/bi-gen/ - Bisexual General Discussion

>>6998233
1) depends on what exploits they have done
2) depends on what kind of partners they've had
3) relative to that partners age, the amount of partners x the age of that person might influence my opinion of that person (eg 16 years old - 50 partners will change my opinion of that person)

>>6998233
>>6998233
I have sucked 18 dicks

>>6998233
I just jerk off while appreciating the good data I just acquired.

>>6998233
Nothing about the total number per se.
And a new partner every year is different from a risky hookup binge.

It's more about how somebody carries themselves and their ability to commit.

>>6998233

I don't really care how many previous partners someone has had. All I'm asking for is honesty so I know where I'm at

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>>6998233
The more partners they had, the better. I don't really want to fuck virgins because i will get bored if they dont even know how to do nazi stuff properly...

FUCK YOU, YOU FUCKING NIGGER KEK, HOW FUCKING DARE YOU ASSOCIATE US WITH FUCKING KEK-SHIT! YOU FUCKING STUPID BITCH! YOU STUPID FUCKING JUSTICE, SELF-RIGHTEOUS FUCKING NIGGER! STOP POSTING THIS SHIT, YOU FUCKING NIGGER! YOU'RE EXPENDABLE GARBAGE, YOU STUIPD FUCK.

Yo, everyone type "OP is a stupid nigger" in the comments. Just type "OP is a stupid nigger" in the comments. Fuck him Fuck him.

>>6998815
lmfao triggered

>>6998815
*spic

>>6998233
>Bis, both in regards to sexual contact and relationships, how much, if at all, does your opinion on someone change based on the number of previous partners they have had?
I don't think I honestly care. I want to know about any STIs; how they got them, what they have etc, but someone's history before they met me is out of my control.
I think someone with a TON of sexual partners (double digits? Especially above 20) would make me uncomfortable though.
>How do you consider this data in regards to your perspective partners?
Idek im a kiss less Virgin bc I only want to kiss and sex people I like a lot or love. But I know not everyone is the same.
>In regards to yourself?
Someone with more partners has more experience, and I wonder about measuring up or not being good enough when compared to a past lover, but that's just my poor self esteem ingeneral I think

>>6998679
Not to say my case is the general one but the loss of my virginity involved mutual strangulation and facesitting.
It was the non-virgin part who was too shit to give a footjob though.

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>>6998233
The more partners somebody had, the less I'm attracted to them.

I have zero interested in a slut/manslut who tainted themselves by fucking tons of people. I am strictly monogamous and only interested in meaningful relationships, so the number of sexual partners shows how realistic it is.
Whores, don't even start bullshitting me that you can be monogamous even if you fucked hundreds. The moment I'd have to leave somewhere you'd suck Tyrone's cock and you know it.

>>6999167
Guaranteed neckbearded fatass permavirgin

>>6999248
>Mad used goods

>>6999273
actually I'm a virgin

>>6998233
Whos the girl?

How do you stop the self-hatred lads? When does self-acceptance come. Wew it's been a long five years and there's no light at the end of this tunnel I've built for myself.

I want to get off this ride. Please tell me it comes in time. Please tell me one day it will click.

>>6999453
What exactly do you dislike? Personally, I never had that. I thought for most of my life I was straight, only to find out later I'm bi. I was kinda confused at first, but it didn't take long for me to accept it.

Personally, I think life's way too short to get hung up about any of this. And the thing is, the sooner you accept this, the sooner you can move on with your life. Because that part of you isn't going to change, ever. Might as well just roll with it and use it to your benefit.

>>6999453
I've never really self-hated, so it might be unrelated to bisexualism.

