Prostate

>>8173606
I have one of these but smaller idk how to use it, it just feels weird
I had bigger orgasms just using my pinky tbqh

>>8173621
> using my pinky
Did you enema beforehand or something?
>>8173606
I tried a hairbrush as a teen and was able to get something out of it a couple times. otherwise didn't work haven't done buttplay in many years now I don't know what I'd even need to make it work.

I wasn't able to 'find' my prostate until just a few months ago. Here are my tips.

The actual prostate is quite small, it's not very far in, and it's located behind the dick. What I do is I get a reasonably-sized dildo, lube it up real good, then POUND the area right behind my dick. I do this while trying to 'push' the dildo out (i.e. try to shit it out. Make sure you have a proper enema before doing this!!)

What I find is that hitting the prostate feels really weird if you're not prepared for it. It's not pleasurable, instead it feels tingly and uncomfortable. It kind of makes me jump if I'm not expecting it. That's why you want to 'push' - doing that turns the discomfort into pure bliss. You have to try it to believe it.


That's basically all the advice I can offer. As for the toy in the OP, I can't say I've ever used one, but I'd say experimenting and playing around a bit is key. I've heard people say you should squeeze and unsqueeze your butt muscles, so that it rubs the prostate rather than just touches it.

>>8173621
You could just get a girl-friend you know. You wouldn't have to masturbate.

Currently also trying to fully orgasm through anal. With good feelings but no real success.

>>8173606
Only ever made me hard
The lube I had also wasn't very good so it suuuucked to remove

Im looking forward to be able to have one of these orgasms myself. Unfortunately i could not do it. Anyone else that has experience can contribute?

>>8177128
>>8173606
I had trouble "getting there" with it as well at first until I tried doing it high. Everything clicked then and I've been able to use it well since, but it works waaaaay better if you smoke weed, and always give yourself ample time to loosen up, stay clean and use good lube.

>>8173606
>Gay men of /lgbt/ is the prostate/prostate orgasm a meme?
the only 'meme' you've fallen for here anon is the "insecure enough to by masculinized version of regular product" meme

>>8182874
different anon here
>masculinized version of regular product
what do you mean?

>>8182996
buy a regular buttplug or dildo (both is best)

you don't need a fucking HETERO NO HOMO MANPOUNDER FOR NOT PUSSIES

>>8183015
Buttplugs and dildos work just fine yes.
But isn't a prostate massager just a different kind of product?
It don't think it's very masculinized per se, but it is specifically made for male anatomy.

idk OP the only time ive been able to cum was when my bf was pounding me with a medium sized trainer/expander dildo, of all things.

that pushing against behind your dick advice earlier seemed great though

Two questions
How can I make a homemade dildo?
And how do I use a dildo for the first time?

>>8183156
>how can I make a homemade dildo
Please don't.
>how do I use a dildo for the first time
Start with relaxing.
Then apply some lube and massage with fingers.
You may want to warm up with finger insertion.
After that, insert the dildo after putting lots of lube on it.
Go slow, and if you feel any pain go easy or stop.

There's also more information out there on the internet, and on reddit in particular.

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>>8183170
How do I "prepare" my ass? Cleaning and everything

>>8183175
You could flush out your rectum with water, but doing so too often causes health issues.
Eat lots of fiber generally and light food on the day of.
Take a shit beforehand, up to a few hours, and then shower.
Remember shit happens, also use a towel.
Generally being relaxed is very important, take some time for it, taking a hot shower/bath or getting high might help.
Watching porn and massaging your anus may help with arousal and getting warmed up.
Then it's just a matter of taking it slow and in small steps.

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>>8175717
Not him, I came to this board from /r9k/, please stop.

>>8183015
you can achieve prostate orgasm with a normal dildo or buttplug, but this is designed to be hands free. One of the little curves at the bottom rests on your perineal raphe (or, the spot just under your balls.) When you're hard and flex your dick that spot bulges slightly, causing the toy to rub against your prostate. The real payoff comes when you orgasm and thus flex your dick constantly, causing the toy to rub against your prostate constantly, thus making the orgasm more intense.

it's not a "no-homo" sex toy, it's specifically designed for males.

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>>8183215
T B H if your getting a butt toy it's pretty much a given you don't have a partner (if CIS).
I think he was baiting.

>>8183190
Jesus, that's complicated. Girls really do have it easier.

>>8183279
So you're basically saying clench when I'm riding a dildo? But that's the opposite of the relaxing to get it in...

>>8183015
>>8182874
I mentioned I have a dildo, the aneros is specific for prostate stimulation. Not everything is an attack on your queerness dude.

>>8173606
if you're a male born with a vagina as a secondary characteristic and were sexually reassigned your prostate probably isn't much of a g-spot

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>>8173606

instead of spending all day masturbating,
spend all day working on your career.

once you have money you can attract a sexy partner who will make you cum hands-free.