I have been lurking on here for a few years and so forth but I make a thread today to say that I hate being gay, I see the straight people, they get to have kids, kids of their own, while I'm bent as a stick and it hurts so much, I'd go to r9k but they will just try to bant me out of existance,
I don't know what I should do ever since I was a teen I wanted a family, I'm 32 now and I work in construction and all I want is a family and kids of my own blood, so don't tell me to adopt because it wouldn't be the same, it would be babysitting anothers kid for a long period
>>7050137
Adopt fucking kids then and stop them going to trash in foster homes
>>7050137
>gay people can't have kids
You dumb, son? It's called surrogacy.
>>7050137
Does someone have tl;dr version of adoption vs fostering?
>>7050222
Adopt a kid who doesn't have a hone instead of paying money to have some bitch carry your shit genes around for 9 months.
>>7050228
>have some bitch carry your shit genes around for 9 months
i lol'd, but adoption isn't cheap either. you still have to pay for it, it's fostering where you get paid
>>7050137
The common options are surrogacy and adoption.
Personally I'm repulsed by the idea of surrogacy, it just seems wrong.
Then there are some creative ones, like finding a lesbian who is in your exact same situation. You don't live together, but you share the custody of the kids.
>>7050137
>find lesbian couple wanting blood children
>get both pregnant
>split the spoils, one kid each
>switch so your bf goes next, same deal
>congrats you have two kids, each has one of your genes
Assuming you've got good enough genetics to sell yourself to a couple this way. Could work with a single woman as well, but waiting time doubles if she wants to keep the first kid.
>>7050137
>I'm 32 and I work in construction and all I want is a family
I would marry the shit out of you...
>>7050137
if you aren't disgusted by pussy, find an ftm bf who is willing to suffer for nine months for genetic children. theyre really rare but they exist