now with 20% more spandex
>don't respond to shitposters
>post bara dudes
> /fit/ sticky
> Husbando Mode Pastebin (mostly meant for Intermediate lifters)
I've dated some fembros and they had beautiful asses and the sex was great. it was the rest of the time that was difficult for me. they wanted to watch the kartrashians and go shopping for crap all the time and they loved to talk on the phone for hours about nonsense. wouldn't go hiking and camping with me. wanted to be treated like a diva housewife: wined and dined and pampered and basically left me to do everything. neither of them knew how to cook and didn't want to clean, and so after a while i just thought 'what am i getting out of this besides sweet boipucci which is basically a dime a dozen' and so i let them go.
the advantages of bara dudes is that they don't talk so much so they aren't as annoying, they still have great asses from doing squats and they usually know how to change a tire and can help lift a refrigerator out of my memaws apartment when it breaks and carry in the new one. and they know how to cook because they spend half of their time eating to maintain all that muscle mass.
>they loved to talk on the phone for hours about nonsense
Seriously I fucking hate this shit.
If you have nothing important to say, shut the fuck up.
what's worse is when they text you nonstop and get all pissy when you don't reply back for a few hours.
No. I've never been attracted to feminine guys, and even as I have met more and more of them I still don't feel any attraction.
Also, many femme guys idea of femininity is being vain, obnoxious and self-centered. Their femininity is nothing like the femininity that I see in my female friends and family - even if I'm not attracted to females I can see how their attitude can be enjoyable to be around, but femme guys are not like that.
I am a fool, and I do know you little, but despite these inadequacies I am seldom wrong.
>clubbing with friends
>won't ever have the balls to try and approach any guy here
>they're having fun and I'm frustrated and bored in a corner shitposting on a Japanese cartoon image board
>I'm not lifting for this shit to keep happening to me
Should I get some gay friends, mascgen?
Where do I get some?
Gay friends would probably make you happier and allow you to go gay clubbing, which is also fun. Where are you from?
You can meet gays on grindr or Tinder or whatever, if someone seems nice to you ask him if he wants to go to the club together, or if you can join him if he has friends already.
>super hot torso
>face pic is asian
Fuck this happens way too often. White guys need to hit the gym more.
I initially couldn't and had this image that it'd be awful to do it because I wouldn't have anything in common but it's fine. I've noticed I no longer take an issue with feminine voices either. I have a really deep voice, so if I'm talking to someone camp, their voice kind of sticks out to most. However, I've learnt it's more about what's being said as opposed to how it sounds. I also put values, principles and personality above all else.
but seriously though, all the gay white guys are at least a little chubby or do that skinny thing. Only gay asians work out, maybe to make up for the fact that they'd be twinky bottoms otherwise
gaysians are #1 for that. jocky white guys may have tighter ass muscles, but they're a lot more effort to hunt down, unless you get them drunk. And half of them do the weird health shit so that takes a lot of effort.
> be single
> straight friend asks if I would like to meet some of his gay friends
> I explain to him that I really don't like femme guys, so if his friends are like that then he shouldn't waste his time
> he goes silent for a while
> "he's a bit feminine but he's really fun anon, give him a chance"
> mfw resign myself to this fate
> weeks later
> some weirdly-faced guy added me on facebook, I accept the request without thinking
> proceed to go a few days without using facebook
> yesterday i log in and he's sent me two messages
> saturday morning: hi how are you doing
> sunday: I've never been ignored like that in my entire life
> mfw already want to block him
> check his friends, notice that this is the guy my friend was talking about
> decide to at least talk with him for a while
> I answer rudely to his drama but he finds that funny
> we talk for a bit, he's pretty mediocre
> he dislikes going to the gym
Should I give him a chance to revert this terrible first impression or should I walk away?