I need some advice if I should start a long range relationship with this guy I kinda like. I used to casually tease him a lot thought the years. He's a cute crossdresser, I am physically attracted to him and I like his personality as well. He lives in another country, we have a common border but there's still around 1300 km between us.
The problem is that I don't think there's much point to any kind of long-range stuff if you don't wanna eventually move in, so it gotta be big, and I just don't really think I can commit to a relationship with a guy. Being friends with benefits is all good fun, just as casual flirting and shit like that, but I don't think that anything more serious than that will ever work out for me.
However, I like him, and he's made a move on me, and, considering he's been kinda recently dumped by his good-for nothing boyfriend I don't want to hurt him more, especially cause I find him very sexually attractive and a great person altogether, and the only reason that's stopping me is my crazy patriarchal view on relationships and family.
What do you think I should do? Just uphold the status quo? Wait for him to get over his ex and then drop the truth bomb? Just tell him that I wanna stay friends?

>>7003258
Why won't anything more serious with guys work out for you? If it's just your own "crazy" views on relationships, try changing your views to something that isn't crazy and then enjoy your relationship?

Well that was easy, you're welcome.

>>7001062
Internalized biphobia?

>>7003279
I don't think there's much reason to relationships that are fruitless. You can't have children with a guy, so I'll eventually will have to dump him for a girl, which will hurt me cause I'm not heartless, and will hurt him even more.

>>7003316
you can have children with him, they just won't be biologically exclusively made up of your collective genetic material. Which is not particularly important? If you care specifically about that to then you need to change your values into something less dumb. Or wait until technology improves a bit.

>>7003342
kek http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=119924

>>7003342
Let's go for the second.

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>>6998815
Pardon?

>>7003348
That is a tough read. The implication of severe mutation is horrifying.

>>7003342
I enjoy my genes. I am my father's only son, and I have pride in my genealogical lineage. No matter how much the technology would evolve, during my lifetime it will never give a man a working womb, and I believe that only a natural birth can produce a baby free of various psychological defects. I can not change my values because I am defined by those values, and I like myself. The problem here is the conflict between my mind, and my feelings. I suppose that no amounts of advice would really help me here, so thank you for your efforts.

>>7003258
>I need some advice if I should start a long range relationship with this guy I kinda like.
Don't.

>>7003597
natural babies are the ones that get defects, you gotta do embryo selection or other shit if you want to be sure to get healthy ones

>>7003604
health-wise you are correct. Psychology-wise? We're not gonna know until there's gonna be a generation of lab babies running around. I personally prefer the traditional way.
>>7003603
yeah, you are right, I know. It's just hard, I kinda had a crush on him before, but reality is just too harsh.

>>7003645
psychology is part of health, you can select for autism and all kinds of other shit you know

>>7003651
not all of psychological problems are related to physical problems. Like, a perfectly fine kid can get fucked up if he'll see his parents murdered in front of him, you know? In this case I'm mostly concerned with the effects unnatural birth might have on the baby's psyche.

>>7003684
c-section babies do fine, I dunno what you're concerned about.

>>7003707
>Caesarean birth can be seen as a traumatic birth for the baby with immediate and long term consequences
I mean, I'm too lazy to conduct a real research on the matter, so I can't have a scientifically backed up opinion on this topic, but neither do you, anon, or at least according to some random medical article.

>>7003764
yeah, and natural birth can also result in fucked up people with actual real diseases and conditions and shit, that much is completely undeniably true.

I'm not talking vague, ill-described psychological problems. I mean actual fucked up shit that ruins quality of life, some of which c-sections can prevent. The reason most c-sections are employed is because there are complications or some shit that means natural birth is a risky option.

Privileging natural birth is appeal to nature, shit is dumb.

>>7003258
dont

>>7003927
no one wants an illegitimate test tube child you fucking retard. why cant you just accept that some people have a problem with that

>>7003927
If some of my children will have some real diseases, that will beepretty terrible, but they are not a 100% possibility. Having a test tube child, for me, kinda means a 100% chance of psychological problems that are yet unexplred by man, with no tried and trusted solution. That doesn't mean that, if needed, I'm not gonna resort to a c-section. The "needed" part is crucial here, you don't need a test tube to make a child, you need a woman.

>>7004892
I mean, if they want literal fucking retards then sure, go ahead and have your natural babies. Enjoy being a parent to a kid with disabilities.

