>coming out to mom >"It's just a phase"

>4chan must know about my irrelevant teenager problems!!!!!!!!!

>"every girl who has a crush on another girl at some point"

>"you think being gay is COOL? is this what the COOL KIDS are up to now?"

>>6746339
>irrelevant teenager problems
that's like 90% of the content on this board

>>6746323
that's what she said to me too
1 year of HRT later she still thinks it's a phase
it's always a phase

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>>6746323
>"Are you sure? Don't rush into this."

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>>6746323
>you don't have a vagina, ovaries, or uterus, you'll never be a mother, never be a woman
>you have a penis, testicles, you are my SON

;~; thanks mom

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>"i'm just worried i won't see you in the afterlife"
>"there go my hopes of having grandkids"
>"where did we go wrong?"
>"maybe if we stop giving it attention it'll go away"
>"this is what you get for watching too much bravo"

>>6746323
>coming out to ur parents
no thanks id rather not be abandoned and probably murdered

>>6746352
>"you think being gay is COOL? is this what the COOL KIDS are up to now?"
I feel so annoyed

>>6746484
this literally happened to me

>>6746411
"Please, Mx. Birthing Parent No. 2. Women nowadays have penis, testicles too. Don't be a bigoted shitlord, it's 2016!"

How on earth do you guys actually come out to your parents?

How do you find the confidence to actually tell them that you are a massive degenerate?

I've tried to come out of many occasions but it's just way too shameful and terrifying.

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>it's okay bapi I'll always love you
Feels pretty ok

I've never really given much thought to "coming out"

it's not their business. If they ask, sure. maybe I'll mention it. But I don't really care and neither should they.

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>coming out to new person 50% of the time
>"nooooo, man you're bullshitting me"
>"you don't ACT or LOOK gay"
>"lolololol jokes aside though, are you a tits or ass man for real"

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>"but you don't look like a lesbian! you're so pretty!"
>"when did you make this choice?"
>omg does this mean you've been checking me out all this time?!"
>"i've always wanted a gay friend!!!11"
>"have you ever had crushes on guys?"
>" lol home depot lol ellen degeneres lol santana from glee"
>"now that you're a lesbian, you're one of the guys now"

>>6746563
is there a name for that character?

Why the fuck do you need your mothers acceptance for? Grow the fuck up and get your own life, don't fucking live it through others.

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>why can't you just be a butch lesbian?
>You don't want to be a MAN, you really just want to be a ~masculine wombyn~!
>I don't want my beautiful gay autistic daughter getting transed and cutting her breasts off!
>here, read these testimonies of detransitioned womynynyns at 4thWaveNow and GenderTrender! Not to mention this great blog called DirtyWhiteBoi67!

>>6747382
Kek, being ftm really showcases the feminist movement
>Be me, ftm not out but wearing means clothes completely unpassing, have short dyke hair
>Get a bunch of older women telling me how brave I am for being "true to myself"
>Slowly realize, fuck this noise, I want to live and die as a man
>Get on t and start passing
>In what feels like overnight I had gone from every lesbian being weirdly obsessed with me to being hated for being a primitive man who needs to be trained to not rape women
>Also I'm a traitor because I gave up my womanhood for male priviledge, which doesn't make any sense because I was hands down more priviledged living as a woman

>>6747832
>I was hands down more priviledged living as a woman
you've done it now
inb4tumblards

Underage b&: the thread.

>>6746682
beary pink grill (??)

>I don't mind you being gay but please don't come home with one of those really camp, spiteful ones
>Thank god, I don't think I can deal with anymore grandkids
>If you're not going out with a woman then you'll need to find a man who can cook and dye your hair for you
>Honestly considering what girls are like now I don't blame you
>So you're not going to bring back a Japanese girl? That's a shame

>>6746323

> "It's just a phase"
> "So was you being heterosexual mum, but you just haven't slept with a girl yet."

>>6746508
I totally believe you, that's the fucking problem. It's grating with layers of condescension. Shitty.

