>be me
>bi fag living with homophobe parents
>in ldr with trans girl, we'll call her C
>been dating her for almost two years now, parents still think she's my boyfriend
>homophobe parents haven't caught on cause they think i'm straight
>be around four months ago
>casually mention once that C went to a pride parade to my mum
>"what, is he queer?"
>"he's bi"
>mum shuns me almost entirely for three days
>only starts talking to me again since I offered to pick up youngest brother from school
>be now
>bored, scrolling through instagram
>i'm normie trash, kill me
>see post about 'coming out day' on october 11th
>probably tumblr bullshit
>but i've been in the closet longer than the fucking narnians so i need some excuse or i'll never come out
TL;DR - Parents are homophobes, considering coming out tomorrow. Advice? I'll answer any questions anyone wants to know too.
Unless you feel for your personal safety or financial security, do it.
1) Fuck anyone that would reject you for some silly bullshit
2) Visibility IS important, lots of people 'change their minds' about gay shit when one of their kids turns out to be gay. Happens all the time.
3) Fuck straight people, do all you can to annoy them
>>7037616
They're not homophobes in the superstrict "YOU'RE GOING TO HELL, FAGGIT!" sense, more so just the "eww, gay people" sense.
They wouldn't say anything outside the house, basically.
I don't think they'd kick me out, just might make things a bit awkward for me and gf
>>7037614
Gotta go for about twenty minutes, but if there's any questions and the thread hasn't 404'd when I get back, I'll answer whatever.
>October 11 is national coming out day
>>7037870
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