Bigen?
More like SCUMgen haha.

>>7004925
> kinda means a 100% chance of psychological problems that are yet unexplred by man, with no tried and trusted solution.

There's no evidence suggesting anything like that though, you're legitimately just making it up. For every lead paint, asbestos and cigarette there are a 1000001 technologies that don't have nasty unintended consequences and just do what they were fucking meant to do.

Instead of talking about bullshit psychological problems, just say you're scared of technological development and you're weirded out by new things. It's okay to admit that, and it would be a more honest.

>>7006915
hehe xd really fun joke :) amazing humor :D

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I did something amazingly stupid.
>a few months back I came home and kissed my roommate
>now we've concluded we're bi.
>Total month of awkwardness and acceptance
>started dating
and we've now been dating for 5 months.
It's all secret bc we're both from small villages where people are highly homophobic and racist.
>I'm in a frat
>we've got rules on being with people and eventually had to tell them I was dating someone bc I couldnt keep up with the rules and I didn't want to cheat...
>told them I dated my other room mate who's a girl.
All went well till one of my friends told a girl who does the same sport as her.
She says she isn't very active but knowing her she will talk to her now she knows. I know im in shit lvl 3000 how do I even begin to fix this.

>>7007589
If your girl roomie isn't homophobic you could explain to her the situation and expalin that you are using her as a beard.

>>7007602
Yeah I think thats the only way out but idk if I'm ready yet I'd hate to come out just seems like a lot of fuzz. how far of a stretch is it to just tell her That other girl is in to me and I made up the lie we're dating and shit of luck she knows you... lol

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>>6998679
>if they dont even know how to do nazi stuff properly...
>Nazi stuff
what

How do I safely into (tinder/grindr) hookups guys?

>>7009676
I would like to know this too.

As a bisexual, can you ever be truly happy in a committed relationship with the same sex? Without having too bad urges and cravings for the opposite sex. How do you handle those urges?

>>7012264
I don't think this is related to bisexuality, some people have issues with commitment and/or want to fuck more than one person.

>>7012264
For me it came down to having a relationship that filled my sexual needs. I knew I was bi when I was a teenager but lived the straight life for years. I had urges but always had females for a sexual outlet. When that stopped I let my bi urges free and started going with guys.

>>7012264
I'm in a long term same sex relationship (male), and I was having urges to sleep with women. I realised that even if I was in a relationship with a women I'd have urges to fuck dudes anyway
Porn helps, although if you really need to bang other people then you should definitely talk to your partner about it

>tfw seriously starting to think I might like guys only because of my lack of contact with anyone

help me family

>>7015759
go suck some dick and find out how valid those feelings are

Itfw like cute boys and cute girls and even like some baras :3

>>6998233
I really don't give a shit, as long as they're disease-free

I'm just lookin for some good english mmf porn where can I go?

>>7012264
I feel like my mind went full-on gay since it started. I had nothing to the opposite side since I'm with him. Weird.

Also, should he know about it? It wouldn't necessarily change anything, but still, honesty and trust and stuff

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there's too much salt

I want to have wine with a man that inspires me. Then after a few sessions of this, I want to make him cum incredibly hard in whichever way he wishes.

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>>7022531
True, we arnt perfect but we will be damn close one day.

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>>7022968
that's a sick gif. ever read the book?

also, take a listen. https://youtu.be/3xs5VhmLqfc

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>>7023028
I recently lent out my copy actually, excellent read!

Also good taste in tunes.

i have a question, might sound silly but im a bit confused.
im bi, like men, like women.
i also like mtf.
multiple people told me that because i like mtfs that im a pansexual and not bisexual.
im not really big on all of these terms, and i honestly dont care.

i was just wondering if its ok to tell my partners that im bisexual, its not really a big deal to me but i dont want any misunderstanding. you guys get what im saying?

