ITT: Coming Out

youre lucky op i hope youre happy

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>Realized i was trans around 14
>cried a lot because i knew I'd never be accepted
>idiotic christian family
>finally come out to a friend, accepting.
>friend tells mother (i requested for them to do so)
>"it's just a phase"
>repress until 18 and get on mones
>family outcasts me

Christians are suffering

>>7013526

OP here. I'm from a Catholic family and I have some Muslim relatives. No one cares about my gender. The only people who complained were my Baptist friends.

>realize around 13
>commit to trans at 14
>unable to come out
>repress for a year
>throw all my clothes out, cut my hair, don't shave
>feel like shit
>drop out if highschool
>nearly kill myself at 16 (death via train)
>wondering why the fucj I can't cry
>go to therapist at 17 who tells me about IC clinic nearby
>book appointment for 2 months after my 18 birthday
>come out to my mom
>"why can't you just be gay"
>already dislike her because of childhood
>abusive boyfriends, drug abuse, never lived in one place for more than long enough to start making good friends
>appointment comes
>mones are cheap af
>mom is giving me bullshit asking for me to start paying the rent every month
>fuck that
>move out
>happy and comfy 7mo HRT with a bf and don't have to deal with crazy

>>7013555
I was baptist, sadly.
I figured catholics would've been more harsh.

>>7013603

I went to a Baptist k-12 school in middle school and early high school. It was weird. They prayed twice a day, the books were full of BS like explaining that being gay is bad, dinosaurs lived with humans, etc, and they were heavily biblethumpy. I dropped out because I doubt they would have let me wear the male uniform.

>>7013624

Forgot the second half of my post.

In contrast, most Catholics I know are pretty casual in their beliefs. My family believes in ghosts, celebrates Halloween (like most Christians; my Baptist friends didn't), and like hearing about human ancestors and evolution.

>back at the dorm room at 11pm yesterday
>leftover pizza from the date with a guy in my hand in a box
>two of the roommates are back
>"Hey. Oh nice, where is the pizza from?"
>"From the restaurant next to the main building of the uni"
>"Why were you there? Oh, you were with a girl right?" "Or guy...?" and smiles
>"Uhm..."
>10 second silence
>"Whatever, if you bring a girl up you do whatever you want just be quiet if we sleep"
>"What would your reaction be if I brought a guy here?"
>"Eh, it's okay. Wouldn't tell about it to anyone."
Did I come out or did I miss something? It just went way too smooth. Like... so smooth it even bothers me.

>>7013555
From a Catholic family myself
>come out at 17 as lesbian
>thrown out of the house
>never reconciled with family
>25 years later stopped trying

>>7013496
>Knew I was trans from a young age
>Didn't know the word "trans" because born in early 90s
>Ran to my mom crying when first signs of puberty began, told her I "dont want to be like dad", "I want to be a girl". She explains this isn't possible
>Google for trans stuff with my limited vocabulary when I'm like 12, find nothing but hons and giant black guys in drag on Jerry Springer
>Gave up and accepted that there is no way to become a girl
>Go through puberty in misery, disgusted by my body, go into depression
>Begin to be attracted to boys, I repress that too
>Finally learn that medical transitioning is a thing around the time I graduate high school
>Looked at myself, realized that puberty had already taken its toll, "I'm happy for the younger kids that they get to do this, but it's too late for me", I said
>Dysphoria and depression is getting so bad I am suicidal
>Finally snap after college and realize I can't repress it anymore
>Tell mom, completely accepting
>Tell dad, brother, and sister, all accepting
>All friends and extended family accepting
>Go to gender therapist, she refers me to an IC clinic after seeing her for a month or so
>Finally start HRT
>6 feet tall, 25 years old, Scandinavian genetics

Fucking kill me. Why couldn't I have been born 10 years later?

>>7014242
>6 feet tall, 25 years old, Scandinavian genetics
None of those things matter. Your face and in particular your chin and jaw line does.

