Is it possible to report rape without your parents and school finding out you're gay?
>>7722856
being raped doesn't mean you're gay.
however if you were raped by someone you met on grindr or at a gay bar then you may have some explaining to do.
>>7722930
But I am gay, and the guy knew I was gay, and he goes to the same school, and I sucked his cock a few times until it became awkward, then kept doing it anyway since he pressured me into it, then he pressured me into anal sex, and now he doesn't take no for an answer.
>>7722856
probably not because they would likely be interested in and following the trial/case
>>7723020
>he doesn't take no for an answer
You lucky bitch.
'No' probably just makes him harder.
I can't even get anyone to look at me.
What is your secret?
>>7723332
You think it's lucky until it's your asshole.
>>7723332
you should probably kill yourself
>>7723495
>tfw no dominant bara bf to rape my hole
why even live?
>>7723576
I never know if /lgbt/ really this naive or just trolling
>>7723711
>implying you wouldn't want a dominant bara bf
are you lesbian or what?
>>7723801
Different anon here.
Fantasy and reality are not the same thing.
It's not rape if you consent
>>7729093
This. If you want them to take you forcefully, then it's roleplay or whatever you want to call it.
If you don't want it, it's rape.
>>7723020
That doesn't sound like rape.
For it to be rape he would have to forcefully pin you down while you were trying to resist.
It just sounds like you were too much of a pussy to get up and leave.
People like you are why innocent males are in prison because of females "muh retroactive rape"
>>7723576
anon, is it coincidence, that, that looks like my body and i'm a dominant bear?
you got contact?
>>7732763
lel are you really gaslighting a rape victim fucking kill yourself bro
>>7722856
Yes, for what the first anon said. Sexual assault/rape *should* be notified on a need-to-know basis...so say principal, police chief, the office who handles the case and (if you're under age of majority, typically 18) your parents would be notified.
Doesn't mean you're gay, means a guy entered your no-no zone without consent. You can find cases of this where the victim of the assault is male and non-homosexual/bisexual because the victimization is usually based on how easy it is for the assailant to get a hold of you and coerce you into the act.
If it was unwanted, then that's all there is to it.
In the meantime while you figure out what you want to do about this, avoid the guy. If he becomes more assertive about it, treat it like you're being bullied, notify school admins, and it can be handled in a way that totally avoid the sexual undertones of the contact (in theory).
source: me is RA, that's how we do it on the uni level, so if in HS the parent piece is the thing that gets factored in most likely. Ask other question if you have; its not guaranteed advice, just some better info if you're unaware of the possibilities.
Make sure not to let him go to prison for rape because you didn't like it, but didn't make it clear enough.
>>7732763
This OP sounds like a feminist
>>7733903
T.stacey
School finding out you're gay doesn't matter. They can't really do anything with the information.
Parents finding out would possibly suck, but if you're going to report a crime, they're probably going to find out if you still live with them. In any case, it's still best to report the crime to the police, if for no other reason than to keep the same crime from being committed again to others.
>>7732763
>he would have to forcefully pin you down while you were trying to resist
That's not how it's defined in statute, retard. If he says no, that's all that's required. The fact that OP is too much of a pussy to get up and leave does not equate to consent.
>>7723020
>then kept doing it anyway since he pressured me into it
> then he pressured me into anal sex
>muh opression
thats not rape
>and now he doesn't take no for an answer.
that can escalate to rape
I feel like you just have social anxiety and youre blaming him for your inability to say no
ive been there, luckily im a top but still, I had very shitty encounters with people I didnt want to fuck
I left everytime feeling like shit, grossed out and like I needed a shower
then once I had amazing sex and just then I realized that I wasnt asexual and fucking is actually really fun
>>7742529
Not taking no for an answer is literally rape, you mental retard.