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>"Anon, you aren't trans, you're our little girl. What? You've been going to a therapist? Well they're wrong. We're your parents, anon. We know you better than anyone, even yourself."

>>6747963
>So you're not going to bring back a Japanese girl? That's a shame

>tfw I wish I could bring back a Japanese girl.

>>6746563
is beary ok? :(

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>>6746323
>"SHUT UP MOM THIS IS NOT A PHASE THIS IS THE REAL ME"

>>6746323
>implying it's not a phase
this board is nothing but special snowflakes

>>6746323
>Make a slight hint that I'm gay to mother
>"You do know that being gay is a sin, right?"

>>6747382
I've heard most of these. Also:

>cant you just be a tomboy?
>you're so pretty, why would you ruin that?
>i dont know how to treat you anymore

And the most asked question:
>how will you have sex?!

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>>6747832
>because I was hands down more priviledged living as a woman

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>>6746323
>be on vacation to San Francisco to visit family
>me and my mom are staying in my rich aunts tiny ass million+ dollar apartment
>she's eccentric af, typical San Francisco person
>sitting at the table late at night
>they've been drinking
>start talking about me like I'm not even there
>all of the sudden ask me "why don't you have a girlfriend anon?"
>try to change the subject/avoid the question
>they keep asking me
>dad isn't here, aunt seems really cool, let my guard down
>"I-I might be gay?"
>mom stares at me blankly
>aunt gently smiles at me, "well, thats just fine"
>mixed feelings
Mom asked me if I was serious later, and I adamantly denied everything cause I was afraid she'd tell dad.

>>6746554
if you are gay/bi, y do you even care? you don't have to tell anyone untill you have a boyfriend.

if you are trans, well you are a degenerate and there is no way of not telling it. (i need help about this as well desu)

>>6746323
my brother baked a cake that read "I'm gay" and presented it to our family on his birthday.
>My mom "Your not gay just because you bake a cake, dont be so hard on yourself"

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>>6751802
>>"Your not gay just because you bake a cake, dont be so hard on yourself"

>>6751832
i had to explain in painful detail that my brother was trying to come out to her.
>had to explain why the cake was rainbow colored... Fuk how can anyone be this fucking clueless
whats worse is im related to her... im literally 50% her... its disturbing

>>6751849
>nerd moment

Actually you're not 50% of her. You're more of your grandparents then you are you parents. I know that doesn't make sense to you right now but a quick google search of genetics could better explain that to you.

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>tell mom i'm gay
>the VERY FIRST THING she does is talk about how her friends growing up had similar feelings that passed
>this was nearly a decade ago
really makes you think

>>6746381
She sounds like she's in denial because you did a poor job of explaining who you are to her.

Don't mean to place blame on you but if she's thinking something that isn't true, its logically your fault for not setting the record straight.

People can most past denial stages but only if you help them.

>>6751859
that makes me feel a bit better

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>>6746323
>come out as bi to mom
>"I had no idea you were gay!"

>>6748132
>a not gay person thinks he knows what it's like to be gay

wow what else is new

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>mfw when a relative suggested my 1 year old cousin might grow up to be gay because he likes to pick up a swiffer wet jet and pretend to clean

>>6751920
Normies are slightly crazy desu and low-key stunt all their children, not just the lgbt ones.

>>6747912
this is a blue board, mong

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>>6746323
>Hey mom, I think I like girls and boys.
> "That's selfish. You can only have one"

>>6746460

>"i'm just worried i won't see you in the afterlife"

>Implying they're not going to hell

LOL

>>6746554
>>6750647

I just gave them Avitale's developmental review to read. Would not recommend, it just doesn't click for cis normies like it does for trannies. Telling them my personal struggle instead or in addition to it, so they could see the parallels, would have probably been more productive.

>>6747382
>>6750089

I'm surprised FtMs get that too.

>>6747963

So you're Japanese?

>>6748051

That's the assumption/belief underlying my parents' treatment of the fact I'm trans.

>>6751859

What? What search terms should I use then since you can't explain it?