>>7014377
Well I actually do have FFS coming up next month. I've only been on HRT for 8 months, but I knew there was no point in waiting since my problems are with bone, which HRT won't fix.

Wish me luck!

>>7014242
Because there is a god and he's a huge asshole who just wants us to suffer

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>knew i liked guys when by the time i was 10
>was told by my mom since i was very young that she would still love me, but a lot of people would hate me if i was gay
>keep it hidden
>become ashamed of it
>try for years to change it
>sort of come to accept it by the time i'm 16 but still try and deny it
>completely accept that it's not changing when i'm 17
>skip ahead to earlier this year
>meet a guy on /lgbt/ in one of the chart threads and become friends
>says his parents didn't react too well to him coming out
>feel bad because i know my mom wouldn't care and i'm still not out yet
>skip forward a few weeks
>right after shooting in Orlando
>tells me again the night after that she wouldn't care if i was gay
>smile and nod, don't say anything
>GoddamnIt.mp4
>next night
>bring up the conversation again
>nervous as fuck
>casually say "you know i'm bisexual right"
>no i thought you were gay
>well i'm attracted to girls but i probably won't be in a relationship with one
>whatever, as long as you're happy i don't care

>MFW

My parents always knew. I just hated myself for years because of where I grew up.

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>Realize I'm a fag around 14
>Come out to friends, most don't give a shit
>Don't really become open talking about it until a few years later
>Don't tell family
>Get a bf at 17
>Mother catches us laying together holding each other one night
>She says she doesn't care what we do
>But she says she'll buy a lock for my door soon to prevent stuff like that happening again
Breddy gud desu

>>7016117
Arent you disqualified from posting if it was a happy story?

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>realize im trans at 14
>repress it until im 18
>super christian family so cant tell them
>start attempting to make myself look more fem
>at 19 finally tell parents
>say im mentally ill, possessed by a demon, etc
>not allowed to transition while living with them

I'm currently looking for a job so I can move out

>>7016295
I hope 1 day u will qt

me: "r u gay?"
frend: "no u"
me: "shit"

>>7013496
>estranged father I see every other year finds out I am gay on my 20 something-th birthday, because the sushi chef recognized me then invited me to come back to the cheap sushi place another time with my boyfriend.
>estranged dad leaves without saying anything, to me after I confirm that the chef had the right of it.
>he then outs me behind my back to the rest of my social conservative family with complaints that my mother who raised me alone while paying for his alimony "made me gay."
>I know this because yesterday I got a call from my extremely Catholic nonagenarian grandmother asking me why I "chose to be a queer?"

If my father were to drop dead today I'd feel nothing. That's probably not healthy.

>be 20
>feeling really good and non-dysphoric
>wanna come out to parents about my upcoming transition
>suddenly go onto /lgbt/
>realize this is stupid and no one will use my pronouns
>backpedal on coming out

Haha.. I'm gonna write a coming out letter anyway but probably burn it or flush it down the toilet.

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>be 18
>decide to come out as bi
>too much of an aspie to tell parents in person
>write long post on social media
>hurt parents' feelings
>mfw

>>7013691
Anon, you came out, it just wasn't a big deal to them
>acceptance

>>7018498
if its any consolation, I kinda feel the same too

>>7013691
>so smooth it even bothers me.
prepare to be unfriended and/or stabbed by your roommate for being a fag.

>>7018845
After all the jokes and fucking around they could've thought I was just making shit up as a joke. I mean, from guys I was browsing /b/ rekt threads and hiddenlol a day before I would expect some reaction at least
>>7018907
Nah, it's been days, we still talk a lot and I just took a shower next to one of them. They don't really seem to give a fuck.

>>7018985
>They don't really seem to give a fuck.
>seem
That'll be your fatal mistake.
When they'll lead you down an alley and suddenly start violently stabbing you while you beg for help and mercy, you'll suddenly remember my post and you'll think "oh yeah that guy told me this would totally happen. Maybe I shouldn't be so surprised that this is happening. Also I'm bleeding a lot."

