Straight men who act really gay

Those guys tend to be ones who force themselves into het marriages to please their parents.

I know one guy (funny enough also hispanic) where he denied being gay ever since high school. He too got married to try and legitimize it all but everyone always understood he wasn't het. Well the good news is they didn't have any kids, but they divorced and now he's on grindr.

Also, women are stupid they fall in love with literally anything. Women will date 2 tiers below them easily. When it comes to gays, they are more than willing to date 2 tiers below themselves all because 'he like totes gets me!!!!'

>>7644023
You really think so. I huge part of me really wants to believe that he is somehow actually straight, but the only thing that supports that is the fact that he has a wife and kids.

Why would any homosexual individual do something like that. I often wonder how she actually feels about him.

This is what repression looks like.

The saddest part is their wives will realize their mistake too late, and be locked together with kids to a man uses her as a badge.

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>>7644002
your ideas intrigue me and i wish to subscribe to your newsletter

The weird thing is it doesn't seem like he even tries to hide it. Excuse me for saying this but he acts like a "full-blown obnoxious faggot." He could easily tone down a lot of the shit he does. None of the women in our department behave as feminine as he does.

It sucks that I have feelings for him though. No one would tell that I'm gay because of how I carry myself, which is weird. It's like we're polar opposites in that regard.

>>7644048
I'm not quite sure what you mean by this.

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>>7644002
Dan Futterman starred in Season Two Episode 11 as pastry chef Stephan, a self-described “gay straight man.” Charlotte is intrigued, but realizes they are incompatible when they have the same reaction to seeing a mouse. (seriously)

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0698633/

>>7644002
Sounds like a closeted faggot to me.

>>7644002
Don't act surprised when he has a mid-life crisis, divorces his wife, abandons his kids, and runs off to do drag at the cabaret.

I used to work with a guy who did that...

>>7644038
It happens man. Not as often as it used to now that homosexuality is more accepted.

But in Hispanic communities you are expected to be a good Catholic, get married and have kids.

There is more pressure on gay Hispanics to conform to their societal norms

That guy from that youtube channel about the white couple in korea and japan. Forgot the name.

>>7647892
You mean Son and Martina?

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>>7648115
Forgot to post pic

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>>7648119
That guy has serious "gay face".

>>7648119
Yes that's him lol. I'm surprised they're married. They seem like a gay + faghag duo.

>>7644029
women do not like gays to date, that's a meme

I get way more attention from men than women

>>7644002
This fucker is going to come out as a faggot / tranny if he doesn't knock it out

Acting like a faggot is one of the leading causes of being a faggot.

He could be BISEXUAL. How did this occur to none of you?

I dated a guy like that, married with a kid, pretty fem if he felt safe. His wife knew he was a huge half-faggot, she was a fag hag, she loved it. She thought we were an adorable side couple and bragged to her fag hag friends about her husband having a boyfriend.

But the two of THEM were obnoxiously Twu Lurve. They're still together 15 years after he and I went our separate ways.

Seriously, though. It's a possibility he's a huge fag, AND he really loves his wife, AND he isn't all that closeted.

>>7651723
You'd know.

Take the faggot accusations elsewhere, like /b/.

>>7651723
Im Bi and the complete opposite of the guy OP is desribing. Literally nobody would ever think Im gay except for the men I sometimes sleep with

>>7651771
Yeah. I would. Because I dated him. As established.

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Once, many years ago, I met on a chat room a conflicted straight guy who met me in person and cried like a baby saying that he had pleasure “there” and therefore was gay. I tried to convince him that ALL guys have pleasure there and he would be gay only if he felt attracted to the same sex. Stright guys have the PEGGING option.

>>7651795
I saw an online comment on a gay site from a young man who said flatly his only sexual interest was seducing straight men and then contemptuously discarding them because “after that, they’re just gay guys.” He got an enraged reaction, but let’s not pretend; the “straight guy” obsession is not a fringe thing, it’s pervasive in gay erotica/porn/fantasy/real-life seduction [attempts]. It always has been. I guess the most innocent take is that it’s about conquering the unobtainable (like the straightlaced-virgin-seduction-by-an-overpowering-male fantasy for hetero guys); the most dismal is that it IS based on insecurity and self-loathing.

The article’s examples for its “thesis” are mostly weird, but I do think (mostly younger) straight guys are less worried about making sure they project a rigidly, stereotypically “real man” front, which I guess in a way can be interpreted as acting “more gay”. A lesbian friend, her wife and I got together recently and the discussion turned to the son of a mutual friend (we’re all in our 50’s) My friend was adamant that he had to be gay, based on externals (clothes, mannerisms, etc) that would have been considered “conclusive” 30 years ago, but which I (and her wife) definitely consider outdated now. “You just can’t tell any more by stuff like that,” we tried to convince her, but she was firm. Pink shirt, loose-wristed gestures, giggly laugh, etc–can only mean one thing!

>>7644002
it's a numale

educate yourself

>>7651813
thats not a numale, thats a faggot. numales are mainly weak nerds who are straight (for the most part)

>>7651810
>>I guess it’s the delusional perspective that he can’t get some STRAIGHT GUY
>>(never mind that straight men aren’t attracted to the same sex,

I had a friend like that, always complaining and getting upset…
“I don’t want a gay guy I want a real (straight) man”.
One day I had enough and told him, “a real straight man wants a real
woman, you are not a woman, and you are standing in a gay bar.

I am all for people having fantasies, but keep them in your mind, don’t translate
them in to everyday reality, otherwise you got schizophrenia.

And yes who cares about straight guys………….

........because all straight men are manly man. Because only gay man can be feminine ? Straight men cannot be fem. Ok so the majority of gay men are flaming but what about the very fee masculine gay men ?

He isn't what surprises me. Its the woman that chose to lay up with him. I couldn't imagine what that must look like during sex time or what she's turned in by. The women I know would have caught into his manners and quickly moved on.

>>7647841
this is also blanchard's theory as to why latinas are massively overrepresented amongst straight, gender-conforming trans women who transition in their 20s or younger
hispanic masculinity means that if you're naturally a faggot, you either try and be a straight guy while still being flaming or you suck it up and become a chick

>>7651819
>I don't want a gay guy I want a real (straight) man
Maybe he just meant he wants a gay guy untainted by faggotry. "Straight-acting", if you will.
Which I can understand, I am extremely turned off by feminine men and overcompensating masculine ones. It's hard to find a middle point because you're looking for someone who doesn't stand out amidst a sea of flaming, loud people, precisely because he doesn't stand out.