>>6751860

I'm a tranny and my dad told me there was a guy in his high school "who seemed to have the same confusion that you do when he was your age." He says now the guy is normal and has a family. But anyone who knows about older trannies knows they struggle for years as seemingly normal men. For all my dad knows, that guy could be going to motels to get fucked by guys off craigslist in lingerie, buying tons of women's clothes and purging them after a crisis of conscience, or jerking it to sissy hypno. He could have even just been a normal cis guy who was doing whatever it was he was doing in his youth for style/rebellion and my father mistook that for the guy thinking he was LGBT. I can't say for sure that's it, but hell, my dad thought my little brother would be the gay one and that I was normal, yet my brother's the one whose been dating the same girl since high school, so who's to say my dad's gaydar is worth a shit?

>>6750597

Just how scary is your dad?

>>6751869

I think that's definitely the case for me.

>>6753226

Maybe she thought you could only be satisfied if you had both at once.

>>6753546
>>>6751859
>What? What search terms should I use then since you can't explain it?
its basically not true...

>>6746460
>"this is what you get for watching too much bravo"
Lmao

>>6752494
it's a global rule you fucking retard

>coming out to my dog
>"woof woof"

>>6746411
I mean she's not wrong. You are not a girl. No amount of surgery and hotmones can change that my man.

>>6746323
>>6746381
>>6748098
>it's just a phase
lol then they get mad when you get surgery and it couldn't possibly be a phase anymore

>>6747832
>I was hands down more privileged living as a woman
I feel like as a man theres a lot more privilege pretaining to power and respect, but yeah as a passing/ attractive woman I get pampered a lot

>Dad, I'm gay
>"no shit."

>be told growing up that I'm going to be a lesbian
>go into the closet due to constant quips about it from parents
>spend all my time trying to convince them I'm straight
>fast forward to current year
>say that I am attracted to women after all
>"You're pretty straight, anon."

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>>6754479
This is my favourite post m

>come out to parents as trans
it's ok to be gay, you don't have to go that far

>>6746323
I never understood why people make such a deal about 'coming out', like for real if you want to be treated as normal the first step is act normal.

>>6746631
>omg does this mean you've been checking me out all this time?!"
I hate this. Why do het people assume every gay person of their gender is in to them? Like, bitch please, don't flatter your ugly ass.

>>6747963
I wish
> "Anon you're ruining my dreams of a big family, your sister has one daughter and is infertile, your brother is autistic, and you're trying to say you're a queer? I won't have any grandchildren when I die."
> "Anon go to therapy, get this issue fixed, we must have done something wrong." Mom breaks into tears.

Kill me I would give anything for my parents to say "gee golly glad my faggot son aint breeding"

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>"Do you find me attractive?"
>"If you were straight would you find her attractive?"
>"Are you a top or bottom?"
and the stupidest one
>(to a female friend about me) "If he was straight would you find him attractive?"

This is all from the same guy who I don't really know that well, at least not well enough for him to be asking me if i prefer dick up my ass or an ass on my dick. Apart from him I rarely get stupid questions thankfully

>>6757980
He wants to have sex with you.

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>>6746411
You will always have an XY chromosome, and no amount of surgery will ever change that.

>>6746352
Only the coolest kids suck dick

>>6757259

Fuck off, there's nothing redeeming about acting 'normal'. Half of the LGBT literature of the past 60 years has criticised acting normal, believing in normal relationships, gender roles, monogamy etc. Normal is oppressive as fuck.

>>6760592

>LGBT "literature"
>waaaah i'm being "oppressed" by a voluntary, monogamous relationship

KYS

>>6757980

Had a supervisor I was friends with who was way homophobic, but knew full well it was his own problem, so he kept it under wraps. What made me more uncomfortable than anything he ever said or did, was his friends who would ask about drag queens and how buttsex works, only when he was around. They were supposedly the "accepting" ones, but they used me as a way to ridicule that guy and make him feel like an asshole for walking away from the conversation.