>preference for asian/white/black/latin women normal >preference

society-wise sure, but i don't think most individuals are at ease if they are under the impression they're only liked for a certain asset. trans girls are probably hypersensitive to the fact because they are more familiar with being dehumanized? also it maybe more has to do with how someone comes across with these preferences. "youve got a nice ass" versus "i've always wanted to try it with a trans girl" is very different, and i've seen a lot of pretty cringy screenshots. idk, if you're dating someone you want to feel like there's substance there, and both cis and trans girls (and guys) might feel insecure if you come across fixated on one particular thing (especially if they have a complicated relationship w this thing) above all else. preferences are fine but you gotta make sure you don't come across like they're fetish fulfillment. im a cis girl tho so idfk

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>>7166377
>preference for asian women
>preference for small breasts
>normal
wew I wish

if a girl is extremely insecure about her breasts or ass or any other aspect of her appearance, to the point where she would remove it in an instant or even pay thousands of dollars to do so, and yet you obviously only hit on her because of that specific trait, going out of your way to point it out whenever possible, would that not also be kind of shitty?

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>>7166377
>preference for dominant women
No, that's gayer than being gay.

>>7166779
>>7166868
In being worried about the potential shallowness of a partner, you yourselves are shallow.

Attraction forms the basis of a relationship.

You see someone that interests you. This causes the desire to get to know them. Getting to know them builds a bond of trust, love, and friendship, or shows the relationship to be incompatible. Writing a potential partner off because they find something attractive in you that you don't is throwing away huge potential for happiness.

>>7166903
i kinda get where you're coming from, and i agree with attraction being a start off point, but you can't go into anything serious without some degree of wariness. People have standards for what they want a future relationship to be like, so they also have red flags for behavior that is at odds with this. does this make the playing field more difficult for those who make social + conversational blunders? yeah, but i don't know if there's a real solution for this, people often make snap judgements to save themselves time and from possible grief