Have you ever told someone that you loved them in a romantic sense? Never have and would like to know what happens when you tell some1.
Nope. Every time a girl says it to me I chicken the fuck out and break up with them
>>7750407
Had a guy tell me he loved, I just said thanks and went to sleep. Wasn't into him so it doesn't amtter.
>>7750390
If they love you then they tell you back.
If they don't they try to change the subject or just stare at you blankly before trying to escape.
Once I had a guy laugh at me and say "No you don't"
He stopped seeing me after that.
It's dIfferent every time. Some return the feeling immediately, some get shy then run away then finally come back and return the feeling, some just run away, some ignore it, some reject you outright, some reject you at first and then one day out of nowhere are suddenly grabbing you and kissing you.
Depends on the person.
>>7750390
>woman posing in front of cheese
It's funny because
Cycle 23 ANTM stole this idea
pic related
>>7750390
When I was in high school, I told my girlfriend I loved her after she sucked me off. She was like 'I love you too' but neither of us meant it actually.
I have. If you make it a routine thing to say, it loses its potency.
>>7750390
>Have you ever told someone that you loved them in a romantic sense?
Yes.
Fucker had to be straight.
Thankfully he was too much of an awkward self hater to stab me so I think I got away with it.
>>7750390
MtF here.
My gf told me that she loved me about a year into our relationship, immediately I told her that I loved her too. She burst into tears and we hugged in there and then for a good five minutes.
We're in our fifth year now and engaged to get married. Only time I've ever been happy to see that little M next to my sex is when I can tell our government to go fuck their marriage laws.
>>7751300
>not changing your gender marker after five years
AGP
>>7750390
I've never told anyone that because I'm too uncomfortable with my own body to enter a real relationship with someone.
>First time
I was in a relationship I wasn't happy in, though I didn't realize it at the time. I was more in love with the idea of being loved than the person who loved me. I told them in english, because coming from nerd circles we often switched between our native language and english. At least I think I told them. I was never disillusioned enough that I wanted to tell them in our native tongue, though, and thankfully they never did either. I was seventeen, we broke up after three months, and a few months after that they asked me never to speak with me again. In retrospect, that was fair.
>Second time
I was head over heels in love with a narcissist who was five or six years older than me and lived on the other side of the globe. We spoke daily, almost constantly, for maybe a year. In february I told them that I loved them in my native tongue. It was the first time I'd done that. They replied vaguely. We flirted and roleplayed sexually, but never actually spoke clearly about entering a relationship. Around April they started growing more distant as new people became more interesting than I, and by June they were actively ignoring me for the most part. Last time I spoke to them was in August of that year, when I asked them to remove me from their social media if they had no intentions of speaking to me again. They didn't reply, but did as I asked.
>Third time
The first time it felt like the obvious choice, about six months in with my current girlfriend. That was the first time it felt easy and effortless to tell someone in my native tongue. She'd told me before but I'd been vague in my replies. With the "seal" broken, though...
We've been dating for two years now.
I don't think it's a phrase to be used sparingly as much as it is a phrase to be used carefully. Just remember you can't take it back once it's out there.
>>7750390
No. And I probably never will.
Fuck you.
>>7750390
First time was with my first gf who told me she loved me, in which I said I loved her too. Then she later took it back and said it was a "heat of the moment thing", even though I had told her that I didn't want her to say those three words to me if she didn't really mean it.
Second time was on valentine's day with another girl i had been dating for over half a year. I texted it to her on valentine's day after sending her a dumb vday card. Never got a response and we broke up about a month later.
I've never consider saying it to anyone I'm dating anymore and if someone were to tell me they loved me, I'd be reluctant to believe them.