>>7026070
It's okay to tell you're bisexual, since you're most comfortable with that term, and pansexual is a special snowflake term anyway

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>>7026070
you're probably just mentally ill

it's okay though most on this board are

>>7026070
do what you're more comfortable with: if you prefer to tell your partners you're bi than hiding it, tell them (especially if it's a serious relationship).
But according to various /lbgt/ threads it seems a lot of cisgirls & gays people fall for every bi stereotypes… so you might prudently ask their opinion about this topic before revealing your orientation?

Hey, if I like MTFs, Femboys, and normal cis girls, that would make me bi, right?

>>6998845

I feel the same way. Like I don't really mind how many sexual partners someone has had as long as they don't have any STDs, but if the number is too high I'd feel a lot of pressure on my sexual performance.

>>6999453

It helps to form a circle of like-minded friendships. Having a group of loving people who accept you for who you are is a big help.
But maybe you are dealing with a lot of internalized prejudice? That's a rough thing to work through.

>>7029746

If you're comfortable with that term, yeah.

Ok so Im a bi cis f leaning toward females but I hate my straight side Im thinking about doing a conversion therapy to erase it(not even sure that s a thing)
Being gay is awful, not gonna lie, but I think being straight is even worse. Im disgusted by the way a female has to act with a male, I would rather die than take dicks because I think that is extremely humiliating and gross.
I used to only like girls until recently and was totally okay with it, I dont mind taking strapon and getting fucked by a girl, but a boy would be out of questions.
(And also now lesgen hates me, so fuck.)
What do you guys think about it?

Any bis here who has never dated/had sex with any gender but has a crush on someone in real life?

Do you feel as if you're bitter to other people as I do?

>>6998233

More mystery, less history.

Nothing good comes of disclosing that information, nor do I care. If we're going to be banging for any length of time it's nice knowing your health status, but that's about it.

>>7032339

Sounds like you have some issues. Forget about conversion therapy, just go with regular therapy.

>>7032641
I dont think I have any issues I just dont want to take dick how the fuck do I get rid of straightness?

>>7033443
by not taking dick?

My girlfriend is pregnant. I guess its time to stop chasing shorts.

:(

Hit the gay death last week

Guess it's time to stick with women now

End of an era. Feels bad.

>>7033492
>>7033571
Bisexuality in a nutshell.

>>7033636
1. Becoming loyal to your SO because of a baby
2. Getting to an arbitrary age where gay men will no longer go out with you

Yep, sure smells like bis are shit, alright

>>7033652
You're breeders, first and foremost. Why not stick with women from the beginning and save everyone the trouble?

>>7033686
>Why not stick with women from the beginning
vaginas are boring, but tits are fun.
but I'd pick dicks & boibutts at the end.

>>7033686
Why not stop being a bunch of fags who only give a shit about clinging to your male youth?

It's not like you lot are the most loyal people anyway.

>>7026070
I'm open to trans individuals just as much as Cis and will always consider myself bisexual before pansexuals because its the word I prefer and they mean the exact same thing imo. Do what you want.

>>7034048
>I want to have my cake and eat it too

This is why you're hated.

>>7034103
Is this what you tell yourselves to justify the shitty treatment we generally receive from you people? We're just insecure "fags" who probably deserve it anyway?

>>7034432
You're the one who popped into bigen to call everyone a breeder. Chill out with that "you treat us so poorly" nonsense

>>7034432
>shitty treatment we generally receive from you people?
you get treated the way you deserve, and you sound like a shitty bitter person

Can anyone relate/help at all? (I'm a guy)

I always grew up assuming I liked girls, and was always nervous around them. Liking boys never even occurred to me. In the last year though the possibility sort of opened up to me. I've never felt very comfortable sexually, and the porn I used to watch went from lesbians to pretty much always girls blowing guys.

I actually end up feeling really comfortable jacking off to guy on guy, but when I go out in public I tend to "forget" to be attracted to guys if there's girls around.

>>7034454
I "popped in" to see what you guys were all about and had my "biphobia" validated in the first two posts I read.