Godammit, didn't see new thread
Okay lads, It's been a while since I've posted here but I'm in way too fucking deep now
>have straight crush
>basically his plus one to most of the things he does with his family now
>barbecues, gatherings, that sort of thing
>familiar and friendly with his family
>quite a few people think we're dating, including my mother
>I deny it, he shrugs it off
>invites me round to dinner, I don't want to impose
>"it's ok, [sister] has [her boyfriend] round all the time, no one will mind"
>Also his ex gf did it so he says no one will mind
>remind him that I am neither his boyfriend nor his girlfriend
>laughs it off
>last night I was invited to a gathering with his church group as his plus one again
>they like me and I get along well with all of them, despite me not being religious
>crush suggests I stay the night so I don't need to get a taxi and so he can drink and not have to drive me back
>agree after being persuaded that I'm not inconveniencing them
>go back to his when the event ends
>his sister and her boyfriend go off upstairs to their bedroom, his parents go off to his, I set up in the front room with a borrowed sleeping bag
>he brings down his bedding and says he'll stay here with me
>he sleeps on the floor, I sleep on the sofa
offer him sofa if he wants it, say I could sleep on the floor instead
>he refuses of course
>I usually sleep in pajamas because fuck you they're comfy, he usually sleeps in his boxers
>Both sleeping in boxers tonight
>talk into the small hours, eventually go to sleep
>wake up in the morning, he's on his phone looking at stuff
>I drop down onto the floor in sleeping bag as he's showing me stuff
>his covers slip and I see his bare thigh
>he's been naked all night just 2 feet away from me
>I think he notices me noticing and freaking out slightly, puts pants back on under the cover of "stretching his legs" under the covers
>I call him out on it then decide not to halfway through the question, he doesn't push it
>"did you just...? Actually, never mind"
>his sister walks in on the both of us lying on the floor next to each other, topless or maybe more since she can't tell
>asks if we've seen her headphones
>I say they're in the kitchen
>mfw she probably thinks we're dating now too
>we decide we should probably get dressed and have breakfast now
Then I went home, had a shower and started typing this up.
Friday I go with him and his church group camping, in a tent with him and me in one side, and his sister and her boyfriend on the other, in separate pods.
I am in way too deep here, pls advise I have no idea how to go about this
Then he's a bit lewd for jerking it under the covers with you right there. Just act indifferent to it - if he's genuinely interested he'll pursue it past the point of ambiguity. As you say you're too scared of initiating, so just play it by ear. He might come around. And if you're meeting up at the bloody church group then there's a good chance he's a closet case - which is an entirely different problem in itself.
He doesn't sound like someone I would want to date, but if he makes you laugh he makes you laugh ey. Maybe you can befriend him.
Since he knows you're gay things shouldn't get too awkward right? He knows that could mean you can like him too.
It kinda sounds like he is teasing you, though. If you can't handle that you should communicate with him about it imo, but most anons disagree.
He doesn't even make me laugh, I'm only doing this because my friend swears he's nice despite not seeing much evidence to that.
I barely know him and he's already shown to be catty, that's got to be a red flag.
Well, I don't see why you'd go around burning any bridges. Just let things go as they go.
Well, until you get mad at him or something, then it's fine to burn bridges. Just, you know, don't go off crossing him off without any reason. Not because of him, but because of your friend who went through the trouble of setting you up. Sure you didn't want him to, but he did it for you, and that's what matters.
It's made me feel really off all day though, I don't even know how I fucking feel anymore, but bringing it up with him might make me feel even worse
He knows I'm gay and he knows I think he's hot and he still does this stuff but I just don't know what to think anymore
If I were you, I'd follow my gut instinct and not date him. Maybe give it a bit more time to see if the cattyness and general faggotry is just him being really nervous around you?
I just think that Asians work out to make up for the fact that they are one of the least desirable races and helps them look less feminine. They are still Asian though and there's other white guys who are fit, so I still block them. I'm not that desperate.
Yeah, so? What's wrong with that?
Black people are pretty homophobic in general and have a very high tendency towards AIDS, Latinos are okay in my book but the whole macho/Catholic culture makes them pretty homophobic and self loathing too. What's wrong with avoiding them if chances are they won't be good partners?
And not being attracted to a race's facial features isn't racist, if I don't find slanted eyes attractive, chances are I'm not going to like Asians.
I'm not moralizing here, cuz I do the same shit, but it IS racism.
The dude's YT channel is just him flexing and posing and doing a bunch of homoerotic shit but I don't think the guy's ACTUALLY gay he's just obsessed with himself. But yeah size difference is the best thing ever
Wait.... am I racist against whites, then?
Blondes with blue eyes are a total boner kill for me, blue eyes and general take willpower to tolerate.
My mum has blue eyes... I can't fuck with her watching me.