My mom pretty much just said that she'd be disappointed if I were her only child, but since she has five other kids, she doesn't give a fuck about what I do.

It's a bit blunt, but it makes sense.

My siblings were all very cool with it. My oldest sister seemed to take it kind of weird though.
>Y-you're so brave.
>Call me if you need to talk I'm always here for you.
>I love you. You know that I love you, right?
Not sure what to make of it, but she cooled off as time went on.

>>7016295
good luck, younger me!

>pretty much the same except I repressed longer
>got "deluded" and "letting the devil speak through you"
at least I'm self-medding, almost legit, parents aren't super perceptive

>>7019275
Nice lolpost 7/10 would read it again. To be fair, the whole shit already happened with 2 other people a year ago and they were dumb enough to STILL think I'm straight. That after I literally asked the guy when we were drunk if he's gay and wanna fuck, or there was the other gay guy from class in middle school who reposted a shitton of gay porn on his public tumblr where everybody saw it, but 2 of my classmates were certain that he's straight, so I don't know what to expect from people anymore. A lot of people just close the door to their heads when it comes to buttfuckery

>>7019398
>Nice lolpost 7/10 would read it again.
>you thought I was lolposting
>but in reality
>I wasn't lolposting
>I was serious

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>>7013496
>16
>mom calls
>"hey anon what do you want me to pick up for dinner?"
>"uh, hey mom, you know i'm gay right"
>"okay, who fucking cares what do you want"
>tells everyone in my direct family and everyone has about the same reaction
>mfw

>Post your coming out stories.
>Hard mode: be black

>mom comes to visit from out of state
>pretty sure she'll be cool with it it's the vietnam vet dad I'm more worried about
>hey mom I have something really serious to tell you
>'are you pregnant'
>......no-
>'are you getting a sex change?'
>laughs as though she knows better
>yes mom I want to get a sex change

took five years to finally get her around to the idea. and the actual sex change. she still just thinks I'm bipolar deep down.

>>7018498
Sorry to hear that. Heard your story when you posted it the other day. My dad can be an asshole too. Conspiracy theorist.

>Natural low BP and self medding on spiro
>Stand up too fast one day and blackout
>Smash head on floor
>Family calls an ambulance and they search my room for illegal drugs
>Finds my HRT stash
And that's how I came out.

>>7021768
>Be me
>Be black
>Come out to parents as gay
>Tell me to leave the hut and never come back
>Wandering around thinking what I'm going to do for food
>Get eaten by a lion

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>mum invites me to hers for dinner last monday
>decide I will tell her after dinner
>eating her lovingly cooked meal and chatting with her
>topic turns to parenting and how children turn out
>mum says something like “all you can do is try your best to make sure your children turn out ok”
>feeling the feels really bad, try to hold it all in
>start crying with food in my moth
>”what’s wrong anon?”
>”its nothing T_T” trying to swallow the food, but its all getting blocked, start gaging with my mouth closed
>”oh im sorry is my cooking bad? Im sorry”
>”NO mum its not you T_T” I run out of the kitchen to the couch where I had stashed pocket tissues
>”whats wrong Anon? tell me. Are you in trouble? Did I say something that upset you?”
>”no mum its not you T_T Its me… I have gender dysphoria”
>mum cries and hugs me “oh anon im sorry T_T”
>”no mum, its not your fault T_T”

I cried on the couch while talking to her about it for half an hour, I went through my pack of pocket tissues in seconds and she brought me more, filled a bucket full of used tissues which was pretty funny (took pic for the memories)

I’m just over 1 month into hrt so super emotional right now

>>7021768

I'm OP and I am black. It's not hard at all.

better stories Better Stories! BETTER STORIES!!!