A "breeder" just refers to someone who breeds, which you do. Why would you find that to be an insulting term when it's something bisexuals readily admit and even boast about? Do you think it's equivalent to you calling us "fags"?

>>7034510
People are rarely bitter for no reason.

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>>7035056
you sound a lot like me. I'm somewhere between a 2 and a 3 on the kinsey scale, but you sound like a plain 2.
at any rate, you sound sexually inexperienced, and nerves can do a lot to kill your arousal, make you uncomfortable.
I'd say experiment with guys and girls, 1st and 2nd base, maybe oral if you feel comfortable
use condoms if they are cool with it, and if you're afraid of herpes etc. then don't do anything risky w/out them.
I felt the same way as you before the slippery fap slope of 4chan got me sliding more and more toward gay porn, and then I bought into the "boipucci isn't gay" meme for way too long.
it's not necessarily gay to like anal stimulation, but having a reoccuring dream of giving head, even if it's not attached to a manly face or body, is still definitely at least a 2 on the kinsey scale.
if you can successfully fap to gay porn, then chances are you are bi, you are just not romantically attracted to men.
try smoking weed and then going to a gay bar. you'll probably want to take a boy home.

>>7035183
straight and bi people find "breeder" offensive the same way that gays find "queer" "fag" and "dyke" offensive: it's said with hate and disgust way too often

>>7036152
bi people have met hate disgust & violence from straights (and gays in a lesser extent).
straights only have been offended by that term at worse.
Don't mix us with those "trubreeeders" pls.

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>>7036166
>trubreeeders
TRUBREEEEEEEEDERRRRRRRRRRS

>>7036166
s so hard being in a straight relationship

>Be bi
>Haven't told anyone of friends or family irl of this
>All of them would be accepting if I came out
>Would rather keep this a secret anyways

This normal?

>>7038264
Yeah. Everyone has to be 'proud' of you and shit. It's exhausting. Much easier to be in the closet.

>>7038280

Good. Makes me feel less like an asshole. My mother will poke fun at whomever I take a romantic interest in. I'd rather not get gay jokes thrown in there for good measure, even if they are in good spirit.

>>7036152
>straight and bi people find "breeder" offensive

Source?

What do you put on your Grindr profile? Do you come right out and say you're bi? Str8? Something else?

What's with all the "masc, straight acting" guys? I think that describes me but I don't know if there's some code I'm missing

>>7038280
Fuck your uncle tom bullshit.

>>6998679
"Nazi stuff?"

>>7039157
personal experience? I guess it's not offensive in the same way, but it triggers straight people and people in hetero relationships, makes them feel like they're part of the oppression, uncool, etc.

Holy fuck I saw my dad on an online (dutch) gay sex chatbox.

What the fuck lol.

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>>7040802
holy shit

>>7040779
at least they didn't call you a fag

>>7040802
feelbad for you..

>>7040802
kek. did he recognize you?

>>7035056
I grew up in a strict Catholic family. No sex education and no discussion of sexuality (was many years ago). I was attracted to girls but realized in my teens I was also attracted to some boys.

Went through the "normal" straight dating and marriage process but that attraction to some guys was still there. I'd watch porn but never gay porn, like you I concentrated on females giving blow jobs and I focused on the guy's cock.

Right now I'd say like a lot of bi guys I'm attracted to cock, not so much the rest of the guy, and very attracted to women.

Whats the best way to get into a casual bj situation with friends?

>>7041062
I would also like to know this.

>>6999453
Stop being so hard on yourself

is it possible to go from straight to bi?
i mean people can condition themselves to be into realy weird fetish shit so

>>7041062
>>7041657
Presumably, you'd just want to start out the relationship as fwb. Otherwise, taking anything to a sexualized nature becomes awkward.

>>7042108
I guess
but it wouldn't be representative of the whole bisexuality community

>>7042108
It is if you stick around 4chan.

>>7042108
I don't think it is.

Believe me, I've tried

I'm a manlet and I don't know which gender I like more. Is there anyway to make myself appealing to both?

