Alright lgbt, shit confession time.
I am a pretty straight, white, cis male. I pretty much exclusively jerk off to traps and chicks with dicks, despite feeling like it is sexualizing and fetishizing trans women and reinforcing the idea of passing in my mind. It is gotten to the point where I have definitely been a creep on dating apps and definitely spend way to much time trying to figure out if women are trans. Despite this, I'd probably be too embarrassed to date anyone with a dick. How shit of an ally am I for this?
>>8615604
I think the best thing you should do is be honest with this on your profiles and ultimately some girl will just want to get fucked and deal with you if you aren't too ugly.
Most won't stand you though but the best way you can support is by trying to prevent harming folks emotionally.
Mtf here, its fine, no one can force who you wanna date
>>8615621
People I know can see my profiles, and I'd be hella embarrassed, plus feel like a jerk more than I do already.
Though currently dating a wonderful woman so not a concern right now. Dating apps have been deleted and wiped for the better part of a year.
>>8615604
>I am a pretty straight, white, cis male.
>I pretty much exclusively jerk off to traps and chicks with dicks
Gamps aren't cis, sorry.
>>8615657
wat
>>8615665
Yer a tranny 'Arry.
>>8615678
I don't think that is how that works
>>8615604
Take some time off the porn. It's not good for you.
>>8615693
>she doesn't know how to spot an egg
>>8615604
If the AGP theory proves correct, in about 2 to 5 years, OP will have a mental breakdown because of "his" fanatic obsession with traps and t-girls which will soon lead to an existential crisis. After a few cycles of binging and purging, including a desperate attempt to repress "his" sexual urges and natural feelings, OP will inevitably reach to the conclusion that deep down, they also want to be transgirls as well. From that point on, she will eventually need to decide whether to transition into the ideal girl of her dreams, or commit suicide.
>>8615843
It's better to be a GAMP trans girl than an androphilic or true gynephilic trans girl. It's easier to love yourself.
>>8615857
Noob question: what's a GAMP? First time hearing that phrase.
>>8615862
Gynandromorphilia. Attraction to trans women.
>>8615885
So you mean a trans girl who is sexually attracted to other trans girls? Is that similar to transbians?
If I had a chance to be a girl for a couple days, I'd probably take it to see what it was like, but I've thought that since puberty, and never had any dysphoria, so I don't think that is the case.
>>8615857
>transgender
>loving self
Good joke
>>8615885
jesus christ you people have completely lost it
>>8616789
Stealing hypotheses from google scholar searches and trying desperately to be THE VOICE OF SCIENCE!!!!! is the exact reason why people shout at scientismfags these days.
You treat your piddy Google research like a religion, and that's off putting to the sane world.
unrelated question
i used to flirt with the girl in op pic, and i still kind of like her, even tho i'm straight now
how can i resolve this emotional conflict without disappointing sex
>>8616838
if she's a girl and you are straight i don't see the problem
>>8616842
i'm not a guy
>>8616848
oh. idk then. flirt with her. or don't. do you. don't let your sexuality be confined by a single label.
>>8615604
You're shit regardless of whether you're an ally or not.
Frankly being an ally might even make you more shit than you're already are.
>>8617532
Right? Trans women have enough problems to deal with without constant fetishization.
man I got way less hate than I thought
>>8615843
Holy shit, I had a mental breakdown with 24 years old already, I think everyday about transition everyday. My life has no meaning
WTF.
Will I commit suicide?
I'll ask too.
I am cis male, and I mostly masturbate on trap and trans porn. I always identify as the male, and I don't really see it as a kink. I guess I genuinely like a girl with a dick more than a normal woman (more often than not vaginas gross me out). If I'm sexualizing them, I'm doing so in the same manner I would do with most other porn (and to be fair, my approach to it fairly light-hearted and wholesome).
Now, I'd love to be gay, but men bodies gross me out too. I genuinely can't imagine myself kissing tenderly another grown, manly man. No matter what, my preferences go towards femininity, although I'm not that obsessed with passing (in fact I could see myself going out with certain twinks I've met in my lifetime).
I don't know about dating, for I'm a shut in who's going to uni in a backward place, where trans people would be bullied on a daily basis.
So, is there a name for people like me? How is this approach to porn generally seen from the LGBTQ+ community?
>>8618326
it makes you a guy with patrician taste, anon.
>>8620705
bump