>because of your friend who went through the trouble of setting you up
Yeah. If this was any other guy I would have blocked him right off, but I do think my friend had the best intentions. I don't want to make it awkward between him and his buddy, so I'd rather take this carefully.
> give it a bit more time
Yeah, gonna do that. I still don't think I'll date him, but I'll maintain some contact over the next few days and give him the chance to change my perspective.
> tfw I specifically want a gymbro bf with whom I can go the gym and lift heavy shit
One more reason against him.
Yeah sure I guess. Really it's not the worst thing in the world to be a little racist because we all live in a racist society and you'd have to have had the perfect upbringing in order to grow up without any racist attitudes. IMO I think the worse thing is to pretend that we don't have these thoughts or that they don't exist
Are we really having the old "are preferences racism?" debate? Because there are literally hundreds of other lgbt places to talk about this, this issue's been run to the ground and it only manages to shit up the place, and now you're bringing this subject here?
If you want to talk about it, good for you, but /mascgen/ really isn't a particularly good place for that. You can post a thread about this on this board or you can go to leddit if that's more up your alley
Also, most of /mascgen/ is not American, so it's not like we care about your racial issues.
>yfw he's done biporn http://imgur.com/a/0hJqr
>yfw theres's a chance
>macho/Catholic culture makes them pretty homophobic and self loathing too
You're confusing Irish/Italian catholics with Hispanic catholics. It's way less intense than that for latinos. You find more self-loathing and stronger opinions about homos in America.
The guy is sucking it like it's a baby bottle.
Normally I never use to think bald guys were hot, but the fact they have facial hair and body hair and muscles just makes it work. I now realize bald can be sexy when accented with hair and muscles.
oh shit. i knew he did a porno but i thought it was just straight porn. he's fucked dudes too?
Your Christian friend really sounds like a major tease. The chance is big he enjoys teasing you and doesn't realise the consequences.
Teasing you makes it sound like there is a chance he could be curious for guys though, but bicuriousity can be a destructive thing for friendships so be careful.
Tell us more +screencap pls
>tfw just deleted Tinder because no qt and put too much energy into getting those conversations going
I'm thinking about starting a table tennis club at my technical college ( that's the only sports we have equipment for) does that count as masc? I'm also a graphic designer can I ever be truly masc?
are used to draw attention to the fact that a given person, company, or idea has Jewish origin.
(((parenthesis))) are not antisemitic because they merely convey information about a person's heritage and leave the reader to draw his own conclusions. Many Jews use them on their social media.
That said, you'll be surprised how often they pop up for people comprising a mere 0.2% of the world population.
Dude don't worry about whether things are masc or not, just do what you enjoy. Being preoccupied about it is really unattractive tbqh
I'll never understand anti-Semitism. I feel like it's just inherited bigotry because like, Jews don't even stand out that much anymore. Hell, you need a chrome-extension to point out they even exist, apparently.
>you'll be surprised how often they pop up for people comprising a mere 0.2% of the world population.
I mean, a Jew did start the world's most popular religion
>I'll never understand antisemitism
You mean the hypothesis that a small but clever and highly interconnected group of people with a strong ingroup bias could come to control a vastly disproportionate amount of wealth and influence in the world?
Go lurk on 8/pol a while and keep an open mind.
Yeah like it's all just conspiracy theories to resent rich people. Like what did a Jew do to you, personally?
>go lurk on 8/pol for a while
I'd rather stick my hand in hydrochloric acid. Listen friend, you can find any place on the internet that will reaffirm your worldview, that doesn't make it any less bullshit. I could send you to a forum filled with people who SWEAR the earth is flat but that doesn't make it true. Anti-Semitism is dumb and bad and makes no sense.
>does that count as masc?
I think you fail to understand what "masc" actually is. If you're so worried about coming off as masc, chances are you're insecure and trying way too hard.
Just do what makes you happy and, at most, try to become a better you. If the "better you" has a more masculine atitude, then so be it, but masculinity in and of itself is not necessarily the absolute best goal to strive for.
I'm not that anon, and actually I have a fondness for Jewish people since one of my best fuckbuddies was Jewish, but I do see where he comes from.
Jewish people, overall, do try to help each other out. Which is no surprise, it's very common amongst minorities and groups. And it's a verifiable fact that some industries, despite Jewish people being a minority, do seem to have a over-representation of them.
