see his fucking wrinkles.
He is just beautiful.

>>8819785
There's no need to get upset by the fact that you can't stop getting buttfucked long enough to realize that, as I outright said I'm a lesbian, I'm not a man.

>>8818192
Hey now, that's not true
Gays are good at getting aids, needing to be rescued because society is so disgusted by them, blaming lesbians for everything, and then dying from aids

>>8819443
>You're being fed a lie by your cell phone and computer. Free yourself.
Yeah I think you're right. I've just developed a very strange dynamic in my life. I have no friends and never been in a relationship so seeing all these guys on my computer kind of makes up for that and I no longer feel lonely. It's a condition that I need to break. T b h, it probably needs therapy to fix but no one wants to admit that.

>>8819789
I acknowledge you're a lesbian. He as a man is more beautiful than you.
It's pretty hilarious that you're saying men aren't beautiful considering most lesbians tend to look manly, at the very least boyish.