>>7013496
>Attempt to overdose on sleeping pills (honestly should've just used my dad's gun)
>Fail, wake up in the hospital
>In pysch ward for months, talk to therapists daily
>One day i let it slip the reason I tried to an hero was that i hated my body and wished i was born a girl
>Therapist decides that that's something I need to tell my parents, constantly pushes me to come out
>Family visits me one weekend, keep trying to come out, can't make myself do it
>Cry all night
>Eventually my mother comes to me, wraps her arm around me, asks why i did it
>Break down, tell her everything
>She cries, I cry, dad cries.
So yea. Fun times.

>>7013496

> be mid 20
> gone through a ton of shit
>start wondering if I'm trans
>come out to mom, she gets super worried and we discuss it (but in a cool way)
>decide to just stop because I can see that its still worrying her

Welp.

>>7013496
>come out as lesbian at age 11ish through sitting down to mum and talking about it while being terrified, very accepted
>steadily become more androgynous over time, cutting hair short, buying the most androgynous female clothing possible and incorporating more and more items from the men's section, on the internet starting to alternately refer to myself as 'genderfluid' or ftm, was pretty tomboyish and dysphoric as a child
>age 13, sitting in car with mum
>"anon, are you trans?"
>"y-yes"

>Be me
>repressed since childhood because of family
>came out 4 days ago
>everything feels so confusing and Im so lost

But this is the freest I've ever felt in my 30 years of life.

I want a boyfriend now. :3

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>play football, pretending to be a boy
>go to prom wishing I could wear a dress
>graduate high school and buy some dildos
>at my graduation tell my parents im very gay
>dad kills himself

>>7025974
Go get one anon :) i wish i was as free as you are

>>7025986
Thank you

I've read your stories in lgbt, and it has helped me come out finally. So thanks to you guys.

>Be me
>Transgender.exe at age 8
>repress because sexist upbringing makes me think boys are superior
>comically he-man with masculinity
>I mean like martial arts, don't goto doctors, too good too smart too cool for other people
>still want to commit suicide
>get engaged
>fiance figures out im crazy
>break up so bad I stop university
> come out to my father
>"you are killing my son"
>fastforward two months later
>"actually, im over it. you get pronouns when you pass"

Not bad actually.

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>>7030881
>"You get pronouns when you pass"
>tfw passing and my family "corrects" people who address me with female pronouns (I'm mtf) whenever we're out in public together

Christ. I only see them a few times per year but it's annoying as hell every time.

>Be me
>Mom I am fag
>no

>>7013496
> mom let me stab my ass with testosterone injections, i am tranny
>i knew, go ahead
>cool

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>>7031844
why tho

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>be 2013, 20 turning 21
>"mom i want 2 be ggirl"
>"ok"
>get hrt a week or so after my 21st birthday
>~3 years later
>still look like a man
>had my dong cut off 6 months ago
>still doomed to be a hon because i started too late
>mom keeps hugboxing me

>>7031844
Goodbye mom and dad, then.
Not even a tranny and I wouldn't stand for that shit for a second.

>>7021997
Stories?

>tfw 24 and won't come out until I find a qt bf to support me
>Tfw everyone asks if I'm gay and it hurts denying it

>>7014113
>42-year-old on 4chan.

Whoa.

>circa age 13
Nobody should have to fucking use the word circa unless we are talking about roughly dated historical events, not your faggot life story Jesus fuck why do people use academic language for no fucking reason Jesus fucking Christ

>>7037539
R I O T

I kind of just realized my parents don't really support me
I came out as trans about a year and a half ago, and they had no idea what it was and we're pretty sure that transitioning was silly and not a good idea
I went to a gender specialist and told them everything
The therapist tries to explain to my parents that I'm not crazy and that I need to transition
They let me take hrt because they at least acknowledge that it helps me, but refuse to acknowledge that it bothers me every time they call me "he" or "son" even though I've specifically told them
They keep encouraging me to never come out and just stick with androgynous fashion choices because "our friends and relatives will never understand"

>>7040126
Why are you getting mad about some fucking sperg using a word they just learned to try and sound smart. Ignore it and move on.