It does sound like a conspiracy, but it's known that there are a lot of Jewish people on the film industry, for example, which surely plays some part in the huge number of Holocaust movies.
Also, you should keep in mind that Israel is a country that actively tries to exert influence in other countries, and they often are involved in things you would never imagine.
I, once, was in an academic event and got to know a specialist on the field. Later on I tried to get into a lecture but there were no places left... Except that my colleague saw me and gave me a special pass, which was specifically sponsored by the Israeli Embassy because that lecture, and some others, had Jewish lecturers.
I'm not anti-semitic, in fact I'm more pro-jewish in most stuff, but I do recognize that they do exert influence.
It's funny how /mascgen/ all reply in such an adult and sweet way about people asking if they can join /mascgen/ and asking about masculinity. Cute
thanks. I'm not overly worried about it. though I do stop myself from crossing my legs because I think that's fem. It's a weird obsession but it's cool I feel more confident manspreading.
I mean it still just sounds like people resent Jews for having connections, when really connections in any industry is a helpful asset. It's called networking. I don't know why people get bitter about it when the super wealthy and other non-Jewish types do this all the time and nobody bats an eye
I mean, I tend to have a slight bias towards LGBT people, (my group calls people family when speculating if someone's gay, i.e. "is he family?") but it's not nefarious or anything
half white half islander here. I don't find most Asian attractive unless they look masc. Though most Korean guys are super attractive and they all dress well. Other Asians not so much. Pic very much related!
Yeah, networking is just a reality of life. For me, anti-semitism isn't the talking about the inherent networking around being Jewish, it's instead when people treat that as the most nefarious and immoral shit ever.
I too have some positive discrimination towards LGBT people, and I have favored people who came from the same school as me (the most rigorous school around here, by the way) and I'll likely favor people who come from the same university, once I'm done, because I do believe that my institution is great.
That's just a fact of life, really.
>stop myself from crossing my legs because I think that's fem
Funny you say that. I started doing that when I was a teen and only stopped doing that once it got bad on my spine, but I never saw it as particularly fem.
Tell us exactly what there is about you that you believe is fem.
>do white guys really hate asians
i don't think gay guys hate asians.
i think asians get ignored on grindr because there is a stereotype that they have smaller dicks and most grindr fags are size queens/bottoms. personally, i am very attracted to asian men because they have great bodies and are smart and most of them love to be fucked by a white guy.
is that guy korean? he looks more japanese...
>I never saw it as particularly fem
it depends on where you cross them.
if you rest your ankle on your knee that is masculine.
if you have your knee on your other knee, because of the ball-crushing aspect it is considered femme.
women sit like that so their pussy doesn't show when they are sitting down and wearing a dress.
White have bias towards whites and so does every other group of people. The fact that Jewish people are successful and control a lot of wealth is their achievement. Everyone is trying to do the same. It's just hating their success, specially when they have faced a lot of discrimination.
Don't hate them. I just would never date one.
I think mostly it's because females look better doing it. Also it kinda crushes your junk a bit. Mostly I think it's fem because it's a position women use to show off their legs. Where man spreading is objectivly the best seating position for men because it shows dominance.
>grindr fags are size queens
Nah, I guess you don't know since you seem to like them, but it's definitely because of their face. The look very unmanly and a lot of their features just aren't attractive to Western people.
> as I write this I'm wearing my compression shorts while I drink milk for muh bulk
> tfw too swole to rest my knee over the other
> tfw 2masc 2b fem
Google "myvidster sizediffs"
It's my favorite playlist to follow and full of goodies. Although I have no attraction to twinks, I absolutely love Armond Rizzo because he's like 5' and will take on any guy of any size like a fucking champ. The size difference in his videos is a thing of beauty
White here and I like Asians, but I'm pretty certain I like all races and types of ethnicity anyway.
> tfw twink who likes to dominate big, muscular men
I have actually had a few message me on dating apps recently, who say they're tops, but would bottom for me, because my profile information is very assertive and decisive, which seems to attract a lot of masculine guys.
Dude you have no idea how many huge guys love to be dominated. It's weird. Maybe it's my city but so many guys want to bottom. I lean submissive but I tend to be fiesty about it and guys just take that to mean I'm the dominant one all the time
>my profile information is very assertive and decisive
>many huge guys love to be dominated
i'm versatile and i have to say that i just like a guy who knows what he wants. if you tell me you love my ass and you want to fuck it, i will totally let you. doesn't matter if you're a skinny twink or a huge muscle queen.
it is a way of signalling that they are interested in networking for improving their job
That sounds like an excuse to procrastinate.
