How long am I going to have to use this fucking thing before I see stars? My dildo does more for me than this or the helix and I spend at least an hour using this. I haven't even been able to find my prostate in years.
I feel like a G-spot would be easier to find. I'm so frustrated. I've had dicks in me but I still can't find it. Gay men of /lgbt/ is the prostate/prostate orgasm a meme?
I wasn't able to 'find' my prostate until just a few months ago. Here are my tips.
The actual prostate is quite small, it's not very far in, and it's located behind the dick. What I do is I get a reasonably-sized dildo, lube it up real good, then POUND the area right behind my dick. I do this while trying to 'push' the dildo out (i.e. try to shit it out. Make sure you have a proper enema before doing this!!)
What I find is that hitting the prostate feels really weird if you're not prepared for it. It's not pleasurable, instead it feels tingly and uncomfortable. It kind of makes me jump if I'm not expecting it. That's why you want to 'push' - doing that turns the discomfort into pure bliss. You have to try it to believe it.
That's basically all the advice I can offer. As for the toy in the OP, I can't say I've ever used one, but I'd say experimenting and playing around a bit is key. I've heard people say you should squeeze and unsqueeze your butt muscles, so that it rubs the prostate rather than just touches it.
Buttplugs and dildos work just fine yes.
But isn't a prostate massager just a different kind of product?
It don't think it's very masculinized per se, but it is specifically made for male anatomy.
idk OP the only time ive been able to cum was when my bf was pounding me with a medium sized trainer/expander dildo, of all things.
that pushing against behind your dick advice earlier seemed great though
>how can I make a homemade dildo
>how do I use a dildo for the first time
Start with relaxing.
Then apply some lube and massage with fingers.
You may want to warm up with finger insertion.
After that, insert the dildo after putting lots of lube on it.
Go slow, and if you feel any pain go easy or stop.
There's also more information out there on the internet, and on reddit in particular.
You could flush out your rectum with water, but doing so too often causes health issues.
Eat lots of fiber generally and light food on the day of.
Take a shit beforehand, up to a few hours, and then shower.
Remember shit happens, also use a towel.
Generally being relaxed is very important, take some time for it, taking a hot shower/bath or getting high might help.
Watching porn and massaging your anus may help with arousal and getting warmed up.
Then it's just a matter of taking it slow and in small steps.
you can achieve prostate orgasm with a normal dildo or buttplug, but this is designed to be hands free. One of the little curves at the bottom rests on your perineal raphe (or, the spot just under your balls.) When you're hard and flex your dick that spot bulges slightly, causing the toy to rub against your prostate. The real payoff comes when you orgasm and thus flex your dick constantly, causing the toy to rub against your prostate constantly, thus making the orgasm more intense.
it's not a "no-homo" sex toy, it's specifically designed for males.
T B H if your getting a butt toy it's pretty much a given you don't have a partner (if CIS).
I think he was baiting.
instead of spending all day masturbating,
spend all day working on your career.
once you have money you can attract a sexy partner who will make you cum hands-free.