>>7013496
>Be 3-4 tell my grandmom I want to wear my hair long and a girl bathing suit.
>Grandmother tells me this is wrong, that I am a sinner and that I will go to hell.
>Be 11
> Trying on makeup and wearing one of my mom's dresses (no sisters)
>Hear car pull into the driveway
>Put everything away
>Cat eyes
>Mom tells me thpeople like me are regularly killed and thrown into ditches
>Be adult
>Haven't talked to parents in 2 years
>Start talking to parents again
>One week on hormones
>Have lunch
>Mom asks for phone to take pic of me and dad
>mom takes pic and browses pics
>A single tear drops from her eye
>Sitting at apartment in yoga pants and trying on makeup
>The apartment is my late mother's mom
>Rocking out to Grimes
>Dad comes in
>Sees me, starts screaming
>Dad flies into a rage and starts throwing my makeup and tearing my clothing from my closet.
>Leave apartment
>Come back later that night
>Change locks, change phone number, haven't spoken to mom and dad since then

I don't think I'm ever coming out to them, but I think they suspect something. :3

>>7041649
>but I think they suspect something. :3
Nah you're totally good still.

>>7039269
if everyone asks you then you might as well come out people are already on to you you might as well own it

>>7022450
Holy shit stop doing emojis

>>7022450
read the line "trying to swallow the food" as:

>I was trying to swallow the load

Best laugh all day.

>>7031844
They are just leading you on. They don't believe in your cognitive abilities. If they don't accept you now they never will. And forcing randos to misgender you? It's time to leave them behind.

>>7042558

>Realized at 14
>Came out to parents at 15, mom was a huge bitch during this time and kept me out of HRT until 18
Meh.

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>be me, 19
>bisexual, but more interested in girls
>mom and I talking in the car on the way home
>mom suddenly brings up my failed relationships, asks if I'm gay/bi
>fuckmylife.jpg
>sit in passenger seat awkwardly for a few seconds
>"Yesss...no...maybe??"
>spaghetti spills out of my pockets as I nervously look at my mom with an awkward smile
>mom says it's ok and fully supports me

Everything went better than I expected, but I only came out because she caught me off guard.

My dad doesn't know yet but I know he wouldn't mind, both of my parents are laid back and just want the best for us.

>>7031844
my mom has corrected other people both ways before.

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>hey mum, I'm into men and women, infact gender doesn't bother me at all so don't be surprised if I bring home a guy
>"I wouldn't be surprised"

>be me age 20
>sitting at dinner with dad and step mum
> "hey guys, you know how I was hanging out with a friend today? It was actually a date.."
> "oh ok.. Cool. Is she nice?"

Mum was a bit different, I sent her a long ass text and she blew me off because my brother was having a hissy fit. Then she basically just told me that she didn't care. She has been moving further and further to the right though and I wouldn't be surprised if she took back her support.

>Realize I'm trans at 19 (University)
>everythinginmychildhoodnowmakessense.jpeg
>research trans stuff all day everyday and stop going to class
>Drop out
>tell a friend that I'm trans on new years and he tells me that he is a pedophile.
>one year later, come out to friends and parents.
>mom is upset that she never knew
>"you were such a normal boy, I mean, you played VIDEOGAMES"
>all friends abandon me without telling me
>begin transition at 21
>7 months after get "lady'd" by a customer at work
>tears.webm

Since then, I've had my ups and downs, but coming out was the best thing I ever did.

>>7013590
I'm happy for you anon! <3

>>7013496
>realise i'm into girls and not boys around 14
>repress it for 3 years and not tell anyone
>meet qt girl, date, friends start to catch on
>no one cares, "is that your gf anon?"
>bitch cheats on me so i'm upset tell my mum in hopes she'll give me advice
>"i had already suspected something was going on between you two" and she's supportive and doesn't care
>neither does daddio


literally not had a single hostile comment about my sexuality ever, not once from anyone

>>7045449
A REAL WOMAN DOESNT PLAY ***VIDEO GAMES***

>>7025983
Literally burst out laughing

>>7013496
I shared a house with a lad. Gay as Christmas. I learned his brother was gay and came out to the family years before. My bud was under pressure to continue the family name but that would never happen.
Lost touch, my exgf told me he finally has a bf, best lad and deserves to be happy finally but, still hasn't told mother and father.
They'll be destroyed.
What do you do here

>>7025953
>genderfluid
>>>/tumblr/

>>7045588
>on LGBT board for LGBT people.
>Basically say that Genderfuild is a made up tumblr label.
Are you serious?