You can do pushups and other exercises at home using your own bodyweight or jugs filled with water. Calisthenics and running are great ways to improve heart health and slim down.
Expensive gym memberships are overrated (but a fun way to look at other men's bodies while they are changing/showering which can give you motivation!)
> he didn't save all of mascgen's 1st Edition Original Butts
> probably doesn't even have mascgen's Original Kitter's Kollection
> didn't even read /hbg/'s pastebin
Do you even masc4masc m8?
>I find sluttiness to be a turn-off.
I guess you mistakenly thought I was hitting on you. I guess I should have said "If a person tells me they love my ass..."
Do you often think everything is about you?
Unless it makes you uncomfortable don't say anything. I fucked up a beautiful bromance with one of my best friends because I did something stupid. You'll miss those moments where he doesn't have his guard up.
Very proud of my booty gains lately. This was taken while warming up and before a HIIT session.
Keep on squatting f.a.m. We are all gonna make it
Wanting to only add mass to your arms is pleb-tier and you're bound to look unproportional, unbalanced and disgusting, but you could do dips, bicep curls and wrist curls. That would work your forearm, biceps and triceps. You would also need to eat adequately, which I doubt you know how to do since you're asking something so pleb to begin with.
But you shouldn't do that, you should instead do a real lifting routine like squatting-anon-kun, who's dutifully squatting in accordance with the Lord's holiest order.
>tfw over do it on biceps and your tendon of biceps brachii muscle is sore and painful for 3 days afterward
I had the same expereince gaynon. I didn't like the bald look, then I met this guy who was bald, beareded, and fucking hot af. Now I'm...pretty down with the whole bald thing. Hair is nice too though.
> not knowing proper greentext usage
> not being accostumed to 4chan-tier nihongo honorifics
Oh you sweet summer child. I was going to mock you, but now I can only think that your newfagness is cute. CUTE!
So i broke up with my gf a couple of months ago for reasons i'm not going to get into. Since then, I have been chatting with this dude online. He's nearly 30 so much older than me but he's pretty damn handsome and we get along well. Anyway, he's pretty domineering when it comes to sex which wouldn't be too much of a problem but I don't really have much experience with guys, especially ones into S&M. The thought does turn me on but I'm still really nervous. We're thinking of meeting up but i'm not really sure how this all works.
Anybody have any advice?
Yeah, the only problem is that I feel like i've been leading him on and kinda been playing into the whole S&M thing. It seemed harmless because we were mostly just texting but it just seems more real now. Don't get me wrong, i'm into it but i'm just really inexperienced.
he's more jockish than anything desu (part of why I find him attractive).
I find this thing so curious in a bad way. It literally is a bloated tool that isn't even particularly revealing
For instance, height means literally nothing. All of the categories, save for one, have the same average height, and I don't think height is even used to calculate BMI in this.
Hairiness is also a pretty useless criteria, what the fuck even is "average" hairiness? How did the people who took part in the research even know what average hairiness is?
If this limited itself to age, height, weight and bodyfat (thus discovering body composition), it would have been so much better.
>stats from 10 months ago: twink
>stats now: gym bunny
It may be silly but reading this made me pretty happy. We're all gonna make it.
Although I'm surprised and how many of these cliques there are, I'm surprised at how such a big community managed to agree on such an autistic criteria for body types.
Nobody agreed upon these criteria. These bodytypes were assembled from the answers for a form, and if a certain statistically relevant number of people had a similar bodytype and self-identified under the same label, then it got recognized.
That's why some of these body types are kind of autistic, they emerged from the collective autism of humankind.
That's something I have been wondering about for a while. It always seemed to me like being considered masculine is more a kind of status thing in the sense that it depends on how other people perceive you, whereas femininity is just something people automatically recognize in you (probably because it's easier to be). For example, doing whatever you enjoy and not caring what other people think about that is considered masculine, but at the same time if the things you enjoy are knitting and watching My Little Pony then people are going to think you're a fem faggot no matter how little you care about their opinion and how confident you are in what you enjoy.
