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I'm a 23 year old gay guy. I feel like I've slept with few people, only three, albeit over the course of only four years. All three of the people have been important in my life. Also my periods of intimacy with these people didn't overlap much, so I suppose I've been "monogamous" mostly although only one was a relationship.
It's hard for me to define why, but I'm very uncomfortable with what I deem "casual sex"- uncomfortable with it being associated with homosexuality, uncomfortable with the idea of pursuing it (although on a lot of levels I'm pretty down), and very uncomfortable with my close FWB's occasional sex with other people- jealousy on some level, sure. But it's more than that, I feel like I want to preserve some sort of "meaning" and I'm frightened of the relationship of sex and meaning and the implications of actions... but what does that all mean is a lingering question. It's all pretty hypocritical anyway because by many definitions my own sexual activity is casual- outside of relationships in instances after all.
So I wonder what I should do. I feel fairly alienated from gay people, but I wonder why. I don't want to alienate myself by sitting on some BS "moral high ground" when I can't define an actual moral reason to be more prudent. So I wonder if I should just fuck some guys to get off my high horse, if that's what it is. But at the same time, it sort of sounds fun, but it mostly is really depressing. What do?
Also, why would I be uncomfortable with casual sex?
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It isn't just gay people. I think nowadays casual sex is very normal anyway.
There are reasons to not be a whore. The primary reason I can think of is that whores are usually very depressed because having sex isn't enough to fill the void that is their void for intimacy.
At the end of the day this is all just preference. I'm personally gay and celibate, and the only reason why is because I want to. It doesn't have to be any more complicated than that. I just prefer not to have sex with people I don't care about.
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You're not the only one who feels that way about casual sex. I'm 24 and haven't had sex yet because of that. I do wonder why I feel the way I do, perhaps it's just the way I was raised.
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