>>7045623
It's a redundant label.

You can easily define your sexual preferences with LGBT, no one cares how you identify

>>7013526
>>"it's just a phase"
Fuck this shit, though. Even accepting parents pull this crap instead of sending you to a psych who can confirm if it actually is a phase or not.

>be a depressed NEET college-dropout-for-two years tranny
>hiding all the above from parents
>eventually mother finds out I'm a NEET
>crying ensues, asks me why
>"whatever, nothing to lose at this point"
>come out as a tranny
>she assures she'll love me no matter what, but thinks it must be just a phase
>she also has me go to college once again
>I can see that the trans stuff hurts her, so over time stop bringing it up
>She goes back to calling me her son all the time, acts like I never came out to her
>Start self-medding a few months later
4.5 months on HRT now, gonna be a bit awkward to come out to her again.

Came out to my mom for the second time yesterday. the first time I came out was over a year ago I came out by bringing her to my therapist to help her understand. She didn't understand it at all and basically assumed I have been brainwashed by one of my friends so they can manipulate me and having gay sex with them (I should note this friend is a straight cis guy). And said it was possible for me to be trans because I wasn't a flaming faggot through my childhood. My dad was no better and basically told me I was going to ruin my life and that no one will ever love me

Now back to yesterday
This time I decide to write my mom a letter and send it to her through a series of text messages> I basically poured my heart out into it tried to explain as best I could what dysphoria feels like why I need to transition, what repression is like for me why I wouldn't act femininely as a kid ect, ect...

>She calls a few hours later
>ARE YOU HAVING SEX WITH FRIEND?!?!
>TheFuck.gif
I asked did you read what was in those messages?
>No that's too easy you need to prove this

some more talking points
>We love and support you
>It's a phase
>Nothing about you is girlish
>you've been a guy throughout life
>you can never present as a female around your father
>Don't use the health insurance for this
>This is going to ruin your life
>You have no symptoms of this thing
>No matter what you do you will always look like a man
>You don't act female in any way, you can pretend but deep down you will always be a man
>Wait til you're 25 since you can't know how you really feel until you're in the real world
> Any friend you make after you do this will only treat you as a token to make themselves feel progressive
>You'll never be able to get a job
>How can this be you if you don't only like guys
>You should just be gay on it's own
>The only way yo could truly disappoint me is if you voted for Hillary

cont...

>>7045988
The call just continued with my insecurities being attacked by my mom, my mom said what I'm doing is the ultimate insult to my father by wanting to give up my masculinity
>No matter what I do I will be a fake you will always look like a man no matter what you do
>You are going to regret this
>Do you like men?
>Do you like men?
>Do you like men?
I just didn't answer because even though I'm bi I lean a lot stronger towards girls and hrt hasn't really changed that

She basically thinks I'm ruining my life and wants no part of it, but she thinks since she's not throwing me off a building like ISIS would she's supportive.

>>7046018
I feel what you're mom says. That's how I kinda feel about myself. Went to my GP today, never been to this guy and he looked at me skeptically when I claimed to be trans because I didn't know forever. Hope when I see a psych they can help me feel normal. I feel like I go back and forth with hrt only because I enjoy being low maintenance. Told my neighbors' mom the other day after I grabbed her an eight ball and we did a few lines. I hope you legbutts are feeling alright today I feel like doo-doo RN.

>>7025983
i laughed

Came out as gay to a new friend I have. She still doesn't know I am a tranny yet just thinks I am gay but little steps I guess.