For me personally though it relates to a general question; Since I'm not buff AF and not a macho type (though definitely not fem either), how do you communicate to people beforehand that you're a top and a dominant one at that? For dating apps it's obvious because you just list that on your profile, but for every other case I'm sort of lost. Since people don't expect me to be a dominant top, do I really have to flat out tell people or are there more subtle ways to go about it?
Similarly, how do you find a good balance between being passive and being more proactive and ''out there'' with flirting and sexual advances? Seems to me like being very forward about it can either work out very well or backfire badly. I figured that since I'm most into submissive guys, coming on strongly would probably attract them to me more, but it's still risky. Then again, if someone is into you and wants to fuck then they'll probably respond positively no matter how aggressively you come on to them short of just raping them.
Got really long and ranty lel, soz guys.
>doing whatever you enjoy and not caring what other people think about that is considered masculine
> but at the same time if the things you enjoy are knitting and watching My Little Pony then people are going to think you're a fem faggot
Well, now you're just wrong, really.
The way I see it is, if your attitude as a whole is intensely masculine (self-disciplined, respectable, proactive, a leader, physically capable, etc) then you do get some "credits" to do intensely feminine things without being feminine yourself.
I, for example, often bake stuff and take it to college, to share with my classmates, and nobody nowadays finds that particularly feminine since they know the kind of guy I am.
I have many female friends, who often confide in me and have taken to calling me "mommy" since I'm a few years older and more responsible, and I also take care of baby animals, I'm great with them, and people find that cute. Still, I almost everyday hear comments about how I'm the most masculine guy around, even amongst straight guys.
My perspective is that masculine is actually ENHANCED by having a few extremely feminine interests WHILE carrying them proudly, without fear of being judged.
See these two guys in the picture? One of them posts here on mascgen. And you can bet that, if I saw these two on the street, I would comment on how masculine they are. Because you DO NEED to be masculine to wear that stuff, you have to be extremely proud of yourself.
>how do you communicate to people beforehand that you're a top and a dominant one at that?
Depends on the circumstances. In my experience, the most fail-proof way of doing that is... groping their ass. Really. Do that shit when you're making out with someone and, well, if they aren't stupid they will get it.
Be confident, and maybe act a bit cocky, and don't act passively. Instead of being shy, lead the conversation and, sometimes, poke some more sensitive subjects to test your limits.
I find that doing shit that tests people's limits (in a responsible, considerate manner), like a witty joke or a precise question, often gets the message across.
They won't know for sure you're dominant, but they'll expect it more.
> balance between being passive and being more proactive and ''out there'' with flirting and sexual advances?
Well, being dominant is not exactly the same as being aggressive. You can be extremely delicate, even gentle, and still be dominant by being plain assertive. You don't need to throatfuck someone to be dominant, if you've got enough game you can just say "Suck it" and they'll already want to be your little toy.
My overall philosophy on this is that I just don't repeat myself. If I'm communicating with someone I met at a party, an app or whatever, I'll say what I have to say clearly and directly, without euphemisms, and only once. And if I give someone a chance or an order, I'll say it only once, too.
If I want to hook up with someone, I'll give them a single chance. If they flake or hesitate, then it's over. And when I'm hooking up, by the time we're actually having sex I'll already have asked a few questions or gotten an idea on what the guy likes. Based on that I'll order him on what to do — exclusively around what was agreed upon. So I've never had someone "disobey" me during sex, since if we've gotten to that point I've already made sure they want to obey me.
> be novice lifter
> struggling to do a 5rep set of 116kg deadlift
> pig out after that to make sure that I get em gains
> today easily lifted 118kg for 9reps without breaking a sweat
> mfw gonna sleep tight tonight
Well, that's neat too.
Hmm good enough points. I'm really already doing most of the things you guys mentioned so I don't know what I'm really worrying about. Thanks anon-senpais.
It certainly seems like there's less attraction to Asians among gay white men, for whatever reason that might be. I think it's stupid; I personally know I don't find most Asians attractive, but like with any race there's going to be attractive ones (pic related) so I think that instead of doing that ''No Asian, no black'' etc. kind of bullshit people should just take it on an individual basis instead of pretending like it's such a pain to simply tell people of a certain race who hit you up that you're not interested.