>26 bi virgin
>too scared to have sex
>too inexperienced to get a relationship

Should I just kill myself?

>>7042746
since you don't want random hookups, find cute friends online or irl, then when it's possible, grow a fwb/serious relationships with them
your age or your lack of experiences won't be a problem for your partner: only in your head ;)

>>6998815
Am i on /o/.
>>7007794
Idk what he means either.
>>7009676
Don't.
>>7032409
Yep except i have a crush on multiple people although i literally have a commitment, hand holding, and cuddling fetish from staying on /d/ too long. I don't even really consider my first date/gf real because she cucked me and the 2 other people she was with, though it was middle school so i don't count it. I only feel bitter twords committed couples i guess you could say

>>7032339
Ok I'm not sure if I'm reading this right. You feel romantic attraction to men as well or no?
>Humiliating taking dick
That is something younger people tend to say some women i know that used to see it like that became indifferent latter on. not sure why though. Gross makes sense.

>>7042723
dress well and work out, tard

>>7042746
are you a qt gril? if so, there's still hope for you

>>7032339
When did the wanting dick thing happen? Have you actually been near a real dick? Because I shlick to the thought of fucking dudes all the time, but a few awkward experiences have taught me that real dicks leave me dry

Also, fuck lesgen. They're predominately bitter misanthropic losers who make themselves feel better by making other people online feel shitty about themselves

>>7033571
The fuck is the gay death.
>>7038264
Yep. Or at least it has been in my case. I only mention it to close friends when its important.
>>7038307
Parents do same shit and they (probably) don't know I'm bi. Its annoying as fuck to be honest.

>>6998233

Anyone else feel incredibly insecure about/doubtful of their own sexuality? I know I'm not straight but can't figure out whether I'm gay or bi. I've been wrestling with it for nearly ten years now.

>>7044053
The age where no one wants to stick their penis into your butt anymore

Just me, or is American Horror Story the most bi-promoting series y'all have ever seen? Mostly in this latest season, but still.

>>7046796
It's cucky as fuck

Season 3 was a joke

>hurrr I hate racists, even though I'm literally a murdering scumbag

>>7046798
1 was alright, 2 was good, 3 was trash, 4 was trash, and I really liked 5.

>>7046519

I've found myself at a weird crossroads where nearly all of the porn that I fap to is either gay (mostly twinks and femboys), traps, futa, or something similar. Dicks are just extremely erotic, hands down. Regardless, when it comes to the people I'd actually want to fuck, and perhaps start a relationship with, I favor women.

That all said, I'm not sure if many bisexuals can really be said to be 50/50 in their attractions, or if it really matters. I think the entire point is to like who you want to like without having a fucking identity crisis over it.

>>7046519
10 years? shit :/
it has been only 2 years I really struggle with that, and it's been kinda excruciating some days. Some other days, I happily block any sexual thoughts or achieve to not think about my crush. And some days idgaf.
I know I'm not 100% straight nor 100% gay, but overall I wish I was either one or the other: everything would be easier. IRL i have never met one bi person (and only 2 gay men, 0 lesbians too for that matters): the bi sexual/romantic orientation seems too rare and weird :S

>>7012264
I was in relationship without wanting to fuck anyone else for three years. Then I got dumped.
Generally, I don't fucking care about anyone else if I have somebody. In the end, the result of sex is the same - orgasm. So why even care, especially if sex is good.

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>using a rhythm stick as a dildo
>those ribs

>>7046522
What about if I'm a top? Can I chase twinks forever?

>>7040887
Fag wouldn't offend me tho.

Question: Should i come out as bisexual? I really don't like the idea of it being a big deal or it even being relevant at all. I don't have a bf or gf at the moment or anyone that I want to pursue a relationship with. It's just that I don't like the feeling that I'm hiding something about myself.

Should I tell people or just wait until I find a bf and see what happens?

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>>7050742

Don't bother coming out until you need to if you don't want to call attention to it. Willfully disassociate with people who would judge you for it anyways.

>>6998280
In a row?