>>7018736
>come out as bi
No need to be an attention seeker, anon

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>realize i'm trans on some level at 18
>"it'll never work, and besides i don't hate myself that much, i can cope"
>hit the gym for the next few years, get really buff and just pour myself into work
>fast forward to 22. really depressed, smoking weed every day and doing hallucinogens every other week. quit my job and eventually try to commit suicide and fail. least i lost all my gains from working out
>finally realize how much dysphoria is fueling my depression and decide to transition
>come out as trans and lose most of my family and half of my friends

i should've just fucking done it at 18 but i think i would've lost my parents if i had come out then, they've gotten much more socially liberal.

lost a lot of people around it me but honestly i don't care that much. i pass and my depression's mostly gone and once i get SRS it'll be easy to stealth. i already have friends who have no idea and it's fucking amazing. i like the dick so stealth is practically required anyway

if you have the cash and you can pass go for it. it's like a dream

>>7045449
>he tells me that he is a pedophile
This part of the story is the most interesting

Whatever happened and why did he tell you?

>>7047517
Turns out sometimes you need to come out as bi. I go home from uni every 2 weeks, but now a day later every time and they think it's because I have a girlfriend, but in reality it's a guy.
If you need to come out why lie about it?
Also the whole point of coming out is becoming more comfortable around people, what the flying fuck is the difference between a closet gay friend just getting a bf out of the blue or a bi guy doing the same? There's virtually no difference between gay and bi when you come out.

>>7047528
height/weight? pic of face?

Planning how to go about this desu, haven't done it yet:
>parents are constantly asking me if I'm a lesbian
>like every month
>"no mom. Still not lesbian."
>"no mom, still like guys."
>mom always trying to hook me up with buff manly hairy guys from work (my age) but Im not into that
>she assumes that since I'm into feminine guys I must be a repressed lesbian
>keep looking more and more Butch but she thinks it's because I'm a big ol' lesbian.

Next time she brings it up I'll give her, "No, I'm not a lesbian. I am gay though. And also a man. Please stop calling me (my name)."

Going to dinner with the senpai this weekend, we'll see how it goes. They know I'm super liberal and I've changed the pronouns on my Facebook and added my "guy" name in place of my birth name so I really don't know how this is going to be a surprise, but I'm sure she won't have seen it coming anyway.

>>7013526
>hear "its just a phase" so many times you convince yourself that it is

>>7022435
Y'all know that homosexuality isn't accepted in 99% of Africa and the Carribean right?

>>7047553
Yeah, that's the most interesting part there, what the hell happened there?

>realize I like tits at age 12
>"silly me. I'm not gay because I don't like vagina"
>repress gay feelings for years
>age 15 I join Tumblr
>start identifying as an agender aromantic pansexual
>come out to my parents as agender
>"Anon what the hell are you talking about"
>age 18 I finally come to my senses, delete my Tumblr account, and live on as a butch lesbian

I'm not gonna bother re-coming out after that first disaster. My mom knows I'm lgbt-something and my family doesn't really care.

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>>7013496
>Come out to friends junior year of highschool, things going well
>A CS teacher who's my mentor (still close friends with him!) gives me a copy of a guide to looking for LGBT friendly colleges
>Sweet!
>Leave it on my desk at home
>Mom finds it
>"Are you transgender?"
>"Uh, I'm gay."
>"Ohhhhhh."

>>7013496
>changed the pronouns on my Facebook and added my "guy" name in place of my birth name
>on Facebook
transtrender alert

>coming out
Why hasn't this meme died yet?