No hate, maybe all that soy diet really makes Asians more feminine. Still some Asian men are 10/10 for me and even smaller benis looks nice. But that's mostly bara-guys from Japan like pic related. The only attractive Korean male I saw was dude in this MV
I find America's (and, to a certain extent, Europe's) struggle with multiculturalism and ethnicities to be kind of funny. On this whole LGBT discussion every minority population wants the spotlight for themselves, so they can complain about how white men don't like them. And, despite white men being "so shallow o m g am i rite?" these same individuals still have a particular attraction towards white men.
It seems, to me, like such a bucket of crabs mentality. Instead of actively doing what they can to improve themselves — so they would become God-tier blacks/asians/arabs — this discussion often ends up reaching the level of "white men are shit but they should actively seek out people from my race because I love white cock!"
I lived for a while in a place where I was constantly judged, bullied and outright harassed because of my origins, because people thought I was shit-tier for their tastes, and I fucking dealt with it. And if someone would judge me for that, you can bet I wouldn't even consider them as a possible romantic partner. It makes me wonder why minorities in some places want so much to get along with the "oppressive whites."
I see this every time I see a bear couple.
It's ironic how the 'bear community' will lament twinks for being in an exclusive clique when bears seem so narcissistic that they aspire to emotionally attach themselves to individuals who look almost identical to them.
> soy gives you tits meme
> soy makes you fem
Everything in moderation.
>minorities in some places
This is legit an issue that is only brought up if you ask a black or asian. Why are you so triggered by it? They are entitled to their opinion. This is coming from someone that would never date asian or black guys no matter what they look like.
It's weird to me when people talk of twinks as "narcissistic" because they don't look like they care about what they look like at all. They wear girls clothes or other boner killing crap that people laugh at. A well-groomed, fit man seems more narcissistic than any twink to me. Not that I mind guys trying to look their best.
>Why are you so triggered by it?
This discussion is extremely frequent on this board, in other lgbt discussion forums and even in my college. I see and hear from it it far too often. So, yeah, you might say I'm triggered.
>That moment when you don't know if a handshake will be a handshake or a broshake and you both attempt a different one
To be fair I don't have much experience with people bitching about their race not being attractive to whatever group they happen to be into so I might just be not as annoyed by it. I think that people are justified in saying that the fact an asian 10/10 is like a white 6/10 to most people is in fact hurtful. You should try to be the best that you can be in any case but it would still be shitty to have people writing you off from the start just because of your race. Then again, most of this relates only to dating apps and hookups, in which case it truly is all about superficiality and getting the hottest cock as soon as possible with the least effort involved so with that whole attitude in mind it's only natural people superficially write others off so easily. If anything I think it would be beneficial for Asians who feel like they're unfairly treated to try and move away from the whole hookup bullshit and instead look into actually dating and getting into an environment where people aren't purely thinking with their dicks.
So yeah I do think people of certain races are certainly over-exaggerating their dismissal by white guys and can do more about making it easier on themselves and becoming more attractive in general, but at the same time gays really are terribly superficial and prejudiced, especially in specific cliques, which is pretty fucking ironic if you ask me.
>that people are justified in saying that the fact an asian 10/10 is like a white 6/10 to most people is in fact hurtful
Yes, I understand that it's hurtful. At the same time, though, aren't there people who have characteristics that are seen as similarly (and unfairly) unattractive?
Many people outright refuse to date short guys, we've even discussed this many times here on mascgen. It doesn't matter if the guy is insanely handsome and full bara mode, there'll still be many people who won't like him because of his height. Many of these possible characteristics are unchangeable or, at least, too expensive to change. Some people just have unattractive facial features, others have unsolvable medical issues that people just don't like.
And, let's face it, globally the number of people who'll face some of these dating discriminators likely is much higher than the relatively small population of asians in America and Europe and African-Americans. Still you don't ever see all this debate about how "women and men don't ever date manlets o m g!", and you surely will never see many others ethnic minorities in other countries complaining about how "dating is so hard when you're Romani in the France-Germany border!"
I do understand how hard it can be when you're from a minority who faces dating discrimination — hell, my dating life is shit too — but I just find it curious how there's so much systematic focus on how being black and/or asian is so terrible when you want to date white guys when so many other issues are ignored.
That said, seeing this being discussed about asian guys is not as common as it is about black guys, I do recognize that. And if you think I'm triggered, well, you might just be right.