>>7051667
>>7049958
meant to reply to this post, obviously

>>7013496
I was 16 standing in the girl's locker room in high school when it finally dawned on me that I am bisexual and prefer women

If the context is familiar it's because I posted another bit from this night
>event I won't name, concert and all kinds of stuff at the university I'm in
>a bit drunk, wearing some weird mickey mouse ears
>the girl I met there and I start a bit of a conversation again
>"If you are wearing these ears to get the girls' attention, it's working"
Yeah, by then I realized mild, trace-amount furfaggotry always attracts attention in whatever form
>"Nah, but rather I want guys to pay attention. And it's working too."
>"Wait, are you... like 'that'?"
>"Yeah, I'm bi"
>"Hey, me too!"
>talking about random shit, it's kinda good when you can talk with a girl both about dicks and boobs, that's like a new level of freedom
>friend comes along
>"Heeey, what are you two laughing at that much?"
>both of us: "eh nothing, nothing, really, just random... stuff"
>"No, really, what's so funny"
>me: "Two fags just met each other and it's us"
>starts to slowly raise the bottle and drinks
>"Oh. Cool."
Two reactions, none of which I expected.

Did anyone else consider they might be trans, tell themselves they weren't, then wish they were just so they could transition and get it over with?

>>7052020
Basically what I did for a while.

>>7051667
I've been going by that name for almost 10 years to everyone except my family. I started out being mistaken for a guy so often on the internet and then became one with my online that i stopped protesting... And then eventually realozed how much more comfortable that was for me. I was kind of just hoping ma would ask about it so I wouldn't have to bring it up myself. If I say "mom I need to talk to you," shed just ask if I'd gotten pregnant or something.

>I stopped responding to my birth name by accident because it became so weird to hear it
>mom just calls me "YO" now because its the only way I'll respond

I just came out as trans to my /b/tard robot friend and he actually took it really well and was really supportive and asked a bunch of questions to try to understand me better.

I'm thoroughly impressed with him.

I also kind of feel bad because he definitely has a crush on me "because he likes girls with short hair" and he likes my personality, but he's your typical "no homo, bro" soni think I sort of crushed his heart a little in the process.

He's the firtts person IRL I've come out to and I feel really good about going through with telling everyone else now.

>>7045449
I'm not sure what part your friend being a pedophile had to do with the story?

>>7031844
>>7037546
>>7043419

This is annoying but it's not a reason to move further away from your parents. Also they'll probably stop being so annoying over time. Just my thoughts, personally, seems a little too destructive these other people's advice.

>>7060198
It's still "coming out" about something, even if it isn't a sexuality they could morally act on.

>be gay
>moving out of house to go to college
>Have to tell dad I am gay
>dad takes be to best buy to get a laptop as a going away gift
>tell him I want a mac
>we both start crying

>knew i was trans since i was 13
>didnt know the word, but looked into it more as puberty set it
>realize i am actually trans and get very depressed and fucked up about it for a long time
>nobody knows, dad doesnt believe in lgbt etc
>attempt suicide at 16
>dad found me, ambulance+hospitalized, went to psych hospital for a lil bit, etc
>psych hospital wrote it off as "transgender issues"
>suicide attempt finally convinced dad it wasnt a phase, miraculously he was MUCH less lgbtphobic after this
>he supports me
>he helps me start HRT at 17
>he is the best dad
>tfw my "coming out" was a suicide attempt & i feel selfish and regret it to this day for doing that to my family
>have it better than ever now tho, cant complain

My mom was just a basic ass coming out(with the exception of her being so excited about being a mother to a queer child she just had to out me to several friends and neighbors and family members) but my coming out to my dad was pretty good:
>overdose
>fun trip to emergency room
>while I'm in the ER my dad searches my room for more drugs
>finds hrt and girls clothes
>hanging out in the ER, dad shows up
>"son it would have been a lot cooler if I had just found more drugs"
>"well if it makes you feel any better then I'd like you to know there are more drugs in there"
>dad absolutely ransacks my room looking for them and flushes my drugs all down the toilet all because of my snarky comment
>let's me keep my my hrt though

>Live in South Florida
>Sitting with dad in the living room
>Watching football
>Won't shut up about dolphins
>The dolphins have sucked for over a decade
>Dad, I have something to tell you
>I'm a patriots fan
>He understands
>Tells me I can be with anyone I want because I'll always be a fag in his eyes
>Tell him I actually am Bisexual
>He's quiet for a while
>We never talk about my relationships anymore