I hug a pillow during my sleep, makes it easier to fall asleep. I go to the gym and study, that keeps my mind and body busy, and I have friends in which I can depend on.
It makes the loneliness more bearable, but it's still shit. I still get depressed sometimes.
Yes, I'm the one whose college has no powerlifting shit whatsoever, and also I'm the anon who's taking care of good kitter. I might post a new pic later tonight if I feel like it.
Just keep moving. Go out. Do stuff. Play video games. I used to have bad loneliness pangs before my first bf, but I'm used to it now. And yeah, like >>6837109 , I spoon my pillow and listen to Ryuichi Sakamoto at night to help me fall asleep.
>tfw fall is coming
Which type of bottom do you prefer Mascgen?
When a bottom gets older and works out. They become bottom bears. I feel like a lot aren't picky about who fucks them, because it's harder to get laid when you're older, so they will sleep with twinks.
Anyway, if you want a muscle bear, go to a big city you'll find one easily, although they will probably be older. I feel like younger ones will still have options with young muscle tops which is what they generally prefer.
Browsing grindr or any datingapp in a state of loneliness with intent to stop the feeling only increases the feeling alot imo
Awh, love makes one wait for so long. I keep busy but it's the longing for a loving touch that can make me sad sometimes.
Ryuichi is really nice to listen to, added it to my study playlist. What do you mean with "I'm used to it now." You dont have a boyfriend anymore?
I'm joining a windsurfing student's sport organisation, which will be loads of fun probably. I have given up on finding love any time soon, though.
Hey, giving up on love worked for me. IDK if it's just being more relaxed, or whatever, but here I am, married to a wonderful guy, who is my best friend and best lover all in one. Give it time.
How do you guys learn to control your jealousy? I'm not super jealous, but it irks me slightly that my bf is good friends with someone who he used to hook up with while me and him knew each other (even though we weren't together back then).
I've tried to be open minded but I feel like I'll never embrace the guy as a friend of my own because of that.
>my bf is good friends with someone who he used to hook up with
You don't have to control anything. You should tell your boyfriend to show you some respect and stop hanging out with his fuckbuddies.
Because yes, they are either fucking already or will be fucking again soon.
You don't need to be friends with him. Definitely set boundaries with regards to how you are comfortable with your boyfriend hanging out with him. Don't just tell him that he can't be with a friend because it makes you a little uncomfortable cause that's edging dangerously close to abusive behavior. But definitely talk about how it makes you feel with your bf and try to build some sort of paradigm where he can still enjoy his friendship while making sure you are secure in your relationship.
>Ryuichi is really nice to listen to, added it to my study playlist. What do you mean with "I'm used to it now." You dont have a boyfriend anymore?
Right. It was a long distance relationship we broke up on account of us losing interest in each other and lacking to keep in touch. No drama. No petty fight. We both ended on a pretty uneventful note. We're still friends though we don't really talk to each other that much and the remnants leaves you with a rusted, empty feeling inside. I actually went out of the country to meet him for the first time earlier this year. Just getting out and going to another place I've never been before was very nice. It was in that trip that I realized that I forced myself into a relationship for the wrong reasons of wanting it so bad. It was contrived love.
Being alone hurts; it really does. A scary truth to realize is that not everyone is cut out to have a boyfriend or even a husband in their lifetime. So like other Anons (>>6846120) I'm just enjoying life at the fullest and letting love come to me. I know that I'm still fighting the good fight: I'm getting /fit/ and taking care of my body, I'm working hard and moving up in the world, all the while enjoying it at my own pace. With this, I'm determined that I will find a guy who can make me completely vulnerable and appreciate the world with me and fight along with somewhere down the road. Life works in mysterious ways like that.
>Long hair is feminine
>soft girl like facial features
Nope, I seriously can't tell if you're a guy or a girl.
>You can do pushups and other exercises at home using your own bodyweight or jugs filled with water. Calisthenics and running are great ways to improve heart health and slim down.
yes, but you won't get anywhere near the size of the guys in the pic
shit, it might be good for losing weight but you will most likely get barely any muscle development at all
It's all about the warrior aesthetic. Wild, powerful and untamed you know?
> tfw have great bodyhair and beard genetics
> tfw hairy all over except chest and back
At least I have a good beard.
Back hair is the only kind of hair that's take it or leave it for me
That's it hair edition